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Do you want a receipt

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Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:45

I moved to England not that long ago.

In other countries that I lived in, they just gave me a receipt in the shops, everytime that I bought something. The receipt was always handed to me with the purchase.

Why in the UK do they not just give the receipt to you,

instead they always ASK you if you want a receipt.

What annoys me about it, is that it slows the shopping experience down so much.

Many times I have been called back to the till, to be asked if i want a receipt.

Example: I was in a small shop this morning. I only had a certain amount of time, as i was on the way to work. I was walking out of the door, when the woman at the till shouted at me "Wait. Come back! come back!".

I thought maybe my payment hadn't gone through, so I walked all the way back to her.

She said "Do you want a receipt?".

It drives me mad!

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Trendyname · 31/07/2025 00:02

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:56

It can't be that much paper waste. If loads of other countries give a receipt every time.

It is only the UK that I have experienced this in.

No loads of other countries don’t give receipt. Most Europeans countries don’t. Maybe you come from a country where there is not much awareness and consideration for environment if you argue back when other posters explain that it’s due to environmental reasons. I am originally from a country where consideration to environment is lower than in European countries but that does not want me to expect my adopted countries to do things the same way. I feel living in other countries should make people a bit open to doing things differently otherwise why even leave own country to live in a country if there way of doing things annoy you. Even in Switzerland, a pretty efficient country in so many ways, they ask if you want a receipt. You need to travel a bit more if you think UK is unique for asking before printing receipt.
Anyways, asking someone if you need a receipt does not take that long.

Yerdug · 30/07/2025 23:53

"Can I take your email for your receipt?"
No. Chelsea, love, just print it for me please.

Girlgoneinternational · 30/07/2025 23:34

I live in Spain and am frequently asked if I want the receipt.

JayJayj · 30/07/2025 23:28

A quick Google search tells you that in the UK over 11 billion receipts are printed and approximately 9.9 billion are thrown away.

Even without that do you not have common sense to think how often you actually need a receipt? How wasteful that is?

Spookyspaghetti · 30/07/2025 23:18

Theunamedcat · 30/07/2025 22:41

I take a receipt now because I dont have a bag as proof I haven't shoplifted i dont have every bank app on my phone so when I'm getting my dads shopping we always get a receipt as I cant just bring it up on my phone and security guards seem to prefer to shout and embarress people rather than check the tills/footage (yes I saw it in real life not on tiktok before anyone says "it never happens") so before I was less inclined to get a receipt now ive a regular forest full of paper scraps

This is a good point.

At our local Lidl you need to scan your receipt to exit the barrier at eve self checkout.

Not related but it annoys me that they forced everyone to move to self service under the guise that it would reduce queuing but now they only ever have half the self service tills available to use. (Lidl and ASDA) They are all card only so no one is manually cashing them up at night so there is literally no reason to have everyone stood in a massive queue for the privilege of scanning and bagging their own purchases.

brunettemic · 30/07/2025 23:16

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:56

It can't be that much paper waste. If loads of other countries give a receipt every time.

It is only the UK that I have experienced this in.

That would be because every other country is wasting paper. Pretty obvious really.

DelilahBucket · 30/07/2025 23:12

I own a shop. I ask customers if they would like a receipt when they have paid. Till rolls are far from cheap so I'm not printing unnecessarily. No one waits until you have pretty much left the shop to shout that question out. If you've walked away, you clearly don't want a receipt!

TicklishMintDuck · 30/07/2025 23:12

It’s to save paper. So do you want a receipt or not? If so, wait or ask for it, if not walk away. If you’re this stressed about a minor inconvenience, you may have bigger personal issues to address!

Spookyspaghetti · 30/07/2025 23:11

English people are really embarrassed about handing out receipts. A lot of people don’t want them and it’s a really stressful mini interaction that retail staff have to go through hundreds of times a day.

Back when I started working, handing out receipts was a part of the mystery shop/audit and you could fail it for not handling out the receipt. It was an important fraud prevention thing and you weren’t supposed to keep unwanted customer receipts by your till either.

But, as I said, people get embarrassed about handing them out.

Customers can be knobheads about a lot of things and min wage retail can be soul destroying. If people wouldn’t even hand their money to me then they would get a counter full of change back. People get really shocked when you treat them the same as they treat you.

Isitreallysohard · 30/07/2025 23:09

YANBU, but so many people don't care about receipts so that's why they ask now

Thatsjusthowitisyeah · 30/07/2025 23:07

You’re bonkers OP. If I think I might need the receipt in case of returning something I say “yes”, if not I say as I’m paying “I’ll just leave the receipt thanks.”

It adds no more time to the interaction than any other at a till: “do you need a hand packing?” “Do you need any bags?” “Cash or card?” “Do you need a receipt?”

These are all normal questions. If you know it’s the norm here then stop getting into mad self-inflicted, stressful scenarios over it. Just say “no need for a receipt thank you” as you hand over your cash or tap your card.

nopenotplaying · 30/07/2025 22:56

I remember when the paying for a bag thing came in. Drove me mad. Loads of shopping, nah was planning on juggling it home 😂 we’re all used to it now so take our own bags 😂

solando · 30/07/2025 22:49

okydokethen · 30/07/2025 22:26

It doesn’t save paper as often they just bin the receipt in front of you.
it's also a pain for returning anything if you say no thank you but they don’t tell you that.

Yes, I've noticed that, they just throw it in the bin. I'm sure a lot of it is to make returns more difficult

Theunamedcat · 30/07/2025 22:41

I take a receipt now because I dont have a bag as proof I haven't shoplifted i dont have every bank app on my phone so when I'm getting my dads shopping we always get a receipt as I cant just bring it up on my phone and security guards seem to prefer to shout and embarress people rather than check the tills/footage (yes I saw it in real life not on tiktok before anyone says "it never happens") so before I was less inclined to get a receipt now ive a regular forest full of paper scraps

Galoes · 30/07/2025 22:35

I was refusing receipts for a long time but I've started requesting a receipt at every till and cashpoint now. I realised that it was putting me at a potential disadvantage to not have one (I might have the transaction on my bank statement but it isn't itemised) and only saving the retailer money, so it was daft to put myself into that position.

okydokethen · 30/07/2025 22:26

It doesn’t save paper as often they just bin the receipt in front of you.
it's also a pain for returning anything if you say no thank you but they don’t tell you that.

Createausername1970 · 30/07/2025 22:25

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 21:57

Mumsnet is good for news updates and information about different topics. I like reading about those.

Mumsnet is not a place for kindness, empathy and support. We all know that

We must read different threads then.

I have found some of the threads on here very moving in terms of the support, understanding and empathy.

There are some arses that pop-up regularly who takes delight in twisting the knife, but they are in the minority.

But I am still Mumsnet bewildered why you posted if you are not expecting anyone to be supportive etc.

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 21:57

Createausername1970 · 30/07/2025 21:53

Then why are you here?

Really curious 🤔

Mumsnet is good for news updates and information about different topics. I like reading about those.

Mumsnet is not a place for kindness, empathy and support. We all know that

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Panterusblackish · 30/07/2025 21:56

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:56

It can't be that much paper waste. If loads of other countries give a receipt every time.

It is only the UK that I have experienced this in.

Of course it's a massive amount of paper waste.

Try saving all your receipts for a year and then imagine that for every single person.

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 21:56

ilovepixie · 30/07/2025 21:45

Just rude to everyone else 😂😂

If you don't like rudeness, why are you fine with people being rude to me on this thread

I've been called stupid twice now .I've been called unwell.

Strange that you don't like rudeness, but your fine when it is directed at me.

You are hypocritical

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 30/07/2025 21:56

I tell them that I do/don't need a receipt as I tap my card, job done.
I don't like wasting time.
It might save a tree or two.

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 21:54

ilovepixie · 30/07/2025 21:42

You wrote in your first post it is only in the UK I have experienced this! Do you not remember 😂😂

They are two completely different sentences.

Learn the English language.

"I've only experienced this in the UK"

Does not mean that i think

"this only happens in the U.K."

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Createausername1970 · 30/07/2025 21:53

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 14:37

It certainly is not my biggest issue.

Mumsnet is for minor moans.

Though i did once post about a more serious life issue on mumsnet once and i was told that i was wallowing in misery.

Mumsnet is definitely not the place to come if you want any kindness or empathy. Everyone knows that

Then why are you here?

Really curious 🤔

Createausername1970 · 30/07/2025 21:49

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 13:56

It can't be that much paper waste. If loads of other countries give a receipt every time.

It is only the UK that I have experienced this in.

Well maybe we are ahead of the curve!

As it's "only in the UK" you have experienced this. Good on us!

ilovepixie · 30/07/2025 21:45

Bunnybenty · 30/07/2025 15:56

You are clutching at straws now.

That doesn't make Sense.

How would me being rude to them make me call me back to ask me if i want a receipt. Right.....

No i am never rude to them.

Just rude to everyone else 😂😂