I’m late 20s & feel very very behind in life.
I grew up in the Midlands then moved to London for university a decade ago (statistics degree). I rent in London alone. That’s one of the reasons I feel behind in life. Seems like all of my non-London peers are busy with house renovations with partners. I’m definitely not in a position to buy…
I have been on a decent salary the majority of my 20s - my first job was on £30k then I got promoted at 26 to £45k. I feel like I have nothing to show for it, that’s mainly gone to cost of living. I want kids for example but just feel like I couldn’t afford them!
Additionally, last year was difficult. My manager sexually harassed me at work, I was managed out. I basically had to leave my last employer and seek work with a new employer and start my career from scratch, lost all my old network etc. As a result, I kind of feel like my life is on hold. I haven’t been dating etc, just in a place of trying to build my confidence back up. I work in data science. I am single.
Aibu? I guess I’m also posting for advice, as feel quite low. London living is the only thing I like about my life, so it’s hard to consider leaving.