Do you always go together to visit the overseas family?
I always have done previously but now, six years in, I really can’t be bothered. I don’t speak the language fluently (DP has no interest in helping me to learn), the family are lovely but busy living their lives, the location is beautiful but very rural and I’ve done everything worth doing, and DP’s focused on catching up with his friends and family. It feels like I spend 90% of my annual leave nodding and smiling.
AIBU to skip it next time?