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Really want to move

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Justwilliamah · 28/07/2025 15:50

Our son has got into a very good outstanding secondary that’s walking distance from our house.
Me and my partner have wanted to move from our area for a while now but our son is adamant he wants to stay in our current house and start his new secondary. We really don’t like the area we’re in and want to move further out (potentially countryside territory) so that we can have a more outdoors lifestyle (walking, cycling, country pubs etc). I feel depressed when I think about being stuck here for the next 6 years or so. My partner says there’s not much we can do now unless our son hates the school.
i wanted to add that selling the house would also release some equity for us which would make a difference to our lifestyles too.

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YodasHairyButt · 28/07/2025 15:55

His education is important and it’s only for a few short years.

Iloveacurry · 28/07/2025 15:55

You should have moved a few years ago, not left it just before your son goes to secondary school.

Justwilliamah · 28/07/2025 15:55

No, we’d had our house on the market throughout his year 5 and sold it but had a property fall through.

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Straightjacketsandroses · 28/07/2025 15:53

I don’t really understand why you are just questioning this now. Surely you should’ve been planning a move before your son applied for secondary? You can’t very well now say, ‘Oh actually, you’re not going to that school because we’re moving’… Where would he go? Are there schools there of an equal quality? It all seems a bit impulsive and chaotic to me so yes, YABU

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