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I just realised my last peiod was may 2021

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KillingMeWithSilence · 28/07/2025 13:02

AiBU to think that i am no longer peri?

no symptoms to speak of, or do they come later?

OP posts:
Topseyt123 · 28/07/2025 13:10

You are probably through the menopause now, assuming you are of roughly the right age for it (you don't say exactly).

Enjoy the freedom of it. Not everyone gets all (or in some cases even any) of the horrendous symptoms others describe.

I did have horrendous flooding periods for about a decade with various methods tried for stopping them but they always came back. I was just starting to insist on a hysterectomy and enquiring about going onto any waiting lists but then they just stopped. I had just turned 57 then. I'm 59 now and haven't had one since. Thankfully. It's such a relief and an emancipation.

CreationNat1on · 28/07/2025 13:06

Lucky lady, 4 years no period, any contraceptive involved?

Age?

Coffeeishot · 28/07/2025 13:05

If you have had no period for that lobf you are post menopausal, i dont know why you thought you were perimenipausal

Newyeargymwanker · 28/07/2025 13:05

You just realised your last period was 4yrs ago?

Wolfpa · 28/07/2025 13:04

How old are you? I didn’t have periods for about a decade and thought it was down to my contraception. Turned out I had a vitamin D deficiency and now they are like clockwork.

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