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Is it unreasonable to sell hand me downs?

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LuckyAquaExpert · 27/07/2025 23:28

Would you feel it was cheeky to see your hand me downs on Vinted? It's weirdly making me feel sentimental/pissed off.

I'd rather have them back to pass on to someone else in need. I passed them on thinking I was helping

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Walkthelakes · 27/07/2025 23:33

Depends if they have used them or not. If they’ve taken them off you but then just sold them I think they is cheeky. If they’ve used them for their kid and now are getting rid and are skint and could do with some spare cash I don’t see the harm. It’s hard to delver who gave whey sometimes

EmeraldShamrock000 · 27/07/2025 23:32

Did they use the items before selling them?
Contact them to say you would like to have them back after use.
Personally, if I give it away, it is gone, they can do what they like with it.
Next time let whoever is taking the clothing knows you want them back.