To think that approaching people whilst wearing this is unacceptable?

Do you get offended a lot op?

This, football words aren’t allowed outside the stadium. I don’t mind them joing in the chants inside though, it’s a bonding experience!

😂😂

I can't decide if this poster is serious or not. Imagine saying that to someone!
Some of these posts come straight from the 1950s.

I can seriously see where your daughter gets her "dweller" tendencies from
apple And tree and all that

I think in just a few years, you and your DD will look back and really laugh at this. ‘Remember when we bumped in to that really sweet, chatty girl who was telling us all about the local cats? But she had Fuck Off written on her tshirt? I was paranoid about you reading it as you were only 7, but it’s quite funny when you think about it.

I'd just say 'sometimes teenagers like things with rude or silly things written on them'. If she asks why then say 'because they think it's funny'.

If she keeps asking then it's because she wants to understand and she wants an answer rather than to be brushed off with I dunno.

Not as bad as i saw, A child of around 9/10 with a picture of a cat and underneath said Stroke my pussy now that's grim

You could have said, "I don't know why she's wearing that t-shirt.", and dismissed it out of hand.

I wouldnt like that Tshirt and wouldnt like my teenage daughter to wear it.

But you are an adult so you should really be ware that swearing is more complicated and nuanced than “bad and angry words”.

Why not take this as an opportunity to discuss the complexities and politics of swearing with your daughter?

You interpreted it as hostile. That’s not the same thing.

I also remember using words like fuck, crap etc at school with friends aged 7 or 8 and not knowing what they each meant or how bad each was on a scale, or that they had another meaning other than as a swear word and that they weren't to be said in front of grown ups. Also saying "twat" when I was about ten and my DM suddenly going quiet, shocked, then laughing when she realised I thought it was a variation on "twit". She just said "No, don't say that" and provided no further explanation. I also thought penis was spelt peeness and your vagina was spelt virgina as I never saw them written down until my parents bought me a facts of life book aged 11. On balance I think it's best just to explain things to your kids as they become curious, in an age appropriate and straightforward way, as actually the confusion can be more scary or embarrassing. DD1 asked how DD2 had got into my tummy when she was three.

A lot of people seem to find a t shirt that says ‘Woman: Adult Human Female’ to be extremely offensive.. where does it end, policing t shirts..

Omg do you live in Disney land. You can't control what your child sees outside the home. Youre totally overreacting.

I’m commenting on you implying there are only two options.

Oh please! If she’d turned up to babysit or to facilitate a church group wearing it I’d have been a bit 🤨 but otherwise crack on.

🤷‍♀️ in a few years she’ll be swearing too (for her to know it’s a ‘bad word’ she’s obviously heard it a few times already). No big deal. The vaping is the worst aspect anyway.

Hopefully your child picked up the teenagers empathy and love of animals, which is by far the most important aspect of this little interaction.

Get a grip.

Flew home from Majorca last week. Young woman (late teens/early 20s) was wearing a tshirt with ‘I ❤️dick’ on it, in huge letters lol.

She was flying with her sister and parents, not a friends trip to Magaluf.

I’m sure she thought she was being edgy, but she looked ridiculous on a flight full of families and pensioners. I’m sure she’ll cringe in a few years time when she looks back, but teens will be teens 🤣

I would be impressed that DD aged 7 read it and worked out what it meant. I'd just have a little light-hearted discussion with DD about what language is acceptable afterwards but think nothing else of it.

I remember when they were little becoming suddenly aware that I wasn't playing the radio friendly version of songs from my music app- oops.

Given the bad press that teenagers get, you should be focusing on the positives from this - engaging with you and your child, confident, interested in other people, polite etc etc. Probably what most parents would want from their teens.

Of course it's not acceptable but that's the point isn't it? Teenagers spend all their time (and have done for decades) trying to be provocative.....wearing skimpy clothes, listening to inappropriate lyrics, trying out all the swear words. It makes them feel grown up until they are actually grown up and then they realise they don't need to bother any more. Teen has succeeded in shocking you. I doubt her Mum even knows about that t shirt.

Just tell your dd that she's a teenager and sometimes teenagers like to act grown up but they get it all wrong.

People can have different opinions. I’m not trying to be cool or pretending I don’t care about it.
It genuinely wouldn’t bother me.
If the OPs child found it that uncomfortable and kept going on about it that’s down to her being told swearing is bad and that’s made her anxious.
My youngest 2 (8 and 5) wouldn’t even bring it up if they saw it.

Maybe, maybe it wasn't an instruction but a statement that indicates that she had a total dislike of 'offal' but the letters 'a' and 'l' came off when she was ironing the T-shirt?

Could be...

You could use the opportunity to teach her about lalochezia.