So I fell out with my sister and family about 10
yeara ago and have limited contact wit my parents and one sister but don’t talk to other sister. Now this “other” one wants the 3 siblings to meet up and discuss the “future” specifically what would happen to my dad if my mother died first. I really don’t want to meet her. One because I dont like or get on with her and two because I think it’s a bit disrespectful for us to meet and talk about my parents behind their back like that when entire of them have dementia and are very independent? I think the conversation should be with my dad and mum. At the end of the day we can’t force them to do anything and besides which they are both pretty stable and healthy at the moment. Who knows what will happen or which of them wjll go first/ I don’t know if speculating is very useful: what would you all do: I feel if I say no to the meeting I’ll be dubbed the “awkward” one again - as per usual really as that sums up my family’s view of me