Me and my friend have been friends for years. She went on a yearly holiday to a family villa in Spain for 2 weeks every year for £100 a week. I was always nice, asked about it, fed her cats, watered her plants and took my kids to Devon etc. I’m a single parent and Deven was a nice holiday. Last year I took my kids aboard after getting a new job which is full time and stressful. I’ve paid for a nice hotel and all inclusive and it’s a really treat again this year. I go without and save all year for my holiday. Today my friend announced she was off on holiday so I asked her all about it etc she said it’s another villa in Benidorm etc so I was really nice and interested she then proceeded to say in quite a nasty way that she offered an all inclusive hotel to her kids and they said they wouldn’t go on holiday somewhere kids wee in the pool she said I guess my kids are snobs. Ok I didn’t say anything at the time but I’m actually really upset. She’s never been nasty before and I don’t even talk about my holiday, it was pretty nasty how she said it and I’m wondering if I should message and say something? If so what should I say?