Genuinely would love to know what people think. Friend living abroad for years and comes back to visit DM quite regularly and, if time allows, we try to meet also. Friend has sibling who lives an hour drive away from DM. Friend asked previously if I could help with DM house clear out as does not have car while visiting, involved driving to dump, helping to load/unload my car etc. didn’t mind however took a few hours but thought if once off, am happy to help. Friend txts to say coming back to visit DM and would I be available to do same again. AIBU to feel a little annoyed? Where is the sibling? Sibling has a car, can they not help out? Am I being selfish? Also could both friend and DP not bring car over on ferry and spend a day just clearing together? I have family and value free time when not working. AIBU to not want to do this?