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To think it's crazy to be planning a holiday to the USA right now

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Fragmentedbrain · 26/07/2025 16:38

I know border control there has never been a relaxed experience but the risk of being detained arbitrarily for weeks or longer seems unacceptably high now.

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GiveDogBone · 27/07/2025 18:45

Look. there’s very limited risk, like no risk at all, of being detained arbitrarily for weeks unless you lie on your immigration form (which can really only be about previous convictions / being denied entry / overstaying previous visa, etc). And even then more likely to be just put on the next plane back.

However, I and many others (looking at their most recent tourist data) are boycotting the US and choosing to holiday somewhere where we feel more welcome. That's different, if the effect is the same.

WhatMyNameis · 27/07/2025 18:34

As a black woman I wouldn't go there if you paid me 🤷‍♀️

70percentbatterylife · 27/07/2025 17:16

Heading there in September and looking forward to it. I’ve got an Esta, I’m staying with friends and I’ve got nothing to hide. I’ll leave when I say I will and I have no dodgy connections. If someone wants to look at my phone, they’re more than welcome. All they’ll see is random searches on ChatGPT, loads of WhatsApp messages and of course Mumsnet.

Looking forward to a lovely holiday.

DdraigGoch · 27/07/2025 14:03

DonnaBanana · 27/07/2025 12:48

It’s such a high risk that every time it happens it ends up on the news and being discussed online. You’re more likely to die in a car crash on the way to the airport to be fair

Road safety is another reason to be hesitant about visiting the US, true.

Of course if airports like LAX had decent public transport you could just avoid that risk, but they don't.

DdraigGoch · 27/07/2025 13:50

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 27/07/2025 04:42

You don’t take citizenship. If he qualified for it upon birth (based on requirements for passing it down from a parent) then he automatically has it. He has to prove it to get the passport but not the citizenship that he will already have. It doesn’t matter that he is British and born/lives in uk, you can have two citizenships.
Therefore, if he does qualify as an American citizenship then he should have got a passport and be traveling on it.

Only if the parents apply for a CRBA before the child's 18th birthday.

DonnaBanana · 27/07/2025 12:48

It’s such a high risk that every time it happens it ends up on the news and being discussed online. You’re more likely to die in a car crash on the way to the airport to be fair

jeaux90 · 27/07/2025 12:36

Just back from holidays there and go there at least once a year for work or vacation. Never had issues and didn’t in January or the last two weeks.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 27/07/2025 12:33

Neeeemo · 27/07/2025 09:51

I went to America a few years back to visit my friend. I was kept at the airport for an hour being asked questions. I still do not know why until this day. They were asking if I was planning on marrying if I was there. The dates of birth of my friend and her children (which I had no idea about but wasn't allowed to phone and ask them!), my history, my job etc. I am just a normal person, no criminal history, work for the civil service, etc. Was bizarre and scary.

Wait..a few years back? 2021-2025?

saltinesandcoffeecups · 27/07/2025 12:25

From the article:

  • Merlos, who is originally from Honduras, and her children were being held inside a detention center near Ferndale,
  • Merlos had requested that her children stay with her during her detention, the agency said.
  • Merlos’ husband Carlos was detained several days later outside the family’s home in Portland, Oregon.
  • The couple’s immigration status is unclear.
  • Merlos’ sister, a legal resident of Canada, had stepped across the boundary while saying goodbye, “which triggered this unfounded accusation,” they said.
poetryandwine · 27/07/2025 11:43

Eyesopenwideawake · 27/07/2025 11:13

Huh? On what grounds? I'm not aware of people trying to enter the UK being arrested, detained without reason and summarily deported for no reason. Or maybe you are saying there's no good reason for foreigners to visit the UK. Which is a bit off.

I am saying that Level 2 travel advisories mean very little.

The Level 2 advisories for the UK specifically mention terrorist threats and anti-immigration riots, nothing to be proud of either. People are very occasionally killed. But it is exceedingly rare that travellers would be caught up in troubles.

For all the publicity, the same is true of people entering the US with paperwork in order also.

We all tend to seek out information confirming our biases, and - as your post I have quoted indicates - have a difficult time with that which refutes them.

Eyesopenwideawake · 27/07/2025 11:13

poetryandwine · 27/07/2025 09:49

The Foreign Office Travel Advisory on the US is Level 2, the mildest. The US and several other countries have Level 2 travel advisories on travel to the UK.

Do you recommend against travel to the UK on the same grounds, @Eyesopenwideawake ?

Huh? On what grounds? I'm not aware of people trying to enter the UK being arrested, detained without reason and summarily deported for no reason. Or maybe you are saying there's no good reason for foreigners to visit the UK. Which is a bit off.

Jitterbuggs · 27/07/2025 10:59

Tiedbutchorestodo · 26/07/2025 23:19

My DD went to NY earlier in the year and we’re planning a family trip next year to the US. We’ve no concerns over travelling anywhere else.

We also must have been very lucky as in all our trips (normally every other year ish) I’ve never had a grumpy border official - I’ve always found them quite friendly.

I'm an American citizen and I get grumpy border officials 99% of the time. My British husband always gets friendly ones. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Maybe they are confused about why I don't live in the states. Idk.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 27/07/2025 10:22

SabrinaThwaite · 26/07/2025 20:45

From experience, many US Border Control officers at the airports are themselves immigrants who have made it in the US and can’t understand why you wouldn’t want to be an American.

As someone who, in the past, has lived and worked in the US I agree with whoever it was who described America as the nicest third world county in the world. So I can see how those from other developing countries would think like that :)

Neeeemo · 27/07/2025 09:51

I went to America a few years back to visit my friend. I was kept at the airport for an hour being asked questions. I still do not know why until this day. They were asking if I was planning on marrying if I was there. The dates of birth of my friend and her children (which I had no idea about but wasn't allowed to phone and ask them!), my history, my job etc. I am just a normal person, no criminal history, work for the civil service, etc. Was bizarre and scary.

poetryandwine · 27/07/2025 09:49

Eyesopenwideawake · 26/07/2025 17:45

When the governments of several countries, inc. the UK, issue travel advisory notices about visiting the USA it's probably best to go elsewhere for now.

The Foreign Office Travel Advisory on the US is Level 2, the mildest. The US and several other countries have Level 2 travel advisories on travel to the UK.

Do you recommend against travel to the UK on the same grounds, @Eyesopenwideawake ?

CapeGooseberry · 27/07/2025 09:16

The story of the Australian travellers in Hawaii is only given from the travellers account. Given the mention of working online I suspect the issue was not just the lack of accommodation but also lack of available funds for a five week stay leading to a suspicion that they were intending to work. You just need to watch Australian border control to see travellers are regularly turned away from Australia for this reason.

For the chap who is a US citizen but adamant he won’t get a US passport - that is fine but it is also fine for the country he is so adamant he doesn’t want to acknowledge he is a citizen of to ask why when he is trying to visit that country.

As for getting the ‘ick’ at the idea of a country you are trying to enter looking at your phone for activities/activating against that country - what exactly do you think the purpose of border control is?

EyeLevelStick · 27/07/2025 09:00

NigelPonsonbySmallpiece · 26/07/2025 22:11

And it seems in those cases they had abided by all the rules and requirements for the b2 visa. There is nothing in black and white saying you must have accommodation booked. Certainly the people I have seen posting on the PCT groups who have been turned away have been turned away specifically for not having accommodation booked, and it’s not realistic to book accommodation for a six month hiking trip.

But it seems that the lack of booked accommodation raises suspicions that the trip isn’t genuine…and that’s all it takes. So I’d assume regardless of whether it’s a b2 or an esta if the border guard have suspicions your trip isn’t genuine then you can be denied entry.

The OP was about being denied entry in general, not a specific esta thread. I appreciate the reply I quoted said esta but in my opinion the cases I’ve linked to demonstrate the wider issue/risk at the border. Like I said in a post earlier if you’re going for a two week standard vacation to Disney you probably don’t have anything to worry about. As long as you have accommodation booked!

Well there is, really. As you know, when you apply for an ESTA you have to put in an address. You don’t have to update this when you next travel, but you do have to complete Advance Passenger Information to the airline, which includes a contact address. This has been the case for as long as I can remember (including when the green slips were in use before ESTAs).

The two girls (one of whom was actually travelling on a B2, according to reports) were unable to provide this information.

I’m not excusing heavy-handed behaviour, and I’m certainly not condoning anything DJT has done or said, but I have still seen no evidence that there’s an increased likelihood of being denied entry for ordinary folk holidaying within the requirements.

EyeLevelStick · 27/07/2025 08:42

This definitely appears to be heavy-handed, but there’s clearly much more to this story than is reported here, so I’m not sure how any conclusion can be drawn.

KrisAkabusi · 27/07/2025 08:16

But this was somebody who was already in the US (they claim illegally) who was arrested. Not someone who was arrested at the border and then detained for weeks. That's what the original poster was worried about. Nobody has yet been able to give an example of that happening. All the examples given in this thread so far are either of people arrested while already in the US, or who were never let in and sent back after no more than a couple of hours at the border.

KrisAkabusi · 27/07/2025 08:15

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Parker231 · 27/07/2025 07:14

Dancingintherainxxx · 27/07/2025 01:12

Do not go it's extremely dangerous.

What makes you think it’s extremely dangerous?

There are many much nicer more interesting countries to visit and we won’t go because of the threats to Canada but it’s no more dangerous than many European countries.

99bottlesofkombucha · 27/07/2025 07:09

RainSoakedNights · 26/07/2025 17:18

My brother went in April and they searched his phone, they made him give over his passcode or he would’ve been denied entry

What did that look like, searching his phone? Just opening social media apps and scanning timeline or more diligent? Gives me the ick.

PurBal · 27/07/2025 07:02

Hasn’t it always been the case? I had a similar experience to @Cososom20 years ago. I took the number of an US immigration lawyer with me, I didn’t need it.

MinnieMountain · 27/07/2025 06:50

My friend’s American BIL and her DSis won’t be travelling to the US whilst Trump is in power. He works for the US forces in GB, so he gets fast tracked through immigration. Apparently he’s concerned that she might get deported and he wouldn’t know for hours.

Ansjovis · 27/07/2025 06:44

I think it has always been a potential risk that has increased since Trump. I have a friend who was accidentally born in the middle east (his father was some sort of ambassador and he was born before they were scheduled to return to the UK for the birth) and he had a rough time at the border when Obama was president. Somehow I don't think he'll be trying now!

Last time I went I entered via Canada and they asked me if I lived in Canada three times in slightly different ways. I am autistic so this sort of thing stresses me out anyway and it was difficult for me not to point out that he'd already asked me that. Plus, the guy had pretty much my high level life story in front of him from my ESTA, he knew I didn't live in Canada! Definitely won't be going under Trump but the second someone more reasonable gets in I'm there.