I've only met her a couple of times, she's very close with one of my main friends.
I should add that they both speak another language, one that I have a very good grasp of but I'm not totally fluent in, so sometimes I may not be able to express myself the same or come across as 100% confident.
We met up as a 3 and I thought it had gone well, then she said to my friend about me 'I could tell she was nervous', ok, fair enough.
I did a balayage for my friend and then apparently this woman said behind my back, "That's not how it's done, I'll do it next time." Then...didn't do it?
Tried to get to know her more and we chatted a bit on social media, then she said to my friend "Oh she sent me another long message today."
Not sure why the friend kept telling me this..
Anyway, we were on a train me and the friend, and I think they were messing about by text. The friend showed me a couple of daft memes and stuff.
Then the friend suddenly said, oh no sorry I really can't show you that one, it's pretty bad..
I wish id there and then asked what it was, because it was then eating away at me.
However I felt like I didn't have the 'right' to demand what the message said and it was my friend's private phone.
Anyway it was still eating at me later on, I ended up a bit upset because it just feels like being at school again. My friend admitted she'd been sent some goofy meme from this woman and said the picture reminded her of me.
I will never see this woman again, I can see she's a horrible person now. Apparently my friend was pretty annoyed and the friend apologised. I wish I'd just said it earlier, but you can't really force someone to show you a message can you?
I know it says everything about her and who she is. I don't know what's wrong with some people really.