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To think this is hysterical nutrition advice?

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LadyMoglet · 26/07/2025 14:21

I eat chicken and fish most days but have a two days per week where I go meat free. On these days I often have 50g (uncooked) wholegrain pasta, tablespoon of homemade pesto and some veg such as broccoli, courgette, spinach, mushroom.
No added salt but a sprinkle of parmesan, pepper, garlic and herbs.

Sometimes I vary it with lentil soup.
It used to be cheese salad sandwiches but I wanted to up my fiber!

Unsolicited advice from colleague insists this is going to make me fat and metabolically ill.
I am not fat, and I don't have allergies or sensitivities, but a most definitely AM confused.
I am aware that it is none of his business, but I am wondering if this is a popular view of food now? It seems like the world has gone a bit bonkers with faddy diets.

Is this something else I haven't caught up with yet? Surely this is over the top?

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LemondrizzleShark · 26/07/2025 14:31

Does he imagine every single person in Italy is “fat and metabolically ill”?

mindutopia · 26/07/2025 14:31

It sounds like your colleague has food issues and is projecting his own anxiety around eating. That’s a perfectly normal and healthy diet.

That said, last time I took dc to the dentist, dentist said no fruit allowed, only meat and nuts as snacks. 🤷🏻‍♀️ We’ve ignored that.

LadyMoglet · 26/07/2025 14:31

I think it was the pasta!

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LemondrizzleShark · 26/07/2025 14:30

LoveWine123 · 26/07/2025 14:28

Which part is getting you ill? The pasta?

I am trying to imagine the horrors of “fattening” lentil soup

LadyMoglet · 26/07/2025 14:30

VoltaireMittyDream · 26/07/2025 14:26

It’s best to avoid talking to anyone in such great detail about what you eat every day. It gives people the impression you want advice.

it was unsolicited advice?
I think two of us were saying can't wait to get home, one was excited to be having a barbecue and I said I was looking forward to my pasta night. He burst in at this point. He didn't try to lecture about the woman's barbecue, just my bloody pasta.

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JeremyBearimysTimeKnife · 26/07/2025 14:30

Unhinged nonsense. I’m assuming colleague is in no way qualified to comment on what you eat, even if you’d asked. Which you didn’t. Ignore this.

LemondrizzleShark · 26/07/2025 14:29

You have a strange colleague who seems to have got all of his nutritional knowledge from TikTok. No, it isn’t a standard view of food these days. He is being a weirdo (and possibly has an eating disorder).

LoveWine123 · 26/07/2025 14:28

Which part is getting you ill? The pasta?

LadyMoglet · 26/07/2025 14:27

Sorry, I forgot to add I presume he is referring to the demon carbs.

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VoltaireMittyDream · 26/07/2025 14:26

It’s best to avoid talking to anyone in such great detail about what you eat every day. It gives people the impression you want advice.

LemondrizzleShark · 26/07/2025 14:26

How is a bowl of pasta twice a week going to make you fat? And what exactly does “metabolically ill” mean? That is not a recognised medical diagnosis.

MidnightPatrol · 26/07/2025 14:26

I’m not clear why this diet is going to make you ‘fat and ill’?

ViciousCurrentBun · 26/07/2025 14:23

Ignore him, the messages around eating are wild currently. Moderation is the key and not too much UPF. He has probably been on tik tok.

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