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Disappointed by Turkey hotel

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Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 10:58

Currently doing my first Turkey holiday with my two young adult DC. Backstory- we usually do Greece self catering but I wanted something different and more luxurious and relaxing as they’ve both just finished exams. And perhaps a bit busier than quiet backstreet Greece as we are alone and usually go with family. I was told Turkey 5 star was amazing. Booked through Jet2 (we are UK based) and paid £6600 for 9 days AI at a 5 star beachfront hotel. And I’m really disappointed.

Hotel is at least 95% German. Food is pretty much all German. Entertainment is mostly just in German. Staff speak German - they can’t understand us and we are wasting drinks due to communication problems (and I’m only asking for coke, sprite, and water). Now I don’t like the Brits abroad hotels, I love multi national but if I wanted to be this immersed in German I’d have gone to Germany.

There are other issues. Sunbeds!!! There are not enough. I’m up at 8 to get ones. The bathroom is open plan - the wash hand basin is off the DCs room so I’m teeth brushing by torch light at 7.45 so we are not all up at that time. The shower and toilet are only separated from communal room areas by frosted (but still slightly see through) glass doors so privacy isn’t great. The WiFi is really poor (I know I know but it’s the DC’s holiday too and they want to watch stuff like today’s F1 race).

I have gone to one other AI in Cape Verde which I love. Amazing food. Plenty of sunbeds. Animation staff speak an amazing variety of languages. All nationalities there. WiFi reaches all over the resort. It’s cheaper than this holiday.

Advice please from those who go to Turkey. AIBU to be disappointed in this for my money? Were my expectations too high?

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Notmyluck · 26/07/2025 12:17

Turkey is a big place OP. Where abouts is your hotel side?? I've been twice. I have done Magic life Masmavi in Belek and Paloma Orenda in Side I knew there would be quite a few German people. Masmavi was my favourite.

It's best to watch YouTube videos or join the FB groups before booking a hotel.

Fanacapan · 26/07/2025 12:17

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/07/2025 12:08

Making a complaint based on what, exactly? If you don’t want to encounter anyone who isn’t British, don’t travel overseas 🤷‍♀️

Based on the fact it was not stated in the hotel description that it catered mainly for Germans. If you are paying for entertainment etc that you can’t enjoy you should be refunded. This is the consumer programme’s advice, not mine!

viques · 26/07/2025 12:15

I am not surprised that a hotel for Turkeys failed to meet your expectations. Next time try booking a Turkish hotel

Brefugee · 26/07/2025 12:14

I'm a German speaker. The words coke, sprite and fanta are the same

HTH

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 26/07/2025 12:13

Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 12:05

Planning to go into Side tomorrow. It’s currently 45 degrees so designated a pool day 🤣

Its so hot there at the moment isn't it? I have friends there right now who are melting

Hallehills · 26/07/2025 12:09

I had a similar situation in Egypt. First things first, talk to the rep and explain the issues. How far into the trip are you? Because they may see if they can move you to a different hotel if necessary (if you have the energy for all that!). I would also take pics of sunbeds, food choices, record the entertainment etc and ideally get written evidence of the correspondence between you and the rep/Jet2 so that you can make a complaint when back in the UK. Chances are you will get a partial refund or a voucher for future travel. When we had our issue, the biggest thing they wanted was some kind of proof that we had complained while at the hotel and given them a chance to fix the situation. I think for what you spent, and considering its AI in Turkey, you should be having a way better experience! We've spent less than that to go to the Maldives for 2 weeks!

reluctantbrit · 26/07/2025 12:09

Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 12:07

You would think they are the same words but we keep getting Coke Zero when we want coke, fizzy water when we want still, and two drinks when we want one. Small things but I hate the waste.

I found Coke Zero definitely replaced Diet outside the UK and often is the standard unless you really say you want the full fat one. Fizzy water is standard in most countries as well, not just Germany.
Maybe look at the brand they are serving.

German for still water is "Ohne Sprudel" if that helps.

mcmooberry · 26/07/2025 12:09

How disappointing for you! We had this once in Crete, no other English speaking children for ours to talk to. Risking disappointment ourselves is the reason we are returning to the same hotel (again in Crete but not the abovementioned one) for the forth year in a row next month. We literally can't face spending thousands and looking at each other and saying "We wish we were at the B hotel"

edited to say would recommend asking rep if any chance of moving.

Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 12:08

KassandraOfSparta · 26/07/2025 12:04

Do people really think they are being clever posting "what is the matter with Germans" or "what is German food"? Or just trying to show that they are super cool or something? Weird.

OP has paid for an AI holiday which includes things like entertainment - which she cannot get the benefit of as it is in German and she can't understand it. The bar staff don't speak English and can't understand requests for a Coke/Sprite. The bathroom arrangements don't match what she saw online. The hotel is catering for German food preferences - assuming meat, potatoes, veg, traditional fare - rather than for international tastes. She is not getting the wi-fi she paid for either.

I have never been to Turkey but have been to a lot of AI resorts in the med and most places are brilliant at catering to all the different nationalities. DS was super impressed that the staff could make announcements in Spanish, English, French, German, Dutch and occasionally Swedish. Yes you'd find platters of cold meat and cheeses at breakfast to cater to the German market, but also cereals, cooked items, fruit and juices.

@Missmydog20 did your Jet2 rep give you a whatsapp number? This is the best way of getting in touch with a local rep who speaks English. Message them and lay out your concerns, focusing on the fact you paid for X and are getting Y rather than there being too many Germans. The bathroom, the entertainment you cannot get the benefit of etc etc.

Thank you.

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HaveANiceFuckingDay · 26/07/2025 12:08

It's not the Sunlife Magic hotel is it ? I'm going there ..
Hope it gets better for you soon especially at that cost

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/07/2025 12:08

Fanacapan · 26/07/2025 12:02

I’ve literally seen a similar story on Rip Off Britain this week! Hotel all catering for Germans, booked through TUI. The conclusion was that it should be stated in the hotel details, I can’t remember if the couple were moved or if they got a refund or both. It’s worth making a complaint!

Making a complaint based on what, exactly? If you don’t want to encounter anyone who isn’t British, don’t travel overseas 🤷‍♀️

Peoniesandcats · 26/07/2025 12:08

Oh no! Can I ask where you’ve booked? I’ve booked Lara barut in Antalya for next year but reviews look good and was also recommended to me. Also my first trip to Turkey.

reluctantbrit · 26/07/2025 12:07

@KassandraOfSparta - every hotel I have been to has a "continental" part of the buffet and I have seen plenty of non-Germans eating deli meat, ham, cheese. Something I personally don't eat for breakfast and hardly ever in a restaurant.

That's quite a weird assumption.

Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 12:07

reluctantbrit · 26/07/2025 12:05

As a German I now really want to know what you think a Turkish hotel is serving as "German food"?

We had been to some AIs (not Turkey) where the nationality mix was quite German heavy, not real idea why but with a bi-lingual DD, she was lucky as the TUI kids club only offered German speaking staff.
We didn't look out for it, the hotel was acutally recommended by British friends.

I don't think we ever came across staff who don't speak English at all and Coke, Sprite and Fanta are the same words, so that can't be the issue.

You would think they are the same words but we keep getting Coke Zero when we want coke, fizzy water when we want still, and two drinks when we want one. Small things but I hate the waste.

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Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 12:05

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 26/07/2025 12:02

Just seen you are in Side. Side is fantastic. If you can go out and explore sometimes. Visit the ruins. Go to an Ockabasi restaurant, have a day at a beach bar. I can highly recommend Gua beach bar for this. And try the German food - it might just be really nice.

The sunbeds situation- perhaps see if staff have spares in storage. Some will get more beds out when asked

Planning to go into Side tomorrow. It’s currently 45 degrees so designated a pool day 🤣

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reluctantbrit · 26/07/2025 12:05

As a German I now really want to know what you think a Turkish hotel is serving as "German food"?

We had been to some AIs (not Turkey) where the nationality mix was quite German heavy, not real idea why but with a bi-lingual DD, she was lucky as the TUI kids club only offered German speaking staff.
We didn't look out for it, the hotel was acutally recommended by British friends.

I don't think we ever came across staff who don't speak English at all and Coke, Sprite and Fanta are the same words, so that can't be the issue.

KassandraOfSparta · 26/07/2025 12:04

Do people really think they are being clever posting "what is the matter with Germans" or "what is German food"? Or just trying to show that they are super cool or something? Weird.

OP has paid for an AI holiday which includes things like entertainment - which she cannot get the benefit of as it is in German and she can't understand it. The bar staff don't speak English and can't understand requests for a Coke/Sprite. The bathroom arrangements don't match what she saw online. The hotel is catering for German food preferences - assuming meat, potatoes, veg, traditional fare - rather than for international tastes. She is not getting the wi-fi she paid for either.

I have never been to Turkey but have been to a lot of AI resorts in the med and most places are brilliant at catering to all the different nationalities. DS was super impressed that the staff could make announcements in Spanish, English, French, German, Dutch and occasionally Swedish. Yes you'd find platters of cold meat and cheeses at breakfast to cater to the German market, but also cereals, cooked items, fruit and juices.

@Missmydog20 did your Jet2 rep give you a whatsapp number? This is the best way of getting in touch with a local rep who speaks English. Message them and lay out your concerns, focusing on the fact you paid for X and are getting Y rather than there being too many Germans. The bathroom, the entertainment you cannot get the benefit of etc etc.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 26/07/2025 12:02

Just seen you are in Side. Side is fantastic. If you can go out and explore sometimes. Visit the ruins. Go to an Ockabasi restaurant, have a day at a beach bar. I can highly recommend Gua beach bar for this. And try the German food - it might just be really nice.

The sunbeds situation- perhaps see if staff have spares in storage. Some will get more beds out when asked

Fanacapan · 26/07/2025 12:02

I’ve literally seen a similar story on Rip Off Britain this week! Hotel all catering for Germans, booked through TUI. The conclusion was that it should be stated in the hotel details, I can’t remember if the couple were moved or if they got a refund or both. It’s worth making a complaint!

Winteriscoming80 · 26/07/2025 11:58

Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 11:44

Which hotel?

Paloma Oceana

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 26/07/2025 11:48

LilacBow45 · 26/07/2025 11:01

Did you research the hotel properly? Seems like issue that would’ve been highlighted on trip advisor, YouTube reviews and hotel facebook groups. I honestly think this is your error, there’s plenty of fantastic hotels in Turkey without there issues

Totally agree with this. You sound like you didn't do your research. The aforementioned sources would have told you all this complete with photos.

Turkey 5 stars can be absolutely fantastic. Next time you go, join Facebook groups of the area you are going to, scan TripAdvisor for reviews and you wont make the same mistake again.

hayal · 26/07/2025 11:48

We went to Belek, stayed at a 5 star golf resort. It was full of Russian's.
I'm not sure if spending any more money would get you any better company, however the facilities and staff may be more what your expecting.
To be honest, it wasn't a pleasant holiday and we wouldn't return.

Mathsdebator · 26/07/2025 11:45

We've stayed in Side Star Elegance in Side. Multi national - food was fantastic 😋

Missmydog20 · 26/07/2025 11:44

Winteriscoming80 · 26/07/2025 11:41

Yep that’s where we were side in Antalya.

Which hotel?

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JMSA · 26/07/2025 11:43

I’ve never had an issue in Turkey with staff not understanding English. And how can the food be all German?

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