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Malnourished starving children in Gaza

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babyproblems · 26/07/2025 06:42

The photos that appeared this morning on my news updates of mothers holding their children, dying of starvation and extreme malnutrition in Gaza have absolutely broken my heart. I am not particularly news focused, of course I’ve followed it all but this morning it has stopped me in my tracks and took my breath away. As a mother of a 3yo DS who is sleeping peacefully in his bedroom, whilst we have a fridge full of food downstairs and a life of peace, I feel so sorry that those poor mothers and children are living this hell so undeserved and also so so lucky we have the peace we do…
I don’t really know what the point of my post is; I suppose I’m screaming When Will This End inside and want to tell everyone to not take the freedom and peace we have for granted; use your right to vote and use your privilege to make informed choices that steer the world away from conflict towards peace…

Sending a handhold to all the mothers’ whose lives are not being lived in peace and whose children are suffering 🕊️💔

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Dangermoo · 27/07/2025 09:49

I can imagine one's mind does get totally blown, when it's overloaded with one way data.

PunctuateTheGarden · 27/07/2025 08:38

mellymoop · 27/07/2025 03:27

Hamas actively want their citizens to die for PR reasons. Hamas are not starving, but they let the babies starve? Their evil, sick mindset is not really comprehensible for the majority of people.

Israel share the responsibility for the starving babies. Using hunger as a weapon of war is evil and sick you are right there. It's hard to comprehend how the Israeli Gov are allowing this to happen and yet there are people on this thread justifying it - which is totally mindblowing.

ClareBlue · 27/07/2025 03:35

mellymoop · 27/07/2025 03:27

Hamas actively want their citizens to die for PR reasons. Hamas are not starving, but they let the babies starve? Their evil, sick mindset is not really comprehensible for the majority of people.

The ideology is entrenched in both sides. Israel is better at the extermination at the moment, but Hamas would do exactly the same if they had power to do it. Both sides see it as a fight for survival that doesn't have the boundaries we like to think there should be.

Barnbrack · 27/07/2025 03:32

OrangeHearted · 26/07/2025 21:04

The Bibas babies were murdered and strangled by Hamas and their bodies held ransom. No condemnation on the protest marches against the monsters that did that. Not once - never. Why not eh? It's more pertinent to ask WHY are their lives not as worthy as Gazan children to the western pro Gazan supporter. The children who are not getting aid in Gaza are suffering at the hands of Hamas - who are not handing out the aid. Hamas who use money instead of for food for bombs and tunnels. By not speaking out on protests against Hamas I believe that the result is supporting the oppression of Gazan children.

Do you maybe recall the condemnation at the time because I do. Do you realize it was almost 2 years ago? Given your concern for children killed in this conflict can you name a Palestinian child killed in the war? Or a family killed?

The privelege in the media of the coverage of their individual tragedy is that I can easily picture their faces and many hours of media time were devoted to that 1 family. There isn't enough media time in the world to dedicate that amount of cov rage to each child and family murdered in Gaza by the Israeli government. Each individual gazan baby is as important as each individual Israeli baby, or should be, but little white babies get a lot more coverage than little brown babies.

ClareBlue · 27/07/2025 03:29

Barnbrack · 27/07/2025 03:13

I imagine to reach a wider audience and highlight to those who aren't automatically wanting to be involved in the conversation the dire situation being experienced in Gaza? To allow those who aren't as aware to be made aware?

Exactly. Discussing humanitarian crisis, no, get the threads sorted on a social media platform.
Life goes on, I suppose..

mellymoop · 27/07/2025 03:27

Hamas actively want their citizens to die for PR reasons. Hamas are not starving, but they let the babies starve? Their evil, sick mindset is not really comprehensible for the majority of people.

ClareBlue · 27/07/2025 03:18

And if you ever want to know how a country has actually responded to humanitarian crisis on their border as aposed to marching in their capital city with flags or posting on social media then Google Jordan and migration.

Barnbrack · 27/07/2025 03:13

gamerchick · 26/07/2025 23:26

Why did you post this thread in AIBU OP, instead of the board set up for it?

I imagine to reach a wider audience and highlight to those who aren't automatically wanting to be involved in the conversation the dire situation being experienced in Gaza? To allow those who aren't as aware to be made aware?

ClareBlue · 27/07/2025 03:09

It a tragedy. Egypt of course could open it's border to help this disaster. What political reasons to not do this. This is an absolute humanitarian catastrophe. Why are the International community not putting pressure on Egypt. Forget about appealing to good nature of Israel, that won't work. This is only a contained prison for starvation because Egypt has closed a border. Why would they do that in the face of dead children in the neighbours. We all feel revulsion, but still that border is closed. Open it and feed children.
The reason. Because borders have been open to Palestine and their supporters in the past and the Country doing it has been destabilised by militant activity. Egypt knows that and refuse to open the border. Children stave. We say it's a tragedy. But children are the price for political aims. Shame on them.

CJsGoldfish · 27/07/2025 02:49

Mewling · 26/07/2025 15:29

Nobody’s blind to what Hamas are doing. But Israel’s been committing war crimes for a while now, as confirmed by a range of different international organisations. Medics, journalists, children: nobody is safe. Doctors raped to death, whole families wiped out whilst their children watch. And if one comments on this being appalling, we’re told that everyone likes to blame the Jews, and anti-semitism is wielded like a stick. False equivalences - why don’t you care about all the other wars? - as if we can’t care about it all.

October 7th was a tragedy. Sudan is a tragedy. Gaza is a tragedy. Mankind, driven by religion, glorying in slaughter. It’s sickening.

Israel has been committing war crimes for over 50 years, all in pursuit of the same end goal.
Their supporters have consistently justified the actions taken to get there, and they’re not about to acknowledge any wrongdoing now.
The irony is absolutely mindblowing. 🤷‍♀️

..invariably the children have had other medical conditions or need specialist food/milk which isn't available
It doesn’t help that Israel has targeted hospitals and medical facilities, not to mention the attack on an ambulance convoy, killing all of the paramedics.
As long as supporters can deflect with “but Hamas,” it seems there’s no limit to what Israel can do without scrutiny or accountability.
This has been a long-awaited endgame, and now they’re executing it, with overwhelming backing.

After 11 weeks of Israel withholding food and aid, it’s far more reasonable to conclude that children are starving because of that, not because every single one has some pre-existing medical condition.
Surely you have to wonder how many of those "medical conditions" are actually the result of Israel’s military campaign to clear Gaza?
We could go in circles, but the reality speaks for itself.

If convincing yourself that the images coming out of Gaza are "fake" brings you comfort, then by all means, carry on.
This is directed at the general "you", you know, the ones we see all over this thread and others like it. No one’s really confused anymore by the constant cries of "fake news." That phrase has become mainstream, shorthand for people unwilling or unable to face realities that challenge their carefully constructed beliefs.
We see you

PinkBobby · 26/07/2025 23:36

cimena · 26/07/2025 23:21

I know what you mean. I can’t decide- is it people who genuinely believe this or is it an op. Some of it definitely looks like an op. It’s probably a mix I guess. Whatever it is, it’s not good.

Obviously Hamas did a terrible thing. That’s just a fact. The history of wrongs on both sides is also a fact. But we seem to currently have a quite bizarre attempt to paint a nation as cowering victims assaulted on all sides by a vicious enemy when every piece of evidence is pointing to that not being right now the case and in fact it being the opposite, or near enough.

It is bizarre, isn’t it. Because even if you want to present it as an Israel or Hamas pick a side situation, you can surely ‘pick’ Israel and still admit that they have not acted with humanity?

To be honest, I enjoy debate and discussion about politics and I don’t mind being proven wrong or apologising for not getting something right. So, I’m genuinely seeking for someone with that opinion to show me everything they’ve got so I can see why they feel so strongly about the narrative you’ve mentioned. It’s not about me googling the info because I know how I’ve formed my opinion and the various sources that have contributed to it. I want to know why other people are happy to ignore so many sources in favour of (what appears to be) one source that is clearly going to present a bias narrative (the Israeli government). I can only assume they have other sources I’ve not found and are so credible that they trump all the sources that suggest Israel is playing at least some role in the pain and suffering.

abracadabra1980 · 26/07/2025 23:26

Whether you have any bias toward the conflict as in who is right and who is wrong, at the end of the day the punishment from Israel and it's Government has gone way beyond what the world agrees with regarding October 7th. As my mum used to say, 'two wrongs don't make a right'. I sometimes feel that in my lifetime there will never be peace in these regions. Poor, poor hostages, and innocent women, children and babies. And yes, OP, many a night I go to bed and thank my lucky stars I have a roof over my head and my DC are safe.

gamerchick · 26/07/2025 23:26

Why did you post this thread in AIBU OP, instead of the board set up for it?

cimena · 26/07/2025 23:21

PinkBobby · 26/07/2025 23:06

Yes - it’s a perspective I’m genuinely trying to understand by asking for sources for all the ‘facts’ that are being shared by the Pro-Israel posters and I’m also looking for any admission from them that Israel may have got at least some things wrong/have played some role in the suffering/death of innocent people.

I find it impossible to understand the ‘Israel is good’ narrative with all the evidence available to us from international organisations and charities plus the media and no one is offering independent reliable evidence to counter it all. I feel like I must be missing something as it makes no sense to me that people can seemingly blindly support Israel without the evidence to support their opinion/with the heaps of evidence that suggests they have made terrible decisions that have led to a lot of pain and suffering.

I know what you mean. I can’t decide- is it people who genuinely believe this or is it an op. Some of it definitely looks like an op. It’s probably a mix I guess. Whatever it is, it’s not good.

Obviously Hamas did a terrible thing. That’s just a fact. The history of wrongs on both sides is also a fact. But we seem to currently have a quite bizarre attempt to paint a nation as cowering victims assaulted on all sides by a vicious enemy when every piece of evidence is pointing to that not being right now the case and in fact it being the opposite, or near enough.

PinkBobby · 26/07/2025 23:06

Dideon · 26/07/2025 22:42

As crackers as it may seem many of the Genocide denying zealots on here seem to believe that Isreal is the real victim.

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Yes - it’s a perspective I’m genuinely trying to understand by asking for sources for all the ‘facts’ that are being shared by the Pro-Israel posters and I’m also looking for any admission from them that Israel may have got at least some things wrong/have played some role in the suffering/death of innocent people.

I find it impossible to understand the ‘Israel is good’ narrative with all the evidence available to us from international organisations and charities plus the media and no one is offering independent reliable evidence to counter it all. I feel like I must be missing something as it makes no sense to me that people can seemingly blindly support Israel without the evidence to support their opinion/with the heaps of evidence that suggests they have made terrible decisions that have led to a lot of pain and suffering.

MissyB1 · 26/07/2025 22:54

Dideon · 26/07/2025 22:42

As crackers as it may seem many of the Genocide denying zealots on here seem to believe that Isreal is the real victim.

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I guess they will convince themselves of anything 🤦‍♀️

Dideon · 26/07/2025 22:42

PinkBobby · 26/07/2025 22:18

The killing of those children was a horrendous tragedy. Are you saying there should be condemnation at marches that are about stopping harm to Gazan civilians? I’m not sure going to a Gaza march which aims to focus on protecting innocent Gazans automatically means you don’t feel exactly the same about the death of innocent Israeli children. Like when horrendous acts happen in the UK to innocent babies. People don’t go out and protest each time they read about it but they certainly feel horrified and/or heartbroken by what has happened.

I think protests tend to happen when something is happening over a prolonged period of time and gains momentum amongst the population or when something significant happens that shocks a large group of people at once. Yes, the death of one child isn’t to be weighed up against the death of another child but when people hear that hundreds or perhaps thousands of children have been killed, it makes sense that they want to do something and options are limited. I understand that the figures from Gaza can be questioned but looking at photos from Gaza, reports from drs who have worked there and hearing about the war crimes committed, it’s not hard to believe that many children have been caught up in this conflict.

In terms of the aid situation, and the suffering of innocent Gazans more generally, are you able to assign any blame to Israel or have they done no wrong in your eyes?

As crackers as it may seem many of the Genocide denying zealots on here seem to believe that Isreal is the real victim.

Hedgehogbrown · 26/07/2025 22:38

savvy7 · 26/07/2025 10:27

Please lobby your MP and sign the various petitions at Oxfam, Save the Children etc. I started a thread recently on this subject with survey links.

Yes you all need to write to your MP. They have to act of they see people are bothered.

Hedgehogbrown · 26/07/2025 22:28

Letstheriveranswer · 26/07/2025 08:44

The food is actually sitting inside Gaza but the problem seems to be in distributing it...people are desperate and start looting, it's not safe for lorry drivers to drive it in, Hamas attacks people trying to get aid and if anyone gets shot in the violent chaos Israel get blamed, so they want the UN to take responsibility for getting it to distribution centres but the UN are refusing.

Hamas are obstructing everything because they want to deliver it but then they steal it and sell it at high prices.

There are plenty of videos from inside Gaza of people clearly stating that Hamas are fully responsible for their misery.

It's very complex and the situation is catastrophic.

Having said that, there has been so much use of AI imaging and pictures from other conflicts and attributed to being pics from Gaza, that it's hard to know what is and isn't truth. Plus all the previous times we were told there was famine, and there wasn't, and even the UN finally admitted there wasn't. When the hostages were released every single man (not many women were out) in the Gazan crowds looked very well fed, clean and with fresh haircuts - and that was after we were previously told there was famine.

I hope it all ends soon.

Meanwhile I will wait for this thread to go down the inevitable route....

You are brainwashed mate. The people of Gaza are starving and Israel are shooting them at aid centres. Hamas are dickheads, but Israel are committing genocide.

PinkBobby · 26/07/2025 22:18

OrangeHearted · 26/07/2025 21:04

The Bibas babies were murdered and strangled by Hamas and their bodies held ransom. No condemnation on the protest marches against the monsters that did that. Not once - never. Why not eh? It's more pertinent to ask WHY are their lives not as worthy as Gazan children to the western pro Gazan supporter. The children who are not getting aid in Gaza are suffering at the hands of Hamas - who are not handing out the aid. Hamas who use money instead of for food for bombs and tunnels. By not speaking out on protests against Hamas I believe that the result is supporting the oppression of Gazan children.

The killing of those children was a horrendous tragedy. Are you saying there should be condemnation at marches that are about stopping harm to Gazan civilians? I’m not sure going to a Gaza march which aims to focus on protecting innocent Gazans automatically means you don’t feel exactly the same about the death of innocent Israeli children. Like when horrendous acts happen in the UK to innocent babies. People don’t go out and protest each time they read about it but they certainly feel horrified and/or heartbroken by what has happened.

I think protests tend to happen when something is happening over a prolonged period of time and gains momentum amongst the population or when something significant happens that shocks a large group of people at once. Yes, the death of one child isn’t to be weighed up against the death of another child but when people hear that hundreds or perhaps thousands of children have been killed, it makes sense that they want to do something and options are limited. I understand that the figures from Gaza can be questioned but looking at photos from Gaza, reports from drs who have worked there and hearing about the war crimes committed, it’s not hard to believe that many children have been caught up in this conflict.

In terms of the aid situation, and the suffering of innocent Gazans more generally, are you able to assign any blame to Israel or have they done no wrong in your eyes?

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/07/2025 22:00

OrangeHearted · 26/07/2025 21:04

The Bibas babies were murdered and strangled by Hamas and their bodies held ransom. No condemnation on the protest marches against the monsters that did that. Not once - never. Why not eh? It's more pertinent to ask WHY are their lives not as worthy as Gazan children to the western pro Gazan supporter. The children who are not getting aid in Gaza are suffering at the hands of Hamas - who are not handing out the aid. Hamas who use money instead of for food for bombs and tunnels. By not speaking out on protests against Hamas I believe that the result is supporting the oppression of Gazan children.

There was worldwide outrage. Rightly so,

ZoomingSusan · 26/07/2025 21:58

custardlover · 26/07/2025 08:48

It is disgusting. I read a lot of ‘Hamas’ in a PP and sure that is a factor but the most significant one is surely the country blocking aid and then murdering children and families who then try to access the little that is allowed. It’s a shocking, despicable war crime.

Hear hear.

cimena · 26/07/2025 21:45

OrangeHearted · 26/07/2025 21:13

So what should happen to Hamas? Are they to remain to oppress and starve their people? Wow.

it’s not Hamas starving the Palestinians. As you well know

cimena · 26/07/2025 21:44

OrangeHearted · 26/07/2025 21:11

Incorrect. We see it all the time. No protests against Hamas at pro palestine marches.

If your expectation is that people will be protesting Hamas at events that are nothing to do with protesting Hamas then I don’t know what to tell you, other than that your diversion is obvious and not very smart

MiloMinderbinder925 · 26/07/2025 21:34

OrangeHearted · 26/07/2025 21:04

The Bibas babies were murdered and strangled by Hamas and their bodies held ransom. No condemnation on the protest marches against the monsters that did that. Not once - never. Why not eh? It's more pertinent to ask WHY are their lives not as worthy as Gazan children to the western pro Gazan supporter. The children who are not getting aid in Gaza are suffering at the hands of Hamas - who are not handing out the aid. Hamas who use money instead of for food for bombs and tunnels. By not speaking out on protests against Hamas I believe that the result is supporting the oppression of Gazan children.

Israel stopped UNRWA who were the biggest distributors of aid, from operating within Israel and occupied East Jerusalem.
https://www.unrwa.org/newsroom/official-statements/government-israel-orders-unrwa-vacate-its-premises-occupied-east

But for the most part, the Israeli government is allowing just a tiny amount of very restricted aid into Gaza. And it’s also making it nearly impossible to deliver whatever assistance gets through to the people who need it most.

You can read more about the aid situation here

Is humanitarian aid getting into Gaza?

Oxfam partners are trying to get food, clean water, and medicine to desperate families. Here’s the latest, and what you can do to help.

https://www.oxfamamerica.org/explore/emergencies/gaza-and-israel-emergency-appeal/is-humanitarian-aid-getting-into-gaza/