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If you are NT

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Ohwhatusernamethough · 25/07/2025 20:57

Do you instantly recognise a ND person?

Sort of related to a thread on here currently, I find it quite fascinating.
I suspect I’m probably ND and wonder if NT people recognise an ND person pretty much immediately? If so, how, what do you see?

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myplace · 25/07/2025 21:04

I assumed I was NT but have a lot of ND family members. I would say I’m quick to spot ND in others and am starting to wonder if I am ND.

I couldn’t describe to you what I see in others. It’s possible I hang around when others have lost patience and so see ‘more’ than people who would lose interest and walk away.

WhereIsMyJumper · 25/07/2025 21:04

Only if they announce it up front. Which isn’t that rare.

Vaxtable · 25/07/2025 21:02

It’s a really broad spectrum even for autism. Would you recognise someone as ND?

Ohwhatusernamethough · 25/07/2025 21:02

NoweverytimeIgoforthemailbox · 25/07/2025 21:00

People may think the recognise ND people but unless they know everyone medical background (incl people who haven’t been diagnosed) how would they know if they were right?

ND includes a whole host of conditions including autism, adhd, dyslexia and DCD.

I’m mainly referring to Autism and Adhd

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NoweverytimeIgoforthemailbox · 25/07/2025 21:00

People may think the recognise ND people but unless they know everyone medical background (incl people who haven’t been diagnosed) how would they know if they were right?

ND includes a whole host of conditions including autism, adhd, dyslexia and DCD.