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Porn age checks - Surely a good thing?

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Vimtolady · 25/07/2025 07:36

Just read a ‘debate’ on the BBC News website about the pros and cons of age verification of porn websites. Weirdly I was verified for the first time myself last night (I am a porn user but not all the time) so was interested to read it.

j get that it was a debate but I honestly don’t see how anyone could object. Last night I wasn’t expecting to be verified but the process was simple, took about a minute and I don’t think I’d have easily been able to circumvent it. Obviously there are security concerns but no more so than with any other website.

I think these checks are great! My eldest DC is 13 so probably getting to (or at) the age when porn might become interesting to her, and this would make it much more difficult to access which would doubtless be a good thing, no?

Does anyone disagree?! I’d be interested to hear arguments against because I can’t really think of any and that makes me suspicious I’m being narrow minded.

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eatfigs · 05/08/2025 23:17

Where are you all seeing these age verification prompts? I've not encountered a single one yet. Seems like people are making a lot of fuss over nothing.

ntmdino · 05/08/2025 09:03

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 05/08/2025 08:25

I've made it 5 pages in before giving up on the absolutely bullshit and convoluted speech going on

It doesn't make sense

Yeah, I know. It's the very definition of "written by committee". I've had to wade through over 1000 pages of that rubbish, and I know that I'm missing at least 30% of it because I just ran out of energy.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 05/08/2025 08:25

ntmdino · 05/08/2025 03:49

Genuine question: do you still believe that this law is about age checks for porn?

To get you started in answering the question, here's the handy short version of the risk assessment guidance:

https://www.ofcom.org.uk/siteassets/resources/documents/online-safety/information-for-industry/illegal-harms/risk-assessment-guidance-and-risk-profiles.pdf?v=390984

It's only 84 pages, so shouldn't take you too long to get through. A good exercise for answering the question would be to consider how often it mentions legal adult-only content.

I've made it 5 pages in before giving up on the absolutely bullshit and convoluted speech going on

It doesn't make sense

ntmdino · 05/08/2025 07:26

Vimtolady · 05/08/2025 06:58

I don’t know if this is actually the case given that I was in Private browser mode. But even if it is the case surely it could have been done before given that I have a contract with an ISP and mobile company which has all that information on it already and always has had?

sigh

No. The session you had on the porn site is now linked to the session at the age-check provider, which holds your phone number. This is held in their databases, not your cookies, so a private browser session is irrelevant.

What you don't know is what the commercial arrangement is between those two companies regarding data sharing (ie how much of the age check data the porn site has access to), or how long either dataset is held for.

None of this information would have been given before - the porn site wouldn't have had access to any of it.

That means that there now potentially exists a log of your phone number against all the pages you looked at in that session on the porn site. This potential was impossible prior to this law coming in, unless (for some reason) you volunteered your phone number to the porn site - which I'm assuming you wouldn't have been mad enough to do.

So now, in the age of new sites losing control of their data every day, you have to ask: how comfortable are you with that log being released and made public, and subsequently linked to your name via public information (the link with your phone number)?

Vimtolady · 05/08/2025 06:58

jbm16 · 04/08/2025 23:48

Easy to use, but now everything you browse is being stored/tracked and linked to you mobile number, are you happy for this information to be potentially leaked in the future??

I don’t know if this is actually the case given that I was in Private browser mode. But even if it is the case surely it could have been done before given that I have a contract with an ISP and mobile company which has all that information on it already and always has had?

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ntmdino · 05/08/2025 03:49

Vimtolady · 04/08/2025 22:46

I used porn again this evening. Just gave my mobile number to receive a text. Job done.

Genuine question: do you still believe that this law is about age checks for porn?

To get you started in answering the question, here's the handy short version of the risk assessment guidance:

https://www.ofcom.org.uk/siteassets/resources/documents/online-safety/information-for-industry/illegal-harms/risk-assessment-guidance-and-risk-profiles.pdf?v=390984

It's only 84 pages, so shouldn't take you too long to get through. A good exercise for answering the question would be to consider how often it mentions legal adult-only content.

https://www.ofcom.org.uk/siteassets/resources/documents/online-safety/information-for-industry/illegal-harms/risk-assessment-guidance-and-risk-profiles.pdf?v=390984

Athreedoorwardrobe · 05/08/2025 00:47

I feel quite unsettled by it strangely.
I think it's a bit of a gimmick and won't actually stop teens watching porn.. but I think it's also a massive privacy issue and overstep of the government.
Ordinary parental controls and safe searches that parents can put on their computers should be enough.
I feel like this move is invasive.. what next?
I also worry about how pornography is defined. Some art and general scientific information may be at risk of being unnecessarily censored.
I also feel like there's a creeping wave of puritanism coming across from the Trump administration that will do no one anywhere any real good.
I personally err on the side of more comprehensive sex education in schools earlier.
I don't think porn can be eradicated and the more it's repressed the weirder and more extreme it gets.
It's a reflection of the wider culture. A symptom not a cause. I don't think the real problems of objectification and misogyny are actually being addressed. Seems just like a sticking plaster to keep certain sections of society happy.
No I don't agree with it.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 05/08/2025 00:03

WunTooThree · 04/08/2025 23:51

I was unable to access an alcohol support site for the same reason.

I said that support groups would be affected and people said I was wrong because they didn't "promote or glorify"

And yet

WunTooThree · 04/08/2025 23:51

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This has been withdrawn by MNHQ.

I was unable to access an alcohol support site for the same reason.

jbm16 · 04/08/2025 23:48

Vimtolady · 04/08/2025 22:46

I used porn again this evening. Just gave my mobile number to receive a text. Job done.

Easy to use, but now everything you browse is being stored/tracked and linked to you mobile number, are you happy for this information to be potentially leaked in the future??

jbm16 · 04/08/2025 23:42

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 23:12

Then if you don't want to verify your age by whichever method is being requested, you can instead choose not to access the website. Same as if you didn't want to show your ID in a shop or a bar.

OR you bypass the controls with VPN, or find more dodgy content on less controlled websites...

jbm16 · 04/08/2025 23:41

Vimtolady · 25/07/2025 08:04

Am Interested as to why you think it’s misconceived. Last night I was asked for age verification. Had I not been able to provide it I’d have not been able to access the content. That’s obviously going to prevent a lot of under 18s accessing it, isn’t it?

Obviously it’s not fool proof. And yes the content is legal. But it’s harmful. So surely age verification is good as it is for other harmful but legal things like cigarettes? Will it do any harm? I don’t see how it would. And it has the potential to do a lot of good.

I know less about the security concerns but figure they’re the same as any other secure website.

You can argue the aim is coming from a good place, however the implementation and technology is completely flawed, can easily be bypassed with VPN, and also pushes both adults and children to more dodgy sites (dark web) which contain more harmful material which is not controlled, where content can be monitored and used to potentially blackmail people.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 04/08/2025 23:31

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 23:12

Then if you don't want to verify your age by whichever method is being requested, you can instead choose not to access the website. Same as if you didn't want to show your ID in a shop or a bar.

It's not just porn though

Technically even Facebook should have these checks. Spotify, YouTube, Discord... all are being hit

Sites people need to use to work

And it's still not the same as showing ID in a shop

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 23:12

Then if you don't want to verify your age by whichever method is being requested, you can instead choose not to access the website. Same as if you didn't want to show your ID in a shop or a bar.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 04/08/2025 23:08

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:49

What if the shop's CCTV gets hacked or stolen? Same thing, just as unlikely.

The tiny chance that CCTV at a shop/bar gets stolen and the picture will clearly show the details on the ID shown is in no way comparable to uploading your details to the Internet 🤣

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 04/08/2025 23:06

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:48

https://blog.google/products/google-pay/google-wallet-age-identity-verifications

Google are putting age verification in their wallet app so you don't have to upload anything.

We don't all use Google Wallet because we don't like having our cards uploaded like that either

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 04/08/2025 23:06

Vimtolady · 04/08/2025 22:46

I used porn again this evening. Just gave my mobile number to receive a text. Job done.

That's not one of the ways listed though...

In fact one (not porn) site will only use face scans

thebluehour · 04/08/2025 22:51

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:49

What if the shop's CCTV gets hacked or stolen? Same thing, just as unlikely.

Hardly the same. And there is a major data breach of some reputable large company that ought to have better systems in place pretty well every month.

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:49

thebluehour · 04/08/2025 22:46

But the local shopkeeper doesn't leak all your details in a data breach.

I'm fine with children needing to prove their age, not sure how well that will work - but this implies everyone needs to prove their age across multiple platforms.

What if the shop's CCTV gets hacked or stolen? Same thing, just as unlikely.

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:48

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 04/08/2025 22:46

It's basically not

When you hand over your driving license or passport or whatever to the shopkeeper/bartender/security guard then they look at it and hand it back. No record. No digital footprint. No data to potentially be hacked and leaked

When you upload a picture of the documents... well...

https://blog.google/products/google-pay/google-wallet-age-identity-verifications

Google are putting age verification in their wallet app so you don't have to upload anything.

It’s now easier to prove age and identity with Google Wallet

Learn more about new Google Wallet updates, including new ways to use your digital ID for age and identity verification.

https://blog.google/products/google-pay/google-wallet-age-identity-verifications/

Vimtolady · 04/08/2025 22:46

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 04/08/2025 22:46

It's basically not

When you hand over your driving license or passport or whatever to the shopkeeper/bartender/security guard then they look at it and hand it back. No record. No digital footprint. No data to potentially be hacked and leaked

When you upload a picture of the documents... well...

I used porn again this evening. Just gave my mobile number to receive a text. Job done.

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thebluehour · 04/08/2025 22:46

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:43

It's not a big deal to have to prove your age. If you've ever bought alcohol, tobacco, knives you likely had to do this, at least as a younger adult. If that's not a problem then this shouldn't be, it's basically the same thing.

But the local shopkeeper doesn't leak all your details in a data breach.

I'm fine with children needing to prove their age, not sure how well that will work - but this implies everyone needs to prove their age across multiple platforms.

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 04/08/2025 22:46

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:43

It's not a big deal to have to prove your age. If you've ever bought alcohol, tobacco, knives you likely had to do this, at least as a younger adult. If that's not a problem then this shouldn't be, it's basically the same thing.

It's basically not

When you hand over your driving license or passport or whatever to the shopkeeper/bartender/security guard then they look at it and hand it back. No record. No digital footprint. No data to potentially be hacked and leaked

When you upload a picture of the documents... well...

eatfigs · 04/08/2025 22:43

It's not a big deal to have to prove your age. If you've ever bought alcohol, tobacco, knives you likely had to do this, at least as a younger adult. If that's not a problem then this shouldn't be, it's basically the same thing.

MinevaZabi · 02/08/2025 21:33

I welcome anything that keeps children safe online but this act is naive and flawed. You don't even need a VPN to circumvent this law me and DH simply typed "free porn" into Google and there were multiple sites on the first page with no restrictions (I don't recommend trying this yourself).

All this law has done has made non porn content harder to access for adults and made the internet even more unsafe for children who are now exposed to unregulated websites run buy the same criminals who run pirate streaming sites that don't care what they host.

The proverbial Pandora's box has already been opened and ofcom will now spend years playing wack a mole shutting down websites only for 10 more to pop up the same day.

I'm in no way pro porn but thinking age checks on a few sites will solve the problem when companies and governments can't even stop piracy is beyond silly

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