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Porn age checks - Surely a good thing?

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Vimtolady · 25/07/2025 07:36

Just read a ‘debate’ on the BBC News website about the pros and cons of age verification of porn websites. Weirdly I was verified for the first time myself last night (I am a porn user but not all the time) so was interested to read it.

j get that it was a debate but I honestly don’t see how anyone could object. Last night I wasn’t expecting to be verified but the process was simple, took about a minute and I don’t think I’d have easily been able to circumvent it. Obviously there are security concerns but no more so than with any other website.

I think these checks are great! My eldest DC is 13 so probably getting to (or at) the age when porn might become interesting to her, and this would make it much more difficult to access which would doubtless be a good thing, no?

Does anyone disagree?! I’d be interested to hear arguments against because I can’t really think of any and that makes me suspicious I’m being narrow minded.

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eatfigs · 06/08/2025 20:20

BusWankers · 06/08/2025 08:30

Literally go to any porn site from a UK IP address... Red tube, porn hub etc

That's a positive for the OSA then, those websites should be age-gated.

eatfigs · 06/08/2025 20:18

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That's a choice made by these fitness forums, isn't it? The OSA doesn't ban children from seeing warning about steroid abuse.

ntmdino · 06/08/2025 18:14

CVVFan · 06/08/2025 16:10

I’ve done the Reddit verification and it’s still anonymous!

No, it just looks like it's anonymous. The list of exceptions where data is retained is so long and ill-defined that they can justify hanging on to the data in the majority of cases. And, because the exceptions are all to do with suspecting a breach of the law, they have no duty to inform you of exactly what they've retained.

This is one of those circumstances where you really, really need to read the terms of service.

CVVFan · 06/08/2025 16:10

WunTooThree · 06/08/2025 15:53

It is not just about porn though. I can no longer access an anonymous alcohol support subReddit (and also one about self harm) as I would have to waive my anonymity. Defeats the point, don't you think.

I’ve done the Reddit verification and it’s still anonymous!

WunTooThree · 06/08/2025 15:53

Sarah2891 · 06/08/2025 09:46

I think it's a good thing that should have been done ages ago.

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It is not just about porn though. I can no longer access an anonymous alcohol support subReddit (and also one about self harm) as I would have to waive my anonymity. Defeats the point, don't you think.

CircusofPuffins · 06/08/2025 15:48

Tbh, I'm not massively fussed about this either way.

It would be nice if more parents actually parented, rather than giving their kids unfettered access to the internet and acting surprised with what that results in.

I have no interest in verifying my age on these sites, because it's a time-consuming nuisance and handing over that sort of data to all and sundry is asking for trouble. But then again, it literally took me a couple of minutes to install a VPN on my phone, so it's not exactly the massive the end-of-the-world inconvenience some people are making it out to be, either.

This legislation won't make a jot of difference to protecting kids though, so really should be confined to the dustbin asap.

ntmdino · 06/08/2025 15:38

Sarah2891 · 06/08/2025 09:46

I think it's a good thing that should have been done ages ago.

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It's. Not. Just. About. Porn.

Read that again. Slowly.

This is much more wide-ranging than just porn sites. If it was just porn sites with age checks, nobody would have a problem with it. This puts service providers - not just Facebook/X/Reddit/etc, but volunteers running small sites too - right at the beginning of the chain of evidence for every single UK law. It's a defence lawyer's wet dream, because they're unqualified and using tools that aren't fit for that purpose.

Not only that, but providers are incentivised to over-correct and remove content even if there's a chance of it being deemed harmful whether legal or not, on pain of an £18m+ fine. So what do you think will happen when the police respond to a complaint? Yep, they'll find nothing to investigate.

This is going to have the exact opposite of its intended effect. Half the population will be using VPNs, all the kids will be using fake IDs generated for the purpose of (trivially) defeating the age checks, fewer actual bad actors will be investigated and even fewer will be successfully prosecuted.

That's why it's a bad thing.

FrippEnos · 06/08/2025 10:23

Sarah2891 · 06/08/2025 09:46

I think it's a good thing that should have been done ages ago.

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Something was done ages ago, through your internet provider.
Posters were told then that it wouldn't work and it didn't
So here we are with another system that won't work.
We already have posters telling you how your DC will get around it, and MPs now putting forward ideas to ban VPNs.
So that everybody's freedoms are curtailed "for the sake of the children".
But this won't stop parents from buying their children smart phones.
or not putting blocks on systems at home or watching their children whilst on the internet.

@PersephoneSeethes so yes it is down to the parents all of them. Did you report the boy to the school for showing your DS porn?
Do his parents know or even care?

Sarah2891 · 06/08/2025 09:46

I think it's a good thing that should have been done ages ago.

Gobacktotheworld · 06/08/2025 09:43

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PersephoneSeethes · 06/08/2025 09:37

On the plus side, I haven’t verified on X, and probably won’t because now I won’t get all the porn when on GC Twitter. Win win!

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 09:23

LeedsLoiner · 06/08/2025 09:04

I give it less than twelve months before there's a major data breach/hacking attack and everyone's personal data is all over the internet.
All sorts of people from organised state sponsored hacking groups in Russia, China, and the Middle East to malevolent individuals will be all over this like a rash.
At the bare minimum there is going to be a massive rise in scam emails "We've hacked your Pornhub account and will send details of what you've been watching to everyone on your email list unless you give is £XXX".

We already have those emails "I hacked your webcam and saw what you were watching and I'm going to release the video to all your friends and family if you don't pay X"

This will just make it more plausible to be real

PersephoneSeethes · 06/08/2025 09:09

I know PornHub is blocked in 17 US states, including Texas, because it won’t comply with their age verification requirements.

Wish our government would be as forceful.

LeedsLoiner · 06/08/2025 09:04

I give it less than twelve months before there's a major data breach/hacking attack and everyone's personal data is all over the internet.
All sorts of people from organised state sponsored hacking groups in Russia, China, and the Middle East to malevolent individuals will be all over this like a rash.
At the bare minimum there is going to be a massive rise in scam emails "We've hacked your Pornhub account and will send details of what you've been watching to everyone on your email list unless you give is £XXX".

PersephoneSeethes · 06/08/2025 09:00

Sundaymorningcalla · 25/07/2025 08:13

Not hard to bypass. Complete waste of time and the beginning of censorship.

Any half intelligent teen will just download opera and turn on its inbuilt VPN...

The next step will be banning any content the government doesn't want you to see without an ID check, then what happens if these firms handling the ID checks get hacked and publish your details online or hold you to Ransome?

Its up to parents to censor their children from porn, and all you have to do is ring your ISP/MSP to block adult content...

The government is stepping in to help lazy parents again.

Thats really unfair. My DS was shown porn of the first time at school by mate who had downloaded it onto his phone. I had already blocked it years before at the router and DS phone when he got one but at the time porn on Reddit got around that block. My DS was obviously told about that work around and started watching in the loo.

So please don’t say it’s all up to the parents. I did everything I possibly could to block my DS getting access to porn and he still got it. It’s up to the tech giants to do their bit!

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 09:00

BusWankers · 06/08/2025 08:32

Do you know exactly where your data is going, even on Mumsnet? Please list all the places Mumsnet has sent your data...

MN have a throw away email address and that's it. I have ad blockers and VPN too

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 06/08/2025 08:56

eatfigs · 05/08/2025 23:17

Where are you all seeing these age verification prompts? I've not encountered a single one yet. Seems like people are making a lot of fuss over nothing.

Discord, Reddit, art forums...

JustPinkFinch · 06/08/2025 08:54

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She is one of many this has happened to in the SW community over the last 2-3 years. There are other references to it online and on X.

Will access to USA ever be decided based on other internet-use profiling? It's conceivable to me that it could happen. And of course, it's not just the USA, but I am singling them out as they seem particularly egregious and their data centres are likely where a lot of UK verification data is heading.

randomchap · 06/08/2025 08:51

BusWankers · 06/08/2025 08:32

Do you know exactly where your data is going, even on Mumsnet? Please list all the places Mumsnet has sent your data...

Considering I've blocked over 20000 trackers on mumsnet, your data is going all over the Web from here

Gobacktotheworld · 06/08/2025 08:39

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JustPinkFinch · 06/08/2025 08:33

BusWankers · 06/08/2025 08:32

Do you know exactly where your data is going, even on Mumsnet? Please list all the places Mumsnet has sent your data...

Mumsnet don't know who I am. They don't have a face scan, or my ID. All they have is a dynamic IP address.

BusWankers · 06/08/2025 08:32

JustPinkFinch · 06/08/2025 08:10

Your mobile phone company and ISP are on UK soil. They are regulated, subject to UK / EU law and variety of other regulations around how they store, share, sell and use your data. Your data remains here.

The companies you are handing over age verification info to are offshore with no such safeguards. Ofcom have written guidelines which no one in say, USA, will adhere to when your data is on their soil. See the Patriot Act.

My friend was recently refused access to the USA while travelling to see her fiance's family - held in detention for 24 hours at LAX, interrogated, flown back to UK and banned for 10 years.

For what crime? Because they had evidence that she worked as a sex worker in the UK about 5 years previously. They got that evidence by harvesting data from the web. Do you think homeland security waving photos of her in front of her face, found on an escort website, along with the ID she provided them 5 years previously to verify, adhered to GDPR?

Please stop handing over sensitivite ID data to offshore entities.

Do you know exactly where your data is going, even on Mumsnet? Please list all the places Mumsnet has sent your data...

Gobacktotheworld · 06/08/2025 08:30

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BusWankers · 06/08/2025 08:30

eatfigs · 05/08/2025 23:17

Where are you all seeing these age verification prompts? I've not encountered a single one yet. Seems like people are making a lot of fuss over nothing.

Literally go to any porn site from a UK IP address... Red tube, porn hub etc

JustPinkFinch · 06/08/2025 08:10

Vimtolady · 05/08/2025 06:58

I don’t know if this is actually the case given that I was in Private browser mode. But even if it is the case surely it could have been done before given that I have a contract with an ISP and mobile company which has all that information on it already and always has had?

Your mobile phone company and ISP are on UK soil. They are regulated, subject to UK / EU law and variety of other regulations around how they store, share, sell and use your data. Your data remains here.

The companies you are handing over age verification info to are offshore with no such safeguards. Ofcom have written guidelines which no one in say, USA, will adhere to when your data is on their soil. See the Patriot Act.

My friend was recently refused access to the USA while travelling to see her fiance's family - held in detention for 24 hours at LAX, interrogated, flown back to UK and banned for 10 years.

For what crime? Because they had evidence that she worked as a sex worker in the UK about 5 years previously. They got that evidence by harvesting data from the web. Do you think homeland security waving photos of her in front of her face, found on an escort website, along with the ID she provided them 5 years previously to verify, adhered to GDPR?

Please stop handing over sensitivite ID data to offshore entities.

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