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To tell you that from midnight, you'll have to upload ID to watch porn???!!!

268 replies

youreactinglikeafunmum · 24/07/2025 23:41

Not a troll post

Here's the link: https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/uk-porn-age-verification-b2795354.html

I heard about this happening in france and thought 'thank fuck its not happening here'

What will I do on those late nights or mid afternoons before pick up?? Just use my imagination, like a prehistoric cave woman???

😡🙈😡

The UK is launching ‘porn age checks’. This is what will happen

The UK is about to launch some of the strongest checks on pornography in the world.

https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/uk-porn-age-verification-b2795354.html

OP posts:
SirRaymondClench · 26/07/2025 20:09

Fragmentedbrain · 25/07/2025 00:32

There are a shocking number of women who don't really approve of sex so this isn't the venue to express concern about the ramifications.

Would you elaborate on this please? Genuinely interested

carchi · 26/07/2025 20:00

Then upload your ID and carry on as normal.
Surely the information is data protected.

TwinklySquid · 26/07/2025 19:48

Eastendboysandwestendgirls · 24/07/2025 23:48

What classes as porn though? Surely half the internet is tits and ass nowadays, they can't restrict the whole lot. I'm not about to spend the next week testing the theory, but as a teacher who spends bloody ages sifting through shit on primary children's phones, I feel overinvested.

It’s not just porn. Any NSFW posts on Reddit are banned- I clicked on someone’s profile today who had posted a lot in suicide prevention and that was flagged . I had to do Face ID .

Catsandcannedbeans · 26/07/2025 19:12

Can’t wait for the data leak where we find out what freaky porn all the MPs are watching. The tabloids are salivating.

Jayne35 · 26/07/2025 18:12

Good. About time.

Panterusblackish · 26/07/2025 18:11

youreactinglikeafunmum · 24/07/2025 23:51

I dont want to have to use my passport to watch Owen Gray 😭

Why? Surely it matters not a jot if you're an adult.

Kids need protection from porn. It's deeply harmful on many many levels

FeetLikeFlippers · 26/07/2025 18:10

Why do people post stuff like this in AIBU? You want us to vote on whether or not you are being reasonable to tell us something? It makes no sense.

Atina321 · 26/07/2025 18:08

randomchap · 24/07/2025 23:56

The problem is, it won't work. Setting up a vpn takes a couple of minutes and bypasses the block.

The harm that porn causes teenagers can only be mitigated through education and parenting. Having those difficult conversations about the dangers.

Having this block in might lead parents to think that porn is inaccessible online, and give them a false sense of security

I was listening to a discussion on the issue on Radio 2 - about 60% of children viewing porn do so by accident - it will stop those, which is more the point really.

Goldenbear · 26/07/2025 16:20

Why don't you read a book instead.

InsomniacA · 26/07/2025 13:30

OP (and every one else who likes PornHub), please read this article. I do not believe you will ever watch online porn again after you do, or if you continue, then you are a monster.

https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/news/2448580/pornhub-had-roadblock-for-reviewing-potential-child-sexual-content-documents-show/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=WE_Search_Brand-June&gad_source=2&gad_campaignid=22705961921&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI9frG-sLajgMVZVJ_AB30oSaAEAEYASAAEgL4RfD_BwE

randomchap · 26/07/2025 12:30

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 26/07/2025 07:53

13,000 geolocated images of women, (submitted for account verification) released into the wild:

https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/tea-app-safe-space-women-data-hacked-b2796390.html

It wasn't even hacked. The images of the driving licences were stored in a folder that was open to the Internet. The "hackers" just had to go to the right url. There was no security at all

An abysmal attempt at keeping users data safe.

Iamthemoom · 26/07/2025 12:24

Namechangeragin · 25/07/2025 23:40

It won’t stop kids accessing inappropriate material. Just like they access vapes, films and drugs. Teenagers will find a way.

An older sibling will grant access. Or a parent won’t care and will allow access. Or they will get their tech savvy friend to get round it. Or use a stolen credit card. Or their parents ancient email address (which is linked to their parents finances). Or the dark web. Or 18 year old brother accesses porn, 14 year old records using his phone. It’s not hard.

Or the techie kids will help their peers. The top three or four kids in year 7 IT are very competent, never mind year 10.

Wait until drunk naive 18 year olds upload their passport and end up being blackmailed. Has that been risk assessed?

Or 13 year old goes into the dark web and accesses more than porn?

Or parents bank is accessed due to a child using the parents ancient email address?

This is about controlling what adults can access hidden as a concern for kids. If they were concerned for kids there wouldn’t be a rape gang scandal as authorities would have acted long ago. And rapes wouldn’t be rocketing in number.

You don’t need to go in the dark web to ‘access more than porn”. There are at any one time thousands of videos on Porn Hub of children (the youngest was 3) and women being raped, women being suffocated and choked. Porn Hub have been forced to remove 90 % of their content because they could not prove age or consent. But new videos appear daily.

This won’t stop adults and teens using vpns and fake IDs but it might stop 7-12 year old boys accessing it. That’s where the real concern lies. Very young boys are accessing very violent, often crime scene pornographic content and this is shaping them and their future. It has to stop and this is one step in the right direction.

There is a very long way to go. Google Traffickinghub or Laila Mickelwait for more on this. She is the absolute hero behind this.

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 26/07/2025 08:53

I just visited a porn site I believe to be "mainstream" to see what happens without a vpn. Turns out the validation is photo.

So I put my "teenager" head on and asked myself where the nearest source of an adult face is. There are two. My wedding photo in the lounge and my graduation photo in the spare room. Basically my treasured memories are now my kids porn access code. 😡

They're going in the loft.

DonnaBanana · 26/07/2025 08:07

How long till some scammers launch a new free porn site about something mildly embarrassing, accept people’s IDs for proof they’re adults (which they’ll now do willingly because of this law), then just blackmail them instead saying they’ll tell their family or boss. I give it a month or two.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 26/07/2025 07:39

As with many things governments do, it is to be seen to do something rather than actually tackling a problem.

This will stop practically nobody. It is ridiculously simple to bypass.

FrippEnos · 26/07/2025 07:36

randomchap · 24/07/2025 23:56

The problem is, it won't work. Setting up a vpn takes a couple of minutes and bypasses the block.

The harm that porn causes teenagers can only be mitigated through education and parenting. Having those difficult conversations about the dangers.

Having this block in might lead parents to think that porn is inaccessible online, and give them a false sense of security

Having this block in might lead parents to think that porn is inaccessible online, and give them a false sense of security

Many don't care and cba to learn about how to use blockers etc. they would much prefer everyone to lose their rights and continue to give kids smart phones.

RafaistheKingofClay · 26/07/2025 07:19

mamagogo1 · 25/07/2025 11:59

Fine by me. If you aren’t embarrassed using it, just use your id

Better to use someone else’s ID I’d have thought.

RafaistheKingofClay · 26/07/2025 07:00

Velmy · 25/07/2025 08:34

How will they have access to "worse stuff"?

Kids after a quick hand shandy aren't using the dark web 😅

It's intended to put a complicated and annoying barrier in place to stop the majority of underage people casually accessing content.

Obviously anyone determined to see boobs will find a way to see boobs, as they have since the dawn of time.

But it isn’t a complicated and annoying barrier. It’s barely a barrier at all. So kids still have all the access to exactly the same porn they had before the legislation came in.

Honestly, we need to be less worried about the attitude of the OP and more worried about the children of parents who think their children have been made safer by this legislation. Because that is the attitude that is going to be putting children at risk.

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 26/07/2025 06:56

There are many parent who either don't have the time or be bothered to check their email and wouldn't care if they did find their kid using their email. They'd probably let them use their credit card as well.

Mum's Phone and credit card will likely be lying around the house.

Obviously a vpn is far easier and far safer but there will be some kid who don't know that. Which is why I think this will impact girls more than boys. The lads will be openly sharing information on how to safely access porn. A curious girl is far less likely to be hearing how to safely access this stuff and a one off search out of curiosity could have a big impact on her life.

daisychain01 · 26/07/2025 06:50

Haggisfish3 · 24/07/2025 23:53

You don’t. There are several ways of identifying you’re over 18, including what your email address is linked to. So any half witted teen will simply use their parents email address, although you hope an email will be sent to the email address.

There are many parent who either don't have the time or be bothered to check their email and wouldn't care if they did find their kid using their email. They'd probably let them use their credit card as well.

as for online id using AI, the underaged kid would just get their older brother to put their face in front of a camera. The genie is out of the bottle on this one. God alone knows why kids under 18 don't get issued a dumb phone for making contact parents or guardian, they do not need unsupervised access to the internet on a smart phone when they are still minors. It might make them lift their head up from their screen annd see the world around them. Unfashionable view but there you go.

YellowSubmarine994 · 26/07/2025 06:48

The thing that's bothering me most is it's not just porn. Today I tried to open a post on Reddit, and because the person writing was trans it flagged it up as inappropriate content and asked me to submit a selfie or driving licence

LlynTegid · 26/07/2025 06:37

I am in favour of this. I know it won't stop all porn being viewed in the UK, but a reduction is a good thing in my view. Exploitation of women is the main reason why I want less or no porn, also that it normalises certain sexual acts and the non-use of condoms.