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LillyPJ · 25/07/2025 20:16

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:02

Which brings up an interesting point. On a thread about euthanasia I was arguing that it could be misused to pressure vulnerable people into dying against their will.

Several posters said that even if that happened, it would be worth it to give all the other people the freedom from pain and end to their suffering.

I think the death penalty could be misused and lead to innocent people dying. I wonder if the posters who argued in favour of euthanasia would apply the same logic to the death penalty. Would they say the benefits to the many outweigh the risk to the few?

That is an interesting point. I'm against the death penalty for many reasons, but am for assisted dying - as long as there are sufficient precautions and guards against abuse. Perhaps it's just from a selfish point of view? I don't want to be in dreadful pain or lose all my dignity, nor do I want to be a burden for my DC or have my money wasted on care. I know it's not what this thread's about but it's given me some food for thought.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 20:10

Glitchymn1 · 25/07/2025 19:51

What are you alluding to?

You don't seem to have ever had any experience with victims families. None at all.

I wasnt alluding to it btw, I was responding to it.

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:08

CurlewKate · 25/07/2025 20:00

Is nobody interested in the impact of society of judicial killing, and the issue of the employment of executioners?

Well we already employ soldiers. And the idea of euthanasia also involves paying someone to kill another human being (though one who has consented). So maybe not such a stretch, though yes I think it would impact society.

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 20:07

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:46

You couldnt be more wrong

If that were true, then you'd agree with me that the victims of the families overwhelmingly say they feel closure when the perpetrator dies. Maybe not justice, but all of them say "I feel closure". This is obvious to one who pays even a cursory attention to this topic in America. It's basic. It's not rocket science. So I don't know what you're disagreeing with, then. Are you calling these families liars?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/07/2025 20:07

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:02

Which brings up an interesting point. On a thread about euthanasia I was arguing that it could be misused to pressure vulnerable people into dying against their will.

Several posters said that even if that happened, it would be worth it to give all the other people the freedom from pain and end to their suffering.

I think the death penalty could be misused and lead to innocent people dying. I wonder if the posters who argued in favour of euthanasia would apply the same logic to the death penalty. Would they say the benefits to the many outweigh the risk to the few?

It really does devalue life. I was talking about women being pressured by abusers to end their lives. People were saying that they're going to die anyway.

I'm surprised no one has said that a few innocent lives lost is worth it. One disturbing individual wanted people hanged immediately upon conviction.

Nospringchix · 25/07/2025 20:04

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 24/07/2025 23:00

It costs more to keep someone on death row until they are killed rather than in prison their whole life

It doesn't act ad a deterrent in any way

The wrong people get killed

It won't bring people they've murdered back

This^. Totally agree with everything here.

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:03

ZamaZama · 25/07/2025 16:36

It quite literally is.

Cut and dried - goes to the question of how strong the evidence is.

Heinous - goes to the question of severity.

’usually the most’ - creates a connection between the two concepts.

Cut and dried means that something is settled, in the case of a crime it would mean there is no doubt of being found guilty.

My comment regarding the cut and dry cases often being the most heinous is down to the nature of these crimes which is often what makes them cut and dried to begin with. E.g the public slaughtering of young girls.

That isn't the same as suggesting there is 'a link between strength of evidence and how serious a crime is.'

You're twisting things.

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:02

MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:35

You could say the same about the legalisation of euthanasia in the UK and look where that’s heading…

Which brings up an interesting point. On a thread about euthanasia I was arguing that it could be misused to pressure vulnerable people into dying against their will.

Several posters said that even if that happened, it would be worth it to give all the other people the freedom from pain and end to their suffering.

I think the death penalty could be misused and lead to innocent people dying. I wonder if the posters who argued in favour of euthanasia would apply the same logic to the death penalty. Would they say the benefits to the many outweigh the risk to the few?

soupyspoon · 25/07/2025 20:00

Nursingadvice · 24/07/2025 22:53

He brutally murdered his baby??

Correct, but whether we want the state to execute people for being found guilty for crimes like this is complex.

I dont by the way.

CurlewKate · 25/07/2025 20:00

Is nobody interested in the impact of society of judicial killing, and the issue of the employment of executioners?

MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:52

I’m half-inclined to agree with you OP. However, I only think it should be used where there can be absolutely no doubt as to the guilt of the perpetrator e.g. in cases of mass murder in a public place where there are multiple witnesses to the crime, such as the Southport incident, or where the murder is caught on video.

Glitchymn1 · 25/07/2025 19:52

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:21

Careful, your ignorance is showing!

Firstly, most obviously, they are not on the streets.....thats kind of the point of prison.

Secondly, I can tell you first hand that the death of the attacker provides no closure whatsoever. The fact that you can say that with confidence shows me that you dont have a fucking clue what you are talking about. Your knee jerk reaction proves it.

Then educate me.

Glitchymn1 · 25/07/2025 19:51

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:46

You couldnt be more wrong

What are you alluding to?

MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:47

BIWI · 24/07/2025 23:02

It is a horrible story. Perhaps you should use your intelligence to consider just how we end up with people who commit these crimes in our society?

Yes, let’s hold hands and blame society …again. Anything to avoid holding a grown adult responsible for their own choices!

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:46

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 19:29

I have followed true crime and the DP in America for decades. I have yet to come across one single victim family who say they haven't got closure from the perp being put to death.

Not....one.

You don't seem to have ever had any experience with victims families. None at all.

Edited

You couldnt be more wrong

MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:35

Brendahollowayreconsider · 24/07/2025 22:59

This has been done to death so to speak,the death penalty will not be reintroduced in the UK and nor it should.

You could say the same about the legalisation of euthanasia in the UK and look where that’s heading…

Astrak · 25/07/2025 19:31

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:05

I hope so. But will he be mingling with other prisoners or kept in a high security wing “for his own safety” 🙄

I've worked in high security prisons. He will wish that he had never been born. Inmates will get to him one way or another, and the prison officers may not have heard/seen what was going on before he is seriously damaged. After that, he will probably be moved to solitary confinement. That won't work either. It is possible that he will try to kill himself. Usually, doesn't work. Too much varied methods of supervision.

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 19:29

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:27

How many do you know personally?

Less than me, I guarantee it.

I have followed true crime and the DP in America for decades. I have yet to come across one single victim family who say they haven't got closure from the perp being put to death.

Not....one.

You don't seem to have ever had any experience with victims families. None at all.

OonaStubbs · 25/07/2025 19:28

When the death sentence was abolished, we were told it would be replaced with life sentences and life would mean life. Now we have "life sentences" where criminals are released after only a few years.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:27

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 19:25

Many families of victims where the attacker was given the death penalty say it's closure. You read these cases in America, almost of them (unless the body location wasn't revealed) say it's closure. I've never heard of one say they had no closure. So your post is completely at odds with victims families' testimonies.

How many do you know personally?

Less than me, I guarantee it.

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 19:27

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:25

Further........what about evil people who are caught "bang to rights" by your standards, who kill themselves. Is that justice? Did that provide closure?

And who decides what has been proved without a shadow of a doubt? Derek Bentley was convicted without a shadow of a doubt. As was (as I mentioned) Ruth Ellis.

Further........what about evil people who are caught "bang to rights" by your standards, who kill themselves. Is that justice? Did that provide closure?

The victims families would say it is. Either the state kills him (them) or they kill themselves.

Same result, they're dead. Closure.

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 19:25

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:21

Careful, your ignorance is showing!

Firstly, most obviously, they are not on the streets.....thats kind of the point of prison.

Secondly, I can tell you first hand that the death of the attacker provides no closure whatsoever. The fact that you can say that with confidence shows me that you dont have a fucking clue what you are talking about. Your knee jerk reaction proves it.

Many families of victims where the attacker was given the death penalty say it's closure. You read these cases in America, almost of them (unless the body location wasn't revealed) say it's closure. I've never heard of one say they had no closure. So your post is completely at odds with victims families' testimonies.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:25

Glitchymn1 · 25/07/2025 19:12

It’s not about stats.

It would be one less on the streets, it would be closure for their families.

I’m not Qing about Lucy Letby, I’m taking about the ones where it’s been proved beyond a shadow of any doubt whatsoever!
How much does it cost to protect these people from being killed in prison.

Further........what about evil people who are caught "bang to rights" by your standards, who kill themselves. Is that justice? Did that provide closure?

And who decides what has been proved without a shadow of a doubt? Derek Bentley was convicted without a shadow of a doubt. As was (as I mentioned) Ruth Ellis.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:21

Glitchymn1 · 25/07/2025 19:12

It’s not about stats.

It would be one less on the streets, it would be closure for their families.

I’m not Qing about Lucy Letby, I’m taking about the ones where it’s been proved beyond a shadow of any doubt whatsoever!
How much does it cost to protect these people from being killed in prison.

Careful, your ignorance is showing!

Firstly, most obviously, they are not on the streets.....thats kind of the point of prison.

Secondly, I can tell you first hand that the death of the attacker provides no closure whatsoever. The fact that you can say that with confidence shows me that you dont have a fucking clue what you are talking about. Your knee jerk reaction proves it.

CurlewKate · 25/07/2025 19:14

naturalcrackle111 · 25/07/2025 18:49

I don’t care 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fair enough. I was pretty sure that you’re not interested in anyone’s opinion but your own.