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MiloMinderbinder925 · 26/07/2025 16:04

JHound · 26/07/2025 15:59

I think it’s far more than merely the existence of the death penalty. It exists in the USA after all.

It's the same reason Saudi is safe.

JHound · 26/07/2025 15:59

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 16:56

You can use statistics to support almost any point you'd like to make. That's not to say we should dismiss statistics and actual facts, but we should look deeper into where the numbers are coming from without accepting everything at face value. A sample size of 10 (in your previous example) means nothing statistically.

We should also use common sense and the evidence of our own eyes. I've asked you before - why is Singapore so safe? If you can provide an alternative explanation, I'm open to it.

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I think it’s far more than merely the existence of the death penalty. It exists in the USA after all.

Yesyourecorrect · 26/07/2025 15:40

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ZamaZama · 26/07/2025 15:38

Yesyourecorrect · 26/07/2025 15:21

It’s quite ridiculous isn’t it.
Best ignored that poster

I can't work out if they're playing pigeon chess or just clapping back to the last thing that is said without taking into account how the conversation has unfolded.

Yesyourecorrect · 26/07/2025 15:21

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 13:53

So. 3 verdicts. Innocent, Guilty and Very Guilty.

It’s quite ridiculous isn’t it.
Best ignored that poster

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 15:16

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 14:47

So we’re taking motive into account now!

Of course. Motive is always taken into account when sentencing, surely?

AngelicKaty · 26/07/2025 15:01

Sirzy · 26/07/2025 09:56

But at the time of her conviction there was little doubt in most peoples minds. Certainly not in the juries minds. Some people want conviction and death the next day so that makes mistakes even more likely to occur.

If it were to be considered you would need a very robust system for appeals and as has been pointed out many times that costs a lot more than life imprisonment

Exactly. And the Criminal Cases Review Commission (CCRC) has failed so many innocent people in recent years, by repeatedly denying them appeals for wrongful conviction e.g. Andrew Malkinson, that their reputation is in tatters.
Sorry @Glitchymn1 , but your views on this subject are terribly naive.

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 14:47

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 14:33

One would hope everyone in prison is guilty but we know that isn't always the case, which is why the death penalty should be reserved for specific cases.

Take for instance the father who just ran over and killed that knife wielding thief for attacking his son, it's not in the same league as stabbing young girls to death for no reason, but both are murder charges.

So we’re taking motive into account now!

ilovesooty · 26/07/2025 14:40

Never2many · 26/07/2025 14:09

Just the kinds of countries we want to aspire to live in.

what people don’t seem to realise is that stripping away human rights for one sector of society is a slippery slope.

not one country where the death penalty is carried out immediately has any kind of human rights. So the question is, if you’re happy for murderers’ human rights to be removed like this which of your own rights would you be prepared to lose. Because it wouldn’t end there.

A lot of people seemingly aren't very concerned about human rights in general
They'll probably claim to be without realising that you can't apply human rights to some people but not others.

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 14:33

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 13:53

So. 3 verdicts. Innocent, Guilty and Very Guilty.

One would hope everyone in prison is guilty but we know that isn't always the case, which is why the death penalty should be reserved for specific cases.

Take for instance the father who just ran over and killed that knife wielding thief for attacking his son, it's not in the same league as stabbing young girls to death for no reason, but both are murder charges.

Never2many · 26/07/2025 14:09

Just the kinds of countries we want to aspire to live in.

what people don’t seem to realise is that stripping away human rights for one sector of society is a slippery slope.

not one country where the death penalty is carried out immediately has any kind of human rights. So the question is, if you’re happy for murderers’ human rights to be removed like this which of your own rights would you be prepared to lose. Because it wouldn’t end there.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 26/07/2025 13:59

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 13:53

So. 3 verdicts. Innocent, Guilty and Very Guilty.

I believe it's innocent, guiltyish and caught red handed.

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 13:53

So. 3 verdicts. Innocent, Guilty and Very Guilty.

Usernamenotavailable19 · 26/07/2025 13:44

Absolutely heartbreaking 💔 he was only two weeks old.
how did he get away with that in a hospital? He’s disgusting

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 13:19

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 13:16

So you would have been happy for her to be executed after her trial?

Absolutely not, because it isn't what I would call a cut and dry case.

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 13:18

ZamaZama · 26/07/2025 12:59

What on earth is your meaning then? These are the points we seem to agree on: 1. There are very bad crimes. 2. There are crimes which are easy to prove. 3. These may or may not be the same crimes.

What point are you making with that? And why didn't you just say it instead of saying one is usually the other, which rather implies you're, you know, linking the two concepts?

Let's be honest - you're arguing black is white.

I feel like it's demeaning to engage in this drivel any further. It's just frustrating to see how utterly confident and lacking in any doubt those posters are who are pushing for extreme solutions are. I have no doubt the death penalty would return on the basis of a popular referendum and it would be down to nonsense like this.

'What on earth is your meaning then?' I think my meaning was clear. Many of the cut and dry cases are particularly heinous, it was an observation that I have made, not something that needed a forensic analysis or picking a part.

'I feel like it's demeaning to engage in this drivel any further.' I concur.

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 13:16

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 13:11

To be honest I don't know enough about the case to make an informed decision, but my feeling is that she is guilty after seeing her diary extracts which was effectively an admission.

Many people are now suggesting she is a victim of unfortunate circumstances. I haven't looked into the reasons for that.

So you would have been happy for her to be executed after her trial?

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 13:11

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 12:48

What are your feelings about Lucy Letby?

To be honest I don't know enough about the case to make an informed decision, but my feeling is that she is guilty after seeing her diary extracts which was effectively an admission.

Many people are now suggesting she is a victim of unfortunate circumstances. I haven't looked into the reasons for that.

ZamaZama · 26/07/2025 12:59

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 11:56

Yes heinous does mean that. Yes I have said the cut and dried cases are often (not always) the most heinous.

What I haven't done is linked the 'strength of evidence to the severity of the crime' as you have suggested. There are heinous crimes that remain unsolved due to a lack of evidence, it doesn't make them any less heinous. Nor does it mean crimes that have an abundance of evidence are automatically worse.

So yes, I'd say you are twisting my meaning.

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What on earth is your meaning then? These are the points we seem to agree on: 1. There are very bad crimes. 2. There are crimes which are easy to prove. 3. These may or may not be the same crimes.

What point are you making with that? And why didn't you just say it instead of saying one is usually the other, which rather implies you're, you know, linking the two concepts?

Let's be honest - you're arguing black is white.

I feel like it's demeaning to engage in this drivel any further. It's just frustrating to see how utterly confident and lacking in any doubt those posters are who are pushing for extreme solutions are. I have no doubt the death penalty would return on the basis of a popular referendum and it would be down to nonsense like this.

CurlewKate · 26/07/2025 12:48

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 12:13

I agree there is a difference. I haven't disputed that. Regarding the revenge vs justice we will just have to disagree but that is the crux of it really isn't it....
Whether a person feels it is justified or not.

When I consider how much a prisoner costs, how many continue their violence whilst inside, plus own beliefs on 'an eye for an eye' I feel it is justified.

Of course I accept others feel differently and do appreciate the wrongful conviction argument. I just feel that could be avoided nowadays, hence my feeling of execution being an option in cases that leave no doubt at all, such as Axel in Southport or Rose West for example.

What are your feelings about Lucy Letby?

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 12:13

randomchap · 26/07/2025 11:59

There's a huge difference between the two. One is to save lives right there and then, the other barbaric revenge.

and I'm calling it "revenge" as that's what it is, it's not justice.

I agree there is a difference. I haven't disputed that. Regarding the revenge vs justice we will just have to disagree but that is the crux of it really isn't it....
Whether a person feels it is justified or not.

When I consider how much a prisoner costs, how many continue their violence whilst inside, plus own beliefs on 'an eye for an eye' I feel it is justified.

Of course I accept others feel differently and do appreciate the wrongful conviction argument. I just feel that could be avoided nowadays, hence my feeling of execution being an option in cases that leave no doubt at all, such as Axel in Southport or Rose West for example.

zerofeeling · 26/07/2025 12:10

randomchap · 26/07/2025 11:59

There's a huge difference between the two. One is to save lives right there and then, the other barbaric revenge.

and I'm calling it "revenge" as that's what it is, it's not justice.

What is justice?

ilovesooty · 26/07/2025 12:02

It seems that @GreenGully and some other posters on this thread want to adopt the regimes of the countries I mentioned in my last post.

randomchap · 26/07/2025 11:59

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 11:33

Yes of course they are different. My point is, we sanction killing in certain scenarios, so sanctioning the execution of our worst criminals isn't too far removed in my opinion.

What you call 'revenge' many would call justice.

There's a huge difference between the two. One is to save lives right there and then, the other barbaric revenge.

and I'm calling it "revenge" as that's what it is, it's not justice.

GreenGully · 26/07/2025 11:56

ZamaZama · 25/07/2025 22:14

I’m not twisting anything.

I understand perfectly well what you’ve written, but it seems you don’t or perhaps you just won’t admit you’ve made a mistake.

Heinous means particularly dreadful or wrong. I.e. describing a crime as heinous is quite literally commenting on its severity. You have linked this to the likelihood of a crime being ‘cut and dried’.

So, how am I twisting what you’ve said?

Yes heinous does mean that. Yes I have said the cut and dried cases are often (not always) the most heinous.

What I haven't done is linked the 'strength of evidence to the severity of the crime' as you have suggested. There are heinous crimes that remain unsolved due to a lack of evidence, it doesn't make them any less heinous. Nor does it mean crimes that have an abundance of evidence are automatically worse.

So yes, I'd say you are twisting my meaning.