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To think there are very few allies against Anti-Semitism?

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 14:04

This month, I have had experienced Anti-Semitism twice. Both times I was with my children.

Both times, my children were distressed, and no one around did anything to protect us or raise the alarm. When we asked for help, we were dismissed. We were in very busy public spaces both times: a tube platform, then a high street.

I reported the first episode to the police. I'm not even sure if it's worth reporting the second episode. Sadly it feels so mainstream, and the authorities are not supportive when I report it either.

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CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 17:03

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 10:41

We could equally ask you if you have seen people throwing petrol bombs and weapons at businesses? I know of a Muslim family whose shop was destroyed and they moved out of the country after last year's race riots.

It is getting frustrating with you trying to prove that anti-semitism is the worst kind of "ism". We all acknowledge that it exists. We all think it is awful. Let's go from there. No need to make your case by saying that Jewish people face the worst discrimination in the history of the world. What is the point in that? Do you want us to ban the anti-Palestine protests? I for one don't want that to happen. We have a right to condemn what the Israeli government is doing. Do I condone the presence of Nazi flags and racist chants? Of course not.

Yes, I think you are in danger. In fact we all are. The longer the onslaught on Gaza goes on, the more we are creating a terrorist threat now and for generations to come.

This is really articulately explained.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 17:02

Why is this grotesque? It is making the point that what the Holocaust victims suffered is comparable with what people in Palestine are suffering.

Firstly, it's not. They're two completely different situations.
Secondly, if you're told, time and time again, that this comparison is hurtful and offensive to Jewish people, maybe it's time to find another one.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 17:01

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 13:39

One of the most shocking things I've seen is the protesters who were dressed up as Holocaust victims. Grotesque.

Why is this grotesque? It is making the point that what the Holocaust victims suffered is comparable with what people in Palestine are suffering.

It is about the fact that everyone said 'never again' but here we are, again, just with different groups of people.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 17:01

The other issue as I see it is that Israel is losing the PR war. A lot of claims about the various "atrocities" it's committing prove, on closer examination, to be incorrect or framed in order to portray it in the worst light possible.

I'm not denying that things are hellish for the civilians of Gaza, before anyone claims that - but I do think that the constant assumption of worst-faith possible explanations for Israeli actions, and the willingness to believe lies and the distortion of truth, probably is in many cases based in antisemitism - it's blood libel, essentially.

It's impossible to scroll X without an endless barrage of "bloodthirsty Israhell demons" posts.

But anyway, as ever, this is a derail - it's impossible to have a thread, on MN or elsewhere, about antisemitism in the UK, without it going back to Gaza.

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:01

noworklifebalance · 28/07/2025 16:53

Playing devils advocate but I presume the hypocrisy of the Israeli government (not the Jewish people) inflicting such atrocities on another race/ethnic group.

Humans are generally awful regardless of their race and the ethnicity and often can only see the horrors inflicted upon themselves; oblivious to the way they treat others. Other races/groups are dehumanised and is a way of disconnecting themselves from the atrocities they inflict on others.

But the Holocaust and the situation in Gaza have very few similarities. Even if you are horrified by what's happening currently, what's your reasoning for choosing the Holocaust to use as comparison over other historical events that will share far more similarities?

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:59

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 16:46

I agree with this. And it does seem difficult for people to understand. I always want to ask them why they have chosen that particular atrocity to compare the situation in Palestine to when there are so many others you could use if you wish to do that? I have actually asked people I know and they don't understand what I am saying.

It's not difficult to understand your viewpoint. I just don't agree.
The Israel government are carrying out acts very similar to the Nazis and to call them Nazis is not anti semitic or racist.
It's absolutely bananas to suggest that there is one country's government that is exempt from being called to account for their actions.

noworklifebalance · 28/07/2025 16:53

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 16:46

I agree with this. And it does seem difficult for people to understand. I always want to ask them why they have chosen that particular atrocity to compare the situation in Palestine to when there are so many others you could use if you wish to do that? I have actually asked people I know and they don't understand what I am saying.

Playing devils advocate but I presume the hypocrisy of the Israeli government (not the Jewish people) inflicting such atrocities on another race/ethnic group.

Humans are generally awful regardless of their race and the ethnicity and often can only see the horrors inflicted upon themselves; oblivious to the way they treat others. Other races/groups are dehumanised and is a way of disconnecting themselves from the atrocities they inflict on others.

mumandmumber · 28/07/2025 16:52

No one is claiming that peaceful protest or criticism of the Israeli government is inherently anti-Semitic. The concern is that, unfortunately, such protest (actual & online etc) while often starting out as mostly sincere and peaceful, have contributed to a rise in anti-Semitism. This is largely because anti-Semitic sentiment remains widespread, and many of these demonstrations and online discussions have been co-opted or distorted, in part due to propaganda efforts by Iran and its proxies, turning them into something less genuine & providing a platform for those with more sinister views, subconscious and conscious.
This becomes especially dangerous for Jewish communities around the world, who increasingly find themselves targeted not for their views, but simply for being Jewish. Synagogues vandalized, Jewish students harassed, and hateful rhetoric spreads unchecked, all under the guise of political protest. What begins as political dissent can quickly become a justification for bigotry, and that shift carries very real, very frightening consequences.
It’s a very tricky situation.

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 16:46

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:30

Oh dear.

Criticising the Israeli government is not necessarily anti semetic.

Comparing them to the Nazis is.

Is it that difficult to understand?

I agree with this. And it does seem difficult for people to understand. I always want to ask them why they have chosen that particular atrocity to compare the situation in Palestine to when there are so many others you could use if you wish to do that? I have actually asked people I know and they don't understand what I am saying.

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 16:43

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 15:32

I am not "disbelieving". I believe there is a rise in anti-semitism (or that it has never gone away). Being sympathetic with the plight of Palestinians in Gaza does not mean that a person is not aware of this.

Is it possible to sympathise about antisemitism in the UK without mentioning Gaza in the same breath? Because there's a subtext there if you do that - you're basically implying all Jewish people are accountable for that, just because they're Jewish.

But I didn't do that. I think you have to do a bit of intellectual gymnastics to get to what you are suggesting, and I really don't think it is useful to keep trying to prove that people like me are anti-semitic.
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Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:30

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:29

If you are saying that being anti Israel government is anti-Semitic then yes, I like many people wholeheartedly reject that.

The fact that it (currently) is official makes no difference. And I think you will see the number of countries supporting that drop rapidly in light of Israel's actions.

It's nonsensical. It is like Italy committing some awful act, people protesting against it, and then claiming that the protest is anti catholic.

It s a definition which suits some though, feeling as though you can accuse anyone who disagrees with you as racist.

Oh dear.

Criticising the Israeli government is not necessarily anti semetic.

Comparing them to the Nazis is.

Is it that difficult to understand?

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:29

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:21

Well the UK government use the IHRAs definition of anti semetism.

For now.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:29

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:25

So you think there's no anti semetism on the marches because you reject the official definition of anti semetism?

If you are saying that being anti Israel government is anti-Semitic then yes, I like many people wholeheartedly reject that.

The fact that it (currently) is official makes no difference. And I think you will see the number of countries supporting that drop rapidly in light of Israel's actions.

It's nonsensical. It is like Italy committing some awful act, people protesting against it, and then claiming that the protest is anti catholic.

It s a definition which suits some though, feeling as though you can accuse anyone who disagrees with you as racist.

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:25

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:20

One of the key reasons for this conflation is complaints of anti-Semitism which are actually just cases of people disapproving of Israel's actions.

So the conflation of Jews worldwide and Israel is actually, in SOME cases coming from Jewish people.

So people see a pro-Palestine march and call it an antisemitic march etc. which is only strengthening the (false) view that being Jewish and an Israeli supporter is interchangable.

So you think there's no anti semetism on the marches because you reject the official definition of anti semetism?

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 16:23

So people see a pro-Palestine march and call it an antisemitic march etc. which is only strengthening the (false) view that being Jewish and an Israeli supporter is interchangable.

There were multiple threads on here at the time when the marches were most frequent, cataloguing the various posters and signs that were blatently antisemitic. It's inaccurate to state that the view is always false - sometimes it's true.

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:21

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:17

Nope. The opinion of many people is that that view is bullshit. I think the peaceful pressure from the masses in many countries will hopefully force governments to reconsider whether they support that.

Israel have undertaken many actions which are comparable with the Nazis. Ethnic cleansing. dehumanisation. Hoarding helpless people into spaces to die. Removing their rights. Mass starvation.

If someone is enough of a cunt to act like that they get called out on it. Regardless of race and religion.

Because the same term is used to describe various groups that behave in a way comparable to the Nazis, for example ICE in the USA.

Well the UK government use the IHRAs definition of anti semetism.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:20

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 15:32

I am not "disbelieving". I believe there is a rise in anti-semitism (or that it has never gone away). Being sympathetic with the plight of Palestinians in Gaza does not mean that a person is not aware of this.

Is it possible to sympathise about antisemitism in the UK without mentioning Gaza in the same breath? Because there's a subtext there if you do that - you're basically implying all Jewish people are accountable for that, just because they're Jewish.

One of the key reasons for this conflation is complaints of anti-Semitism which are actually just cases of people disapproving of Israel's actions.

So the conflation of Jews worldwide and Israel is actually, in SOME cases coming from Jewish people.

So people see a pro-Palestine march and call it an antisemitic march etc. which is only strengthening the (false) view that being Jewish and an Israeli supporter is interchangable.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:17

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:09

And when pushed you describe something that clearly signifies Israel acting like the Nazis did

Comparing Israeli policy to the Nazis is anti semetic though. If you look up the IHRA definition, it's clearly stated.

Nope. The opinion of many people is that that view is bullshit. I think the peaceful pressure from the masses in many countries will hopefully force governments to reconsider whether they support that.

Israel have undertaken many actions which are comparable with the Nazis. Ethnic cleansing. dehumanisation. Hoarding helpless people into spaces to die. Removing their rights. Mass starvation.

If someone is enough of a cunt to act like that they get called out on it. Regardless of race and religion.

Because the same term is used to describe various groups that behave in a way comparable to the Nazis, for example ICE in the USA.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:11

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 16:07

This is what I mean about the boy that cried wolf and what is undermining actual anti semitism.

The OP initially described her and her children being attacked - you know, actual antisemitism.
Would you honestly, hand on heart, speak this way to a black woman who posted to describe being racially abused?

I am not referring to that incident. I am referring to her description of people marching around London with swastikas. Trying to slander peaceful people who want an end to suffering in Palestine as violent Nazis.

If someone threatened it abused her family of course that is anti-Semitism, but that is. It what I (or she) was referring to in this post.

I assume at least, because she hasn't actually described what happened.

And yes I would say the same. If a black woman saw me protesting atrocities but someone who happened to be black, and accused me of racism on that basis, I would call her out just as loudly.

I think you are making an assumption that I, andyfamily are all white tbh.

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 16:09

And when pushed you describe something that clearly signifies Israel acting like the Nazis did

Comparing Israeli policy to the Nazis is anti semetic though. If you look up the IHRA definition, it's clearly stated.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 16:07

This is what I mean about the boy that cried wolf and what is undermining actual anti semitism.

The OP initially described her and her children being attacked - you know, actual antisemitism.
Would you honestly, hand on heart, speak this way to a black woman who posted to describe being racially abused?

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:04

Longingdreamer · 28/07/2025 13:20

I have posted the links above. There are many more articles if you do a quick Google. It's not a myth, and I find it quite offensive that you doubt my experiences. I stated clearly that I witnessed people holding placards with swastikas (often over the Star of David) when I came across these marches accidentally. The reality is that they are very hard to avoid in London.

Drip drip...Oh you are being disingenuous.
You indicated initially that there are neonatzis marching round London with swastikas.

And when pushed you describe something that clearly signifies Israel acting like the Nazis did in the name of Judaism. Ie being Nazis and trampling over Judaism to do so.

This is what I mean about the boy that cried wolf and what is undermining actual anti semitism.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 15:32

I am not "disbelieving". I believe there is a rise in anti-semitism (or that it has never gone away). Being sympathetic with the plight of Palestinians in Gaza does not mean that a person is not aware of this.

Is it possible to sympathise about antisemitism in the UK without mentioning Gaza in the same breath? Because there's a subtext there if you do that - you're basically implying all Jewish people are accountable for that, just because they're Jewish.

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 15:12

Longingdreamer · 28/07/2025 14:52

I did, if you read the whole thread, and I also gave a detailed account of another incident. I have provided links, and there is a lot of other evidence online. You are still choosing to disbelieve. Would you disbelieve anyone who was giving their personal account of another type of racism? Or is it because I am Jewish m?

I am not "disbelieving". I believe there is a rise in anti-semitism (or that it has never gone away). Being sympathetic with the plight of Palestinians in Gaza does not mean that a person is not aware of this.

Things are really bad enough without you trying to make us turn against people marching in protest about the plight of people in Palestine. For some of us it isn't either or. We can hold two thoughts/ideas in our heads at once.

Longingdreamer · 28/07/2025 14:53

nomas · 28/07/2025 14:14

I did read the Telegraph article but there was no image of a swastika / placard or any other evidence of one.

Let me clear, any one displaying such symbols should be arrested and charged.

But I don’t think the police or government would tolerate weekly marches with swastikas everywhere and none of the links provided show this. I don’t London has descended into Nazi Germany just yet.

I really wish that the government and police wouldn't tolerate this, but you have just read an article where the police officer is explaining that it is tolerated.

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