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To think there are very few allies against Anti-Semitism?

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 14:04

This month, I have had experienced Anti-Semitism twice. Both times I was with my children.

Both times, my children were distressed, and no one around did anything to protect us or raise the alarm. When we asked for help, we were dismissed. We were in very busy public spaces both times: a tube platform, then a high street.

I reported the first episode to the police. I'm not even sure if it's worth reporting the second episode. Sadly it feels so mainstream, and the authorities are not supportive when I report it either.

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OonaStubbs · 28/07/2025 22:22

TaupeLemur · 28/07/2025 21:46

That has to be a joke. I promise you I will call any genocide a genocide regardless of the perpetrators. Ok?

Did the Allies commit genocide against Germany in WW2?

Why did Palestine carry out the atrocities of October 7th knowing that Israel possesses much more military strength and would certainly retaliate?

Why DOES Israel posses far more military strength when they are a country alone in that region of the world whereas Palestine is an Islamic state surrounded by other Islamic states?

missinglalaland · 28/07/2025 22:16

When I first came to the UK 25 years ago, I noticed subtle antisemitism. I asked British Jews that I met how they felt about it. Everyone claimed there was no antisemitism, everything was fine. They didn’t recognise what I was picking up on.

I am not Jewish, but I grew up on the US East Coast where there was a significant Jewish minority. I grew up with Jewish friends and their families were kind, intelligent, warm and generous.

I feel sad to see that my antenna seemed to be right after all. October 7th seemed to give everyone permission to let out their ugliest feelings.

TaupeLemur · 28/07/2025 21:46

OonaStubbs · 28/07/2025 21:28

Why are Israel held to much higher moral standards than other countries at war - including Palestine?

That has to be a joke. I promise you I will call any genocide a genocide regardless of the perpetrators. Ok?

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 21:32

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 17:47

I'm sorry but Israeli people and those who support them aren't entitled to have their feelings protected in a way that no one else is.

It's not just Israelis that find the comparison hurtful. But I can't stop you if you wish to cause pain, I guess.

Nobody is setting out to hurt anyone. It they truth can't be brushed under the carpet to spare people's feelings.

OonaStubbs · 28/07/2025 21:28

Why are Israel held to much higher moral standards than other countries at war - including Palestine?

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 21:04

Anyway, all of this is utterly irrelevant to the fact that Jewish people in the UK should not be experiencing antisemitism, or have their experience denied or derided when they do.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 21:03

Amnesty says men are women, so...

TaupeLemur · 28/07/2025 21:02

UN says genocide. Medicine sans Frontiers says genocide. Amnesty says genocide. Even human rights grps IN Israel are saying genocide.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 20:59

It was the casual use of " revengeful bloodlust" I was referring to.

It was also alleged at the time that Iran paid South Africa to bring the genocide case to the ICJ: https://www.thejc.com/news/world/was-south-africa-bribed-by-iran-to-bring-genocide-case-against-israel-sxtyq756

I can't say for certain how true or not that is, but given that Iran was plausibly behind 7 October as a way to derail the Abraham Accords, it's plausible.

TaupeLemur · 28/07/2025 20:56

Honestly, No one should use the word genocide ‘casually’ but not should they be afraid to say ‘genocide’ when that’s what’s happening. In full view of the world.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 20:54

yes, I suppose committing genocide in a revengeful bloodlust will do that.

This is exactly the kind of phrasing I'm talking about. And you say it so casually.

Middle Eastern pundits actually get it, far more so than Westerners I think:
https://x.com/amjadt25/status/1949910158223822942

https://x.com/amjadt25/status/1949910158223822942

TaupeLemur · 28/07/2025 20:29

‘The other issue as I see it is that Israel is losing the PR war. ’

yes, I suppose committing genocide in a revengeful bloodlust will do that.

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 17:47

I'm sorry but Israeli people and those who support them aren't entitled to have their feelings protected in a way that no one else is.

It's not just Israelis that find the comparison hurtful. But I can't stop you if you wish to cause pain, I guess.

noworklifebalance · 28/07/2025 17:42

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:35

It’s not me making the comparison- I am suggesting why some may

I understand you didn't make the comparison and appreciate you explaining but imo it is never an acceptable or even understandable comparison.

I mean I've never heard anyone compare the Rwandan genocide to the Holocaust...or the conflict in Yemen or the genocide of the Uyghurs or the situation in Sudan.

Of course not, because the Holocaust is relevant to Netanyahu.
If the Uyghur people started atrocities against another race/ethnicity in a similar scale, saying to them it is in some way similar to the Holocaust and the mass genocide of Jews would not have the same impact as if it was said to be similar to ethnic cleansing of Uyghur people, themselves.
People dehumanise other races and ethnic groups. They only recognise what has happened to themselves.

noworklifebalance · 28/07/2025 17:38

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 17:22

It is so easy to make that comparison without understanding the wider repercussions of doing so. I feel you are on dangerous ground.

It shows that there needs to be more widespread education about what anti-semitism is. I am appalled by what is happening to the Palestinian people in Gaza, but I am also appalled by anti-semitism.

I don't think anything enlightening is going to come from this thread so this is the point at which I make my exit.

Not sure why you feel I am on dangerous ground when I haven’t said these are my views.
I have also been careful to say that this is about Netanyahu and his government. Not about Jewish people (Israeli citizens or otherwise). If would be antisemitic if criticised Jewish people as a whole for their actions government’s actions.

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:35

It’s not me making the comparison- I am suggesting why some may

I understand you didn't make the comparison and appreciate you explaining but imo it is never an acceptable or even understandable comparison.

I mean I've never heard anyone compare the Rwandan genocide to the Holocaust...or the conflict in Yemen or the genocide of the Uyghurs or the situation in Sudan.

mumandmumber · 28/07/2025 17:32

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:05

Honestly if you think dressing up as concentration camp victim is an appropriate thing to do, there is literally no debating with you.

I was going to say pretty much the same thing.
Absolutely lost for words anyway.

NellitheNelephant · 28/07/2025 17:22

noworklifebalance · 28/07/2025 17:15

It’s not me making the comparison- I am suggesting why some may.
I suspect things like it’s relative recency, the infamy, the scale, the displacement and that it affected Jews and now it’s an Israeli government that is inflicting horrors on a very specific group of people. This maybe where the comparison ends but it will have little impact on the supporters of Netanyahu to compare his current actions to that suffered by another group of non-Jewish people.

It is so easy to make that comparison without understanding the wider repercussions of doing so. I feel you are on dangerous ground.

It shows that there needs to be more widespread education about what anti-semitism is. I am appalled by what is happening to the Palestinian people in Gaza, but I am also appalled by anti-semitism.

I don't think anything enlightening is going to come from this thread so this is the point at which I make my exit.

noworklifebalance · 28/07/2025 17:15

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:01

But the Holocaust and the situation in Gaza have very few similarities. Even if you are horrified by what's happening currently, what's your reasoning for choosing the Holocaust to use as comparison over other historical events that will share far more similarities?

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It’s not me making the comparison- I am suggesting why some may.
I suspect things like it’s relative recency, the infamy, the scale, the displacement and that it affected Jews and now it’s an Israeli government that is inflicting horrors on a very specific group of people. This maybe where the comparison ends but it will have little impact on the supporters of Netanyahu to compare his current actions to that suffered by another group of non-Jewish people.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 17:14

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 17:01

The other issue as I see it is that Israel is losing the PR war. A lot of claims about the various "atrocities" it's committing prove, on closer examination, to be incorrect or framed in order to portray it in the worst light possible.

I'm not denying that things are hellish for the civilians of Gaza, before anyone claims that - but I do think that the constant assumption of worst-faith possible explanations for Israeli actions, and the willingness to believe lies and the distortion of truth, probably is in many cases based in antisemitism - it's blood libel, essentially.

It's impossible to scroll X without an endless barrage of "bloodthirsty Israhell demons" posts.

But anyway, as ever, this is a derail - it's impossible to have a thread, on MN or elsewhere, about antisemitism in the UK, without it going back to Gaza.

Genocide, forced starvation, shooting those waiting for aid are being portrayed in a negative light?

Is it possible to portray then in a positive light?

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 17:12

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:04

It's not very similar to the Nazis at all.

Many, many people across the world disagree with you. Myself included.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 17:12

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:05

Honestly if you think dressing up as concentration camp victim is an appropriate thing to do, there is literally no debating with you.

It's not dressing up for a fancy dress part. It is highlighting human suffering. That's the difference.

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 17:11

SpaceRaccoon · 28/07/2025 17:02

Why is this grotesque? It is making the point that what the Holocaust victims suffered is comparable with what people in Palestine are suffering.

Firstly, it's not. They're two completely different situations.
Secondly, if you're told, time and time again, that this comparison is hurtful and offensive to Jewish people, maybe it's time to find another one.

I'm sorry but Israeli people and those who support them aren't entitled to have their feelings protected in a way that no one else is.

When you look at what the Palestinians are suffering, its ridiculously entitled to be saying I don't feel comfortable with that. I'm sure that feeling uncomfortable with a comparison would be the least of the worries of the Palestinians people at the moment.

The Holocaust is the worst atrocity I can think of. However it has come to be misused to suggest that Israel can act in a morally repugnant way and be above reproach, because people who first settled there had often been victims of the Holocaust.

Many Israeli families would first have settled there in the aftermath of WW2 and the Holocaust and their suffering has rightly been recognised world wide since.

The link is therefore very relevant, that what their grandparents and great grandparents suffered is happening at their hands to others who also deserve intervention and recognition of their suffering. The link is what makes it poignant.

The fact that it makes others uncomfortable is irrelevant. We need hard truths pointing out at times.

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:05

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 17:01

Why is this grotesque? It is making the point that what the Holocaust victims suffered is comparable with what people in Palestine are suffering.

It is about the fact that everyone said 'never again' but here we are, again, just with different groups of people.

Honestly if you think dressing up as concentration camp victim is an appropriate thing to do, there is literally no debating with you.

Comedycook · 28/07/2025 17:04

CleverButScatty · 28/07/2025 16:59

It's not difficult to understand your viewpoint. I just don't agree.
The Israel government are carrying out acts very similar to the Nazis and to call them Nazis is not anti semitic or racist.
It's absolutely bananas to suggest that there is one country's government that is exempt from being called to account for their actions.

It's not very similar to the Nazis at all.

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