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To think there are very few allies against Anti-Semitism?

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 14:04

This month, I have had experienced Anti-Semitism twice. Both times I was with my children.

Both times, my children were distressed, and no one around did anything to protect us or raise the alarm. When we asked for help, we were dismissed. We were in very busy public spaces both times: a tube platform, then a high street.

I reported the first episode to the police. I'm not even sure if it's worth reporting the second episode. Sadly it feels so mainstream, and the authorities are not supportive when I report it either.

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FortheloveofCheesus · 24/07/2025 19:32

People tend to associate Israel as state, with the Jewish people more widely. Sadly many people are not understanding that the actions of Israel are those of a state, not a whole people.

Its quite scary for many people that western governments aren't intervening to help the Gazans, & anti semites/hate groups prey on the fear and spread disinformation.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 19:30

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:26

All the talk of Israel I find a bit of a derailment, but as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

Zionist has been misappropriated as a term.

Yes, unfortunately this thread is an example of antisemitism.

That said, would you mind if we continue the discourse about what antisemitism is and is not? I do think one of the big problems with antisemitism is how poorly understood it is, to the extent that people (often non-hateful) engage in it without realizing.

noworklifebalance · 24/07/2025 19:29

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:10

Thank you. It might be 'just' out of ignorance, but often it comes from a much darker place: people use this to argue that Jews cannot experience racism (Dianne Abbott et al). This ignores that there are Jews of all colours.

Many members of all minorities are not necessarily visible as part of that minority. That doesn't lessen their experiences of racism.

If it is out of ignorance, then I hope this poster can listen to why this questioning is offensive, and learn.

Many members of all minorities are not necessarily visible as part of that minority

I think this is what PP was saying.
I don’t think they are coming from a place of ignorance or racism - some people I can tell are Jewish or Muslim from how they look. Others, I wouldn’t have had a clue unless they told me or I could infer it from something they said. One Muslim colleague looks Caucasian/white and a Jewish neighbour looks South American.
It just shows that Jewish people (and those of other religions) cannot and should not be typecast or judged as a group.

zerofeeling · 24/07/2025 19:29

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:26

All the talk of Israel I find a bit of a derailment, but as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

Zionist has been misappropriated as a term.

'Israel has a right to exist' - what does that mean in practice?

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:26

All the talk of Israel I find a bit of a derailment, but as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

Zionist has been misappropriated as a term.

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Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:24

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:21

Some Jews in the UK are Zionists and support Israel's actions.

However that does not excuse racist attacks.

Most Jewish people in the UK are Zionist.

Whether they support the actions the Israeli government take or not is an entirely separate issue.

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:23

JustSawJohnny · 24/07/2025 19:17

I live in a rural area and people are quick to help out here but we moved from a city and people were happy to turn a blind eye there. I think they're so used to hearing stories of violence that they're fearful of getting involved.

I'm so sorry you went through this, OP and I do hope your kids are OK.

We are living in such fraught times and hatred seems to be flourishing.

How anyone could look at another person and make immediate judgment about them or take out anger due to the actions of others of their race or religion on a complete stranger is beyond me.

Racism is an awful thing.

Thank you. I do understand the fear people have in London, and it's not unfounded sadly. Unfortunately no one helped when I asked for it afterwards either, when there was no immediate danger to themselves. This seems rather unforgivable.

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JustSawJohnny · 24/07/2025 19:22

But we all know that criticism of Israel and of ‘Zionists’ - or ‘Zios’, as some use - is really just attacks on Jews and Jewish life.

Some will be, but they are the minority, IMO.

The vast majority of the comments I see are about Netanyahu himself, and no, that's not antisemitism. That's a direct reaction to his actions.

I hate him. I don't hate Jews.

I hate Trump. I don't hate Americans.

I hate Putin. You see my point.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:21

Hertsmum78 · 24/07/2025 14:31

@PenelopePennyDrop That's great to know that you're outraged by the genocide in Gaza but why do you feel the need to say it in the same breath as saying you're not anti-semitic? Jews in the UK are not in any way responsible for what's happening in Gaza and I think it would be widely considered to be problematic if I said:

'I disapprove of the genocide in Rwanda but have nothing against Black people'

... do you see what I mean? It suggests that the first thing is somehow the responsibility/interest of all Black people all over the world?

Some Jews in the UK are Zionists and support Israel's actions.

However that does not excuse racist attacks.

JustSawJohnny · 24/07/2025 19:17

I live in a rural area and people are quick to help out here but we moved from a city and people were happy to turn a blind eye there. I think they're so used to hearing stories of violence that they're fearful of getting involved.

I'm so sorry you went through this, OP and I do hope your kids are OK.

We are living in such fraught times and hatred seems to be flourishing.

How anyone could look at another person and make immediate judgment about them or take out anger due to the actions of others of their race or religion on a complete stranger is beyond me.

Racism is an awful thing.

nomas · 24/07/2025 19:10

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 19:04

No, I’m right. The number of persistent critics of Israel who aren’t part of the anti-Israel, antisemitic industry is tiny.

You’re saying no one can criticise Israel.

And have spectacularly derailed OP’s thread in the process.

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:10

mumandmumber · 24/07/2025 18:54

And ignorant!

Thank you. It might be 'just' out of ignorance, but often it comes from a much darker place: people use this to argue that Jews cannot experience racism (Dianne Abbott et al). This ignores that there are Jews of all colours.

Many members of all minorities are not necessarily visible as part of that minority. That doesn't lessen their experiences of racism.

If it is out of ignorance, then I hope this poster can listen to why this questioning is offensive, and learn.

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SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 19:04

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:55

You are wrong.

Every time.

No, I’m right. The number of persistent critics of Israel who aren’t part of the anti-Israel, antisemitic industry is tiny.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 19:02

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:59

Thanks, it was more for the poster you replied to.

All good, I gave it a quick google to verify, and I appreciate the knowledge shared.

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:59

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 18:58

I've never head "Pal" before, let alone used it, but if its a slur then I'll continue to not use it. Thank you for flagging it.

Thanks, it was more for the poster you replied to.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 18:58

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:56

Zios a slur and so is pro-Pal.

They are Palestinians.

Say their name.

I've never head "Pal" before, let alone used it, but if its a slur then I'll continue to not use it. Thank you for flagging it.

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:56

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 18:55

"Zios" is just a plain slur, coined by the KKK to mean all Jews. Even Corbyn has condemned it as such, but I still see left wing folk use it.

I do think that when many British folks condemn "Zionism" they do actually mean to condemn those who believe in the expansion of Israel's current borders. They usually don't realize that they are misusing the term.

I've seen people denounce "Zionists" as "murderers and baby killers". If you think that Zionists are those who want to annex Gaza, that might be a fair comment...but, as you know, that isnt what Zionist actually means, and what will actually be heard by most people, outside of the British-left-bubble is "if you believe Israel should exist as a Jewish state, in some form or another, you kill babies".

I also dont think most British Anti-Zionists realize they are essentially rejecting a two-state solution.

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Zios a slur and so is pro-Pal.

They are Palestinians.

Say their name.

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:55

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:53

Rubbish. It’s the plain truth.

You are wrong.

Every time.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 18:55

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:41

In an ideal world that would be true.

But we all know that criticism of Israel and of ‘Zionists’ - or ‘Zios’, as some use - is really just attacks on Jews and Jewish life.

It’s fatuous to argue otherwise. The most obvious reason for that is the fixation of ‘anti-Israel’ campaigners on the one source of conflict that involves Jews and their homeland.

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"Zios" is just a plain slur, coined by the KKK to mean all Jews. Even Corbyn has condemned it as such, but I still see left wing folk use it.

I do think that when many British folks condemn "Zionism" they do actually mean to condemn those who believe in the expansion of Israel's current borders. They usually don't realize that they are misusing the term.

I've seen people denounce "Zionists" as "murderers and baby killers". If you think that Zionists are those who want to annex Gaza, that might be a fair comment...but, as you know, that isnt what Zionist actually means, and what will actually be heard by most people, outside of the British-left-bubble is "if you believe Israel should exist as a Jewish state, in some form or another, you kill babies".

I also dont think most British Anti-Zionists realize they are essentially rejecting a two-state solution.

mumandmumber · 24/07/2025 18:54

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 18:05

Would you say this to any other minority who experienced racism? I find this line of questioning very unpleasant.

And ignorant!

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:53

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:49

No, all criticism of Israel is not anti-Semitic.

Your views are hardline and extremist and highly dangerous.

No matter how many times you repeat this lie, you must be challenged. Every time.

Rubbish. It’s the plain truth.

nomas · 24/07/2025 18:49

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:41

In an ideal world that would be true.

But we all know that criticism of Israel and of ‘Zionists’ - or ‘Zios’, as some use - is really just attacks on Jews and Jewish life.

It’s fatuous to argue otherwise. The most obvious reason for that is the fixation of ‘anti-Israel’ campaigners on the one source of conflict that involves Jews and their homeland.

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No, all criticism of Israel is not anti-Semitic.

Your views are hardline and extremist and highly dangerous.

No matter how many times you repeat this lie, you must be challenged. Every time.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 18:42

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:35

No, it isn’t. But it’s predominantly the left, just by numbers alone. There are a great many ‘pro-Pal’ rank antisemites but very many fewer loathsome EDL types.

Once you add in the relative influence of the antisemite left, the left’s responsibility for promoting Jew-hatred is overwhelming.

Antisemitism on the far right is so overt and clear in it's that everyone can recognize it, and the vast majority condem it. It is fringe and will likely stay that way.

Left wing antisemitism isn't so overt, but its insidious, widespread and on the increase.

I'd even be a little reluctant to call many of the left wing folks "antisemetes", in that I don't think they actively harbor antisemitic attitudes, they just don't realize how frequently they engage in and/or support antisemitism.

This is a particularly pronounced problem within the British left (I think the fact that it has its own special definition of "Zionism" speaks to that).

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:41

Glowingup · 24/07/2025 18:31

Criticism of a state should have nothing to do with whether it is the home of a particular group or whether they might have suffered prejudice in the past. It’s literally criticism of their actions. But I do know people who were frightened of saying they were Russian in case it opened them up to abuse.

In an ideal world that would be true.

But we all know that criticism of Israel and of ‘Zionists’ - or ‘Zios’, as some use - is really just attacks on Jews and Jewish life.

It’s fatuous to argue otherwise. The most obvious reason for that is the fixation of ‘anti-Israel’ campaigners on the one source of conflict that involves Jews and their homeland.

BlueJuniper94 · 24/07/2025 18:40

Popstarrrrr · 24/07/2025 14:11

Whilst I'd agree about the bystander effect in many large towns/cities these days, it does make me think we're going to shit as human beings if we cannot offer assistance to a family who have been racially abused and person who has just been mugged.

Not aimed at you but a reflection of just how awful this world is. I just wonder how we get better?

I don't see how we can. The sad truth is that we have created this low trust society ourselves. It's what we wanted.