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To think there are very few allies against Anti-Semitism?

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 14:04

This month, I have had experienced Anti-Semitism twice. Both times I was with my children.

Both times, my children were distressed, and no one around did anything to protect us or raise the alarm. When we asked for help, we were dismissed. We were in very busy public spaces both times: a tube platform, then a high street.

I reported the first episode to the police. I'm not even sure if it's worth reporting the second episode. Sadly it feels so mainstream, and the authorities are not supportive when I report it either.

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DazedAndConfused321 · 25/07/2025 01:00

I'm sorry you experienced anti-semitism, and I'm sorry this thread has derailed.

It's so important to remember that not all Jewish people are israeli or pro-israel. And we can be anti-israel and pro-Jewish. I'm for a free Palestine but they are seperate conversations, and anti-semitism as a phrase has absolutely been used in the wrong context so often recently that serious incidents such as yours, OP, are overlooked.

MyDearEagle · 25/07/2025 00:30

SummerFeverVenice · 24/07/2025 22:37

You have just contradicted yourself by saying there isn’t a political manifesto, but rather many political manifestos due to divergent groups of self professed Zionists in addition to the original, largest and official World Zionist Organisation.

Zionism is a political movement. Every political movement has political manifestos and other creeds that go along with and evolve as the movement evolves and responds to current events- including the formation of splinter groups and ideological splits.

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Okay. Let's say that:

  • the Conservative Party believed that Northern Ireland should remain part of the UK.

  • Reform wanted the UK to annex Ireland.

  • Labour supported Irish reunification, such that the UK would become the United Kingdom of England, Wales and Scotland.

Would you feel comfortable in saying they share a "UKism" manifesto, because they are a political movement that all agree to some extent, that the UK should continue to exist?

If so, sure, I guess, modern Zionism is a similar political movement with a similar manifesto. I don't see how thats helpful, though.

UrbanOasis · 24/07/2025 23:53

Flushmush · 24/07/2025 14:16

Your not being unreasonable, I am not Jewish, I was raised Catholic but my father is so I feel sensitive to this issue and I suppose could be considered part Jewish. I think understandably people are outraged at what is happening in Gaza but there are times that outrage seems to spill over into antisemitism and in other instances it seems to give permission to some who always hated Jews to express that hatred freely.

Agree with this.

Heyheyitsanotherday · 24/07/2025 22:48

I’m really sorry this happened to you and your children.
i don’t understand why people are anti semetic. I don’t understand why people are racist. It saddens me that this is the world we live in and I wish I had the power to change things for the better. Please know you are not alone op x

SummerFeverVenice · 24/07/2025 22:37

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 22:26

There, quite obviously, is not a political manifesto for Zionism, or there would not be divergent groups of Zionists, with different philosophies, beliefs and aims.

Wiki intro: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Types_of_Zionism

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You have just contradicted yourself by saying there isn’t a political manifesto, but rather many political manifestos due to divergent groups of self professed Zionists in addition to the original, largest and official World Zionist Organisation.

Zionism is a political movement. Every political movement has political manifestos and other creeds that go along with and evolve as the movement evolves and responds to current events- including the formation of splinter groups and ideological splits.

SummerFeverVenice · 24/07/2025 22:34

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 22:22

The WZO is not the gatekeeper of the term, and not all Zionists would accept every aspect of its program.

In any event, the program as expressed does not say "must support Netanyahu and his government's actions" so I'm not sure I understand what point you are trying to make.

Thank you for supporting my point that Zionism and the actions done in the name of Zionism are varied, do not always align coherently with professed values and, furthermore, that Zionism is not just the belief in the right of Jews to self rule and self determination in Israel per comedycook’s over simplification.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 22:26

SummerFeverVenice · 24/07/2025 20:50

So you have never been to Israel and don’t think there is any political “manifesto” for Zionism? Seriously? You have never heard of the WZO’s platform titled the Jerusalem Program (latest edition February 2024) and how agreement on all of the points is required for membership as a Zionist of the WZO?

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There, quite obviously, is not a political manifesto for Zionism, or there would not be divergent groups of Zionists, with different philosophies, beliefs and aims.

Wiki intro: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Types_of_Zionism

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 22:22

SummerFeverVenice · 24/07/2025 20:53

The WZO says Zionism means agreement with its entire platform, the Jerusalem Program.

Here is an English version
https://www.wzo.org.il/page/extraordinary-congress/jerusalem-program/en

The WZO is not the gatekeeper of the term, and not all Zionists would accept every aspect of its program.

In any event, the program as expressed does not say "must support Netanyahu and his government's actions" so I'm not sure I understand what point you are trying to make.

BeatrizBoniface · 24/07/2025 22:14

SpaceRaccoon · 24/07/2025 22:12

The Nazis were Christians.

They weren't, specifically. And there was that fascination with esotericism and Eastern religions, including the Swastika stuff.

Yes, and they tried to replace Christian festivals with pagan Nazi ones, like the Winter Festival.

Glowingup · 24/07/2025 22:14

nomas · 24/07/2025 22:03

The Nazis were Christians.

Well they claimed to be although some in the leadership believed in some weird mysticism and astrology, including Hitler and Himmler. But yes many pogroms and expulsions of Jews have been carried out by Christians. And christians do not see Jews as gods chosen people.

SpaceRaccoon · 24/07/2025 22:12

The Nazis were Christians.

They weren't, specifically. And there was that fascination with esotericism and Eastern religions, including the Swastika stuff.

BeatrizBoniface · 24/07/2025 22:12

nomas · 24/07/2025 22:03

The Nazis were Christians.

No, they were pagans. They considered Christianity to be weak and Judeo centric. Christian Protestant churches were brought under the control of the Reichs church. They failed to dismantle Christianity.

nomas · 24/07/2025 22:03

SummerSunAndFun · 24/07/2025 21:28

@Longingdreamer I'm sorry this has happened to you. Try to find the Christians if possible. Many of us recognise the Jews as God's chosen people.

The Nazis were Christians.

SpaceRaccoon · 24/07/2025 21:49

IMO, Zionists should live in Israel. But many don't.

Could you even imagine saying that about any other group? Because it honestly sounds no different to me than any other "send them back to where they came from" rhetoric.

SummerSunAndFun · 24/07/2025 21:28

@Longingdreamer I'm sorry this has happened to you. Try to find the Christians if possible. Many of us recognise the Jews as God's chosen people.

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/07/2025 21:28

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:35

No, it isn’t. But it’s predominantly the left, just by numbers alone. There are a great many ‘pro-Pal’ rank antisemites but very many fewer loathsome EDL types.

Once you add in the relative influence of the antisemite left, the left’s responsibility for promoting Jew-hatred is overwhelming.

What do you mean by pro-Pal antisemites?Confused

There are no fewer EDL types now. Indeed the racist, Antisemetic, bigoted, EDL types are a growing demographic.

zerofeeling · 24/07/2025 21:06

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 20:27

What would you like me to do...write some sort of political manifesto? People will have varying ideas of what should and shouldn't happen and what government policy should be. Thats the details part. The overall belief is that Israel has the right to exist as the Jewish homeland and we have the right to self determination.

Tell me...do you think Israel shouldn't exist? If so, how would that work?

No I don't think that. Do you think that Palestine should be recognised as a Sovereign State?

PurpleThistle7 · 24/07/2025 21:06

I don’t feel safe wearing my Jewish star anymore. Without it people on the street would have no idea I’m Jewish. With it I’m a symbol and I had several uncomfortable reactions that made me exhausted or frightened or angry. I cannot live at that level of anxiety every day and I worry I couldn’t protect my children if something happened. I feel very guilty for taking advantage of my privilege to choose whether or not I present Jewish.

in summary it’s not safe. Whatever anyone thinks about foreign wars or history or Zionism or not, it’s not right that my children and I (and the OP’s family) live in this sort of fear. And it’s not just about Israel, this is just the catalyst and an excuse. Every single generation has this story and I’m so very fed up to know that it’s going on and on forever.

My great grandparents fled the pogroms in Russia and Ukraine, my grandparents had rocks thrown at them on their way to school while their cousins died in Europe, my parents weren’t allowed to join the local country club, I had pennies thrown at me and horrible things written on my desk at school, my daughter had a boy shove her in the hallway yelling ‘free Palestine’ while she cried. It just goes on and on forever.

Ketzele · 24/07/2025 20:57

Ah OP, I am so sorry that this happened to you, and that this thread went the predictable way. FWIW, I believe you.

I have almost given up contributing to these threads. I'm a knackered, cynical descendant of Holocaust survivors, a Zionist who believes Netanyahu should rot behind bars, and someone who is constantly amazed by the level of public ignorance about Jews, Israel, the Holocaust, Zionism and antisemitism.

Jews are a tiny community in the UK, and most people simply don't see antisemitism in action. That doesn't mean it's not happening. So people, please stop relying on the evidence of your own eyes and do some research! Learn something!

SummerFeverVenice · 24/07/2025 20:53

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 20:37

Again, Zionism (in the modern age) means believing in the continued existence of a Jewish state (usually, within the historic region of Palestine).

That is how most of the world uses the term.

The WZO says Zionism means agreement with its entire platform, the Jerusalem Program.

Here is an English version
https://www.wzo.org.il/page/extraordinary-congress/jerusalem-program/en

The Jerusalem Program

The World Zionist Organization is committed to promoting Zionism & the Zionist idea and the Zionist enterprise through Israel Education as vital and positive elements of contemporary Jewish life, in accordance with the principles articulated in the Jer...

https://www.wzo.org.il/page/extraordinary-congress/jerusalem-program/en

SummerFeverVenice · 24/07/2025 20:50

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 20:27

What would you like me to do...write some sort of political manifesto? People will have varying ideas of what should and shouldn't happen and what government policy should be. Thats the details part. The overall belief is that Israel has the right to exist as the Jewish homeland and we have the right to self determination.

Tell me...do you think Israel shouldn't exist? If so, how would that work?

So you have never been to Israel and don’t think there is any political “manifesto” for Zionism? Seriously? You have never heard of the WZO’s platform titled the Jerusalem Program (latest edition February 2024) and how agreement on all of the points is required for membership as a Zionist of the WZO?

Glowingup · 24/07/2025 20:40

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MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 20:37

zerofeeling · 24/07/2025 20:21

That's not a proper definition - what does 'the right of Israel to exist' mean in practice?

Again, Zionism (in the modern age) means believing in the continued existence of a Jewish state (usually, within the historic region of Palestine).

That is how most of the world uses the term.

Poetnojo · 24/07/2025 20:35

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 20:32

But the details are the bit that matters.

Almost all people believe Israel has a right to exist.

Believing it has the right to continue with the Palestinian genocide isn't acceptable.
Believing that it should peacefully coexist with Palestine is acceptable.

I think Hamas missed that memo

Cheese55 · 24/07/2025 20:33

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:10

Thank you. It might be 'just' out of ignorance, but often it comes from a much darker place: people use this to argue that Jews cannot experience racism (Dianne Abbott et al). This ignores that there are Jews of all colours.

Many members of all minorities are not necessarily visible as part of that minority. That doesn't lessen their experiences of racism.

If it is out of ignorance, then I hope this poster can listen to why this questioning is offensive, and learn.

I'm not saying Jewish people don't experience racism it's purely that in London I have never noticed Jews. Surely it's better to ask so I know. There is nothing 'dark' about not noticing a woman is wearing a wig which is what a PP said singles woman out.

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