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Vaping is EVERYWHERE

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Mehmeh22 · 23/07/2025 14:32

So the kids are off on summer holidays and I am trying to find nice activities to do. Went to the cinema yesterday, and a father with her young daughter, just gets out his vape and has a puff right in front of me while we were waiting to go in.

Then today at a play centre, Im sat in the cafe and a mother gets out her vape and surreptitiously has some of the vape and the oncoming plume of smoke...in my bloody direction.

I've been in Tesco, and someone just used it casually as you like. When I mentioned it to staff, they just shrugged their shoulders....I didn't see it.

Its bad enough people inflicting others with their noisy phones, but why oh why do people do this?!! In areas where kids are playing???? I dont care that you are addicted...that is not my problem!! People who smoke are addicted and would never dream of lighting up a cig!!!

Rant over.....

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Zov · 23/07/2025 23:23

user1484264563 · 23/07/2025 23:14

It is not steam, nothing of the sort, it's a cocktail of chemicals.

Yep. I can't believe that people are so naive and clueless that they think vapes are just 'steam' with a couple of flavours. Hell would freeze over before I would be sucking on these sticks of toxic chemicals.

Zov · 23/07/2025 23:20

JustSawJohnny · 23/07/2025 22:32

I hate it. Especially the scented ones. I'll probably get flamed for this, but I think it looks really chavvy too.

I was in a queue in front of a few mums with little ones in buggies a while back and they were constantly chuffing on vapes. Every one had a different but equally hideous flavour. It was like being slowly assaulted by pina colada, bubblegum and feckin mangoes 😣

It's a real shame because we've done such a good job as a society of cutting the number of smokers. I was only saying a few days ago when I saw a smoker walking through town how weird it looks now. It really seems like the smoking indoors ban etc has cut numbers massively, but now there are bloody vapers everywhere and they're brazen! They whip them out and take a puff without giving a single fuck!

Agree with everything there. First 2 paragraphs are bang on!

user1484264563 · 23/07/2025 23:14

catgirl1976 · 23/07/2025 16:45

If it created a plume of smoke then it wasn’t a vape. Vapes create steam. Like a kettle. HTH.

It is not steam, nothing of the sort, it's a cocktail of chemicals.

Vaping is EVERYWHERE
emmetgirl · 23/07/2025 23:11

Fuck sake.

Justchilling07 · 23/07/2025 23:10

marmite2025 · 23/07/2025 22:54

It’s been about for years, there’s been plenty of studies done
it is much much better than smoking which is the main point

It’s not the main point of the thread though, nobody’s saying people can’t vape, just saying, it’s not fair on other people when they’re vaping in cafes, inside bars, anywhere that is a public enclosed space.
People are vaping who have never smoked.Children are vaping, because vapes are being marketed like sweets.

marmite2025 · 23/07/2025 22:54

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 23/07/2025 22:14

It’s really is disgusting. It smells, and nobody really knows the health effects for the vaper or for the passive vapers. And whoever said it looks awful is right.

It’s been about for years, there’s been plenty of studies done
it is much much better than smoking which is the main point

marmite2025 · 23/07/2025 22:52

PencilsInSpace · 23/07/2025 21:32

Vapers may as well be farting from their lungs...

Is this before or after they smear the passers-by with peanut butter?

I’m glad you’re here (from the days of the clearo and spinner threads, back when vaping wasn’t so dramatic!)

Mehmeh22 · 23/07/2025 22:39

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 23/07/2025 21:21

So what?

You’re not in any danger. There’s nothing for you to wash out, like smell on your hair or clothes. There’s nothing illegal about vaping.

I despair of the controlling fuckwits that try to patrol everyone nowadays.

If you want to kill yourself slowly with all that sh*te, all power to you. Why inflict others though?

I certainly dont want my kids breathing it in while sat in a cafe, when they have no choice and no full understanding.

You're right, it may not be illegal but I'll certainly back any law change to make sure it is.

This all boils down to the lack of consideration for others.

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JustSawJohnny · 23/07/2025 22:32

I hate it. Especially the scented ones. I'll probably get flamed for this, but I think it looks really chavvy too.

I was in a queue in front of a few mums with little ones in buggies a while back and they were constantly chuffing on vapes. Every one had a different but equally hideous flavour. It was like being slowly assaulted by pina colada, bubblegum and feckin mangoes 😣

It's a real shame because we've done such a good job as a society of cutting the number of smokers. I was only saying a few days ago when I saw a smoker walking through town how weird it looks now. It really seems like the smoking indoors ban etc has cut numbers massively, but now there are bloody vapers everywhere and they're brazen! They whip them out and take a puff without giving a single fuck!

PencilsInSpace · 23/07/2025 22:20

Ursulla · 23/07/2025 21:57

It all sounds terrifically exotic.

And all while riding a bicycle. It takes a lot of skill when you think about it.

Vaping is EVERYWHERE
MondayYogurt · 23/07/2025 22:19

Just be thankful they haven’t found a way to vape meth.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 23/07/2025 22:16

Most pubs or venues do not allow it, apparently.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 23/07/2025 22:14

It’s really is disgusting. It smells, and nobody really knows the health effects for the vaper or for the passive vapers. And whoever said it looks awful is right.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/07/2025 21:59

Those billion dollar cigarette companies weren't going to allow the nicotine addicts die. It is extremely lucrative.
Now they've millions of new users.

Ursulla · 23/07/2025 21:57

PencilsInSpace · 23/07/2025 21:32

Vapers may as well be farting from their lungs...

Is this before or after they smear the passers-by with peanut butter?

It all sounds terrifically exotic.

NicolaCasanova · 23/07/2025 21:56

You’re not wrong. Vaping is disgusting.

Justchilling07 · 23/07/2025 21:53

Topseyt123 · 23/07/2025 21:27

Happy to be patronising if that's what you want to call it.

I've also said that I do actually agree with many of the objections to vapes. I've just stated that they do have their uses, if you bother to read any of my other posts. My own mother vapes after over 80 years of solid smoking and it is infinitely preferable. That's not to say that I like it, but I find it more acceptable and easier to be around her.

If that's patronising then so be it. I don't care.

Well ok, l don’t see your comparison though, according to you, there’s no difference in breathing in the same air, to breathing in someone’s vapes!
Bearing in mind, this about people vaping in enclosed spaces, they can vape as much as they like outside.
Calling people hysterical is patronising.People who are patronising, yes, exactly it, just don’t care

PencilsInSpace · 23/07/2025 21:32

Mehmeh22 · 23/07/2025 19:24

I said YOU may as well fart in my face. Vapers may as well be farting from their lungs...and I agree, they have problems.

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Vapers may as well be farting from their lungs...

Is this before or after they smear the passers-by with peanut butter?

Topseyt123 · 23/07/2025 21:27

Justchilling07 · 23/07/2025 20:58

Could you be anymore patronising.
There’s no comparison to standing next to someone and breathing the same air, to someone who is smoking or vaping.
As far as many of these threads being hysterical, is it just because you don’t agree, so then turn it around, the other person is just being hysterical.

Happy to be patronising if that's what you want to call it.

I've also said that I do actually agree with many of the objections to vapes. I've just stated that they do have their uses, if you bother to read any of my other posts. My own mother vapes after over 80 years of solid smoking and it is infinitely preferable. That's not to say that I like it, but I find it more acceptable and easier to be around her.

If that's patronising then so be it. I don't care.

PencilsInSpace · 23/07/2025 21:26

Ponderingwindow · 23/07/2025 18:26

If you have an artificial fragrance allergy the plume of scent is absolutely dangerous. It can trigger everything from asthma attacks to anaphylaxis.

Vaping is not harmless. Vaping around other people is similar to walking up to strangers and smearing peanut butter on them.

They're food flavours so if you have an allergy you'll already be used to navigating around them.

Vaping around other people is similar to walking up to strangers and smearing peanut butter on them.

Blimey, that's a new one for the bingo card 🙃

OhNoMyChocMelted · 23/07/2025 21:22

placemats · 23/07/2025 21:17

https://www.mcsuk.org/what-you-can-do/campaigns/ban-disposable-vapes/

Thankfully from 25 June 2025 disposable vapes are now banned. The impact on the environment is horrendous.

They are still easily available though if you know the right places. Ds vapes ( i do not agree ) and he buys them easily.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 23/07/2025 21:21

Mehmeh22 · 23/07/2025 14:32

So the kids are off on summer holidays and I am trying to find nice activities to do. Went to the cinema yesterday, and a father with her young daughter, just gets out his vape and has a puff right in front of me while we were waiting to go in.

Then today at a play centre, Im sat in the cafe and a mother gets out her vape and surreptitiously has some of the vape and the oncoming plume of smoke...in my bloody direction.

I've been in Tesco, and someone just used it casually as you like. When I mentioned it to staff, they just shrugged their shoulders....I didn't see it.

Its bad enough people inflicting others with their noisy phones, but why oh why do people do this?!! In areas where kids are playing???? I dont care that you are addicted...that is not my problem!! People who smoke are addicted and would never dream of lighting up a cig!!!

Rant over.....

So what?

You’re not in any danger. There’s nothing for you to wash out, like smell on your hair or clothes. There’s nothing illegal about vaping.

I despair of the controlling fuckwits that try to patrol everyone nowadays.

OhNoMyChocMelted · 23/07/2025 21:21

Our local pub has just allowed it inside. As people were in the garden vaping and the entertainment were playing to no one . They've said sales have rocketed and the pub is now full. However it's full of plumes of vape 'smoke' and stinks

placemats · 23/07/2025 21:17

https://www.mcsuk.org/what-you-can-do/campaigns/ban-disposable-vapes/

Thankfully from 25 June 2025 disposable vapes are now banned. The impact on the environment is horrendous.

PencilsInSpace · 23/07/2025 21:17

NewbieYou · 23/07/2025 17:55

Cigarette addiction and vape addiction are quite different in my experience of both. People sit at home vaping 24/7. It’s seen as less intrusive than cigs and importantly… the vape doesn’t have a stopping point like a cigarette going out. So people are having 50x the nicotine in a day from a vape than they did from cigs.

Theyre doing it because they’re a) incredibly addicted and jittery without it. They get what drug users call ‘itching’ for the nicotine. And b) they think they can get away with it inside… which as you’ve seen they can.

Its unfortunate but hopefully one day businesses will be as strict on vapes as they are cigarettes. I personally am happy to have kicked both…. But it wasn’t easy.

So people are having 50x the nicotine in a day from a vape than they did from cigs.

No they're not, any more than they would be if they were wearing a patch 24/7.

Most vapers take in less nicotine than smokers. The behavioural pattern is different, the route of absorption is different, the pharmacokinetics are different.

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0220300#

You used to smoke - you know what happens if you overdo it with nicotine - you feel a bit sick and you put it down.

Vaping is EVERYWHERE