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Vaping is EVERYWHERE

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Mehmeh22 · 23/07/2025 14:32

So the kids are off on summer holidays and I am trying to find nice activities to do. Went to the cinema yesterday, and a father with her young daughter, just gets out his vape and has a puff right in front of me while we were waiting to go in.

Then today at a play centre, Im sat in the cafe and a mother gets out her vape and surreptitiously has some of the vape and the oncoming plume of smoke...in my bloody direction.

I've been in Tesco, and someone just used it casually as you like. When I mentioned it to staff, they just shrugged their shoulders....I didn't see it.

Its bad enough people inflicting others with their noisy phones, but why oh why do people do this?!! In areas where kids are playing???? I dont care that you are addicted...that is not my problem!! People who smoke are addicted and would never dream of lighting up a cig!!!

Rant over.....

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Anyonecanachieve · 24/07/2025 17:27

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 17:13

That is, yet again, a social objection.

Fine. Knock yourselves out. But at least be honest that your objection is aesthetic and personally disapproving, and nothing else.

I object to it. I’m allowed to object. People didn’t object to smoking and when the ban came in 2007 for smoking so many pubs complained and smokers - the rest of us relieved.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 17:23

Coffeeishot · 24/07/2025 17:17

Well this is what the thread was originally about social objection. People are objecting to.vapers vaping near them in inappropriate spaces.

Which is fine. So we can object to all people’s personal habits, smells, sounds, conduct, and so on.

I don’t want to ban persistent nail biters from going out in public, or people talking incessantly on phones, or gulping water all the time, or wearing Chanel no 5. They may all piss me off, but I’m not going to pretend there’s some urgent health reason for restricting them.

TaupeLemur · 24/07/2025 17:19

You’re entirely correct OP! I think people just forget themselves because they can bake in so many places. My office just voted whether or not to allow vaping indoors and the majority said yes! Before someone in HR had the good sense to step in and say it wasn’t going to be allowed.

Coffeeishot · 24/07/2025 17:18

As many posters said they just want a bit of consideration shown.

Coffeeishot · 24/07/2025 17:17

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 17:13

That is, yet again, a social objection.

Fine. Knock yourselves out. But at least be honest that your objection is aesthetic and personally disapproving, and nothing else.

Well this is what the thread was originally about social objection. People are objecting to.vapers vaping near them in inappropriate spaces.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 17:13

Anyonecanachieve · 24/07/2025 17:10

This and I don’t want to breathe in vape flavours either. I had a sales assistant do it the other day in a shop whilst at the till. They are addicted and literally can’t stop or do a shift without vaping

That is, yet again, a social objection.

Fine. Knock yourselves out. But at least be honest that your objection is aesthetic and personally disapproving, and nothing else.

RaininSummer · 24/07/2025 17:12

I hate seeing people vaping as they look like they are sucking on dummies. Plus they smell awful and I feel I am breathing in air freshener if passing by.

Anyonecanachieve · 24/07/2025 17:10

Mehmeh22 · 23/07/2025 16:47

I dont want to breathe in what I know for a fact has been in your lungs. You may as well be farting in my face. I guess you consider that acceptable too? (Rhetorical question)

This and I don’t want to breathe in vape flavours either. I had a sales assistant do it the other day in a shop whilst at the till. They are addicted and literally can’t stop or do a shift without vaping

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 17:07

That’s the same single tiny study, twice.

You’ll have to do better than that, even given that it’s your frantic google to try to support your claim.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 24/07/2025 17:00

@SilenceOfTheTimTams for example, but there are others

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7781946/

ChaliceinWonderland · 24/07/2025 16:55

Well, they'll get cancer and you won't. Disgusting habit.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 16:55

HighHeelsOnCobblestones · 24/07/2025 16:47

80% of asthmatics have allergic asthma. The inflammation in their lungs that leads to attacks is being caused by an inhaled allergen (pet dander, dust mites and pollen being common ones…otherwise tolerated common substances).

That’s a description of symptom, not allergy.

If pet dander, for example, causes impaired breathing that’s an allergy to pet dander that expresses as breathing difficulty. The allergy is to the dander.

The NHS explanation of allergy is:

An allergy is where your body reacts to something that's normally harmless like pollen, dust or animal fur. The symptoms can be mild, but for some people they can be very serious.

Cigarette smoke is not “normally harmless”.

I don’t question potential seriousness for a moment. But I’m asking what it is that people who claim to be allergic to some component of water vapour from vapes are actually allergic to.

Trovindia · 24/07/2025 16:55

catgirl1976 · 23/07/2025 16:45

If it created a plume of smoke then it wasn’t a vape. Vapes create steam. Like a kettle. HTH.

It's not just water vapour, it contains lots of harmful substances, just like passive smoking from cigarettes. It's antisocial and shouldn't be done anywhere and everywhere. If you wouldn't about a cigarette in the situation then you shouldn't vape there either.

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gattocattivo · 24/07/2025 16:54

Yanbu it smells fucking disgusting

HighHeelsOnCobblestones · 24/07/2025 16:47

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 14:09

Asthma isn’t an allergy. Or at least not one as it would be understood as an atypical reaction to an otherwise tolerated common substance.

Of course asthmatics suffered from cigarette smoke, but that’s why I said it was “health damaging in so many ways”. Lots of people found their breathing impaired in smoky places; they didn’t need to be asthmatic, let alone allergic.

I just find the new-found allergies to vaping all rather unlikely.

80% of asthmatics have allergic asthma. The inflammation in their lungs that leads to attacks is being caused by an inhaled allergen (pet dander, dust mites and pollen being common ones…otherwise tolerated common substances).

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 16:42

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 24/07/2025 16:41

@SilenceOfTheTimTams Ask people with lung diseases. They are advised very strongly to stay away from people vaping. But I guess if it’s inconvenient, then ignore it!!

Can you back that up?

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 24/07/2025 16:41

@SilenceOfTheTimTams Ask people with lung diseases. They are advised very strongly to stay away from people vaping. But I guess if it’s inconvenient, then ignore it!!

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 16:13

Mehmeh22 · 24/07/2025 16:01

What have you been smoking? Lol I haven't "scolded" anyone?! I just looked on in disbelief that they would have the audacity to do that.

And you have absolutely no idea if the chemicals my children have to breathe in are toxic or not.

They used to prescribe cigarettes to pregnant women back in the day, and look what happened there.

So forgive me for not believing your opinion! Lol

lol, lol, lol.

🙄

You have no evidence to justify your wish to boss people around. Just admit it.

PencilsInSpace · 24/07/2025 16:07

And you have absolutely no idea if the chemicals my children have to breathe in are toxic or not.

While we don't know everything about vaping, we really do know quite a lot by now.

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/633469fc8fa8f5066d28e1a2/Nicotine-vaping-in-England-2022-report.pdf

Mehmeh22 · 24/07/2025 16:01

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 06:51

All of this is untrue. There is no risk to you or anyone else.

You dislike being told that you have no reason to scold people. Because it shows up the true motive: you just like bossing people around.

What have you been smoking? Lol I haven't "scolded" anyone?! I just looked on in disbelief that they would have the audacity to do that.

And you have absolutely no idea if the chemicals my children have to breathe in are toxic or not.

They used to prescribe cigarettes to pregnant women back in the day, and look what happened there.

So forgive me for not believing your opinion! Lol

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Rallentanda · 24/07/2025 15:51

There's something really undignified about vaping. It looks like a toy, somehow.

But I remember the days where many people smoked, where you were sat in a restaurant and there was smoke drifting across. On top of the bus, just everywhere. That was utterly rank. So I don't mind vaping so much, except that it looks daft.

marmite2025 · 24/07/2025 15:27

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 15:07

But nobody “suffers”. Opposition to vaping is a social objection, not a medical one.

Personally, I think the social objection is an example of unpleasant, Hyacinth Bucket-style bossiness. But each to their own.

It really is
I was standing quietly off a pavement in a set back grassed area, vaping
a woman walked off the pavement so close she stood on my foot and then tutted at me for vaping. If she had carried on the path she would have been about 8ft away!

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 15:07

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 24/07/2025 15:02

@marmite2025 it isn’t the main point for everyone. Other people shouldn’t suffer the actions of those who vape, by breathing it in themselves.

But nobody “suffers”. Opposition to vaping is a social objection, not a medical one.

Personally, I think the social objection is an example of unpleasant, Hyacinth Bucket-style bossiness. But each to their own.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 24/07/2025 15:02

@marmite2025 it isn’t the main point for everyone. Other people shouldn’t suffer the actions of those who vape, by breathing it in themselves.