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To this is absolutely insane! Universal Credit Sanction

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ThisIsInsane · 23/07/2025 12:18

Adult DD has had an absolute nightmare trying to get a job since she was fired just before Christmas,

She wasn’t happy in the role previous to that so applied for another, got it, gave her resignation. Three days into the new role, she was told, she wasn’t a good fit and immediately fired. She did absolutely nothing wrong btw.

This has massively affected her mental health. She’s never been fired before or been unemployed.

She has literally applied for over 1500 jobs since then, only got two interviews which she wasn’t successful at.

She missed a UC appointment in June. Not sure what exactly happened but she has evidence of her job search. At every appointment they tell her she’s applying for a lot of jobs and there’s noting they can do to help.

They have sanctioned her UC so she has only got £7!

According to the letter she has been sanctioned for 30 days for a first offence of missing one appointment after 6 months in which they have not helped her find a job!

She has an appointment later today and I’m planning to go with her to complain as she isn’t in the right head space to. I just think it’s totally disgusting! She lives at home luckily but can’t pay her phone bill even!

Imagine if she was living on her own and had no support!

AIBU to think this is extreme and unjustifiable punishment?

OP posts:
AngelicKaty · 23/07/2025 14:22

RetroViral · 23/07/2025 13:38

OP you need to read up on the government website for UC sanctions because something isn’t right here. They don’t take all your money for one low level offence. You need to appeal.

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/universal-credit-sanctions#sanction-levels

Edited

Re-read OP's opening post. She told us "She (her DD) missed a UC appointment in June", but she doesn't tell us the exact date. She also told us "According to the letter she has been sanctioned for 30 days for a first offence of missing one appointment after 6 months ..." and "She has an appointment later today." Today is 23rd July, so it seems to me that her DD left it a very long time before contacting the DWP to explain why she was a no-show for her appt in June and reschedule it for today and this is why the sanction is for 30 days. Had OP's DD contacted the DWP promptly, the sanction wouldn't be this long.

ShanghaiDiva · 23/07/2025 14:21

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:14

Ive hears this before but isnt It strange that you have no rights at all within the first two years of the job, then after two years, you magically get rights.

It’s not correct that you have no rights within the first two years of employment.
https://www.springhouselaw.com/knowledge-hub/employment-contracts-and-staff-handbooks/when-do-employment-rights-start-r

Womanofcustard · 23/07/2025 14:19

Welcome to modern Britain

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:18

I am not criticising your daughter as im sure we would all love to call our managers rude when they are being rude.

Just in this era when jobs are scarce, you need to have self preservation too.

TheCurious0range · 23/07/2025 14:18

OP has she had any support or counselling following the knife incident and the sexual assault? If she's sleeping that much and isn't able to attend a UC appointment when her time is free, is she really fit to work at this point? Maybe she should apply for fewer jobs and seek MH support otherwise she might find a job and not be able to sustain it. She's been through two traumatic incidents in a short space of time and then been fired. It's no surprise her MH is on the floor.

PolyVagalNerve · 23/07/2025 14:17

ThisIsInsane · 23/07/2025 12:36

i am not denying she is at fault for not attending the appointment! Her mental health is shot and she is struggling to get up so spends most of the day in bed. Sleeping for 14-16 hours of the day.

The point I made about the appointment not being helpful was about even the job centre are saying they don’t know what happening with jobs at the moment.

Is sanctioning her so she hasn’t got enough even for basic living requirements, for ONE missed appointment, not extreme though?

£7 for a whole month.

That is the point of this thread.

Missing the appt and getting sanctioned will help her see that sleeping for up to 16 hours a day is not helpful
saying her mental health is shot means that it is even more important that she gets into a good routine -
how else is her mental health going to improve ? There is no magic wand,
she needs to get up,
self care
get to the appointments
get some daylight
eat decent
sleep hygiene
etc

dont enable helpless behaviour
many young adults struggle to get employment in something they enjoy -
need to be able to weather this stage of life

Kibble19 · 23/07/2025 14:17

JenniferBooth · 23/07/2025 14:01

No i wouldnt But equally managers should not be making rude comments about someones weight. OPS DD could have been an undercover journalist from Dispatches doing an expose on sexism at work for all he knew

Of course he shouldn’t be saying those things, 100% agree.

It was a glimpse into what her daughter could expect in that workplace, so she’s probably better off out of it. But biding her time, looking for a new job whilst employed and leaving quietly and with a reference would’ve been far better than having 7 quid in your bank.

It doesn’t make what the MD said acceptable, but I think when you rely on the person to employ you, you need to know when to be quiet.

JenniferBooth · 23/07/2025 14:16

@ThisIsInsane did your DD report it to the transport police

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:14

pinkdelight · 23/07/2025 14:12

You have almost no rights within the first two years in a job. And employment cases are stressful AF in themselves, nothing more likely to help her spiral, especially as it wasn't even her battle she stepped into. Much better to spend her energy on positive steps forward and forget about that particular fuck up.

Ive hears this before but isnt It strange that you have no rights at all within the first two years of the job, then after two years, you magically get rights.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 23/07/2025 14:12

GNR2022 · 23/07/2025 12:57

i know this isn’t the point but where on earth do you live that she’s applying for 50 jobs A WEEK?
That cannot be right!

I'm glad people are saying that as I'm currently job hunting and there's no way I could apply for that many jobs, there's not that many available that I could actually do.

ThejoyofNC · 23/07/2025 14:12

She had one job, turn up to an appointment. That's it. If she needed the money badly enough then she wouldn't dream of missing that appointment.

As for her mother tagging along to give the employees a telling off, they'll either tell you it's none of your business or just laugh about it when you leave. What do you actually intend to achieve?

None of this paints your daughter as a good job candidate.

pinkdelight · 23/07/2025 14:12

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:09

Yes i agree.

But in the long run, maybe she will get something better.

I wonder would she have a case for unfair dismissal?
Then she could sue for loss of future earnings

You have almost no rights within the first two years in a job. And employment cases are stressful AF in themselves, nothing more likely to help her spiral, especially as it wasn't even her battle she stepped into. Much better to spend her energy on positive steps forward and forget about that particular fuck up.

Chonk · 23/07/2025 14:11

Well, if it isn't the consequence of her own actions! Sanctions aren't a secret that are sprung on unexpecting claimants. It is clear that if you cannot attend an appointment, you need to notify the Jobcentre in advance. It's also clear that if you miss an appointment, you need to provide a good reason and rebook the appointment as soon as possible. If you don't, you will be sanctioned. If she's been sanctioned for 30 days, of which 7 days is the fixed period, that means it took 23 days for her to bother to rearrange the appointment she missed. You can complain all you like, but it won't be reconsidered unless she has a good reason for missing it (which it doesn't sound like she does).

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:09

pinkdelight · 23/07/2025 14:06

Agree he's a prick but she's patently not better off depressed in bed for months on end. Always easier to get another job when you're already in one.

Yes i agree.

But in the long run, maybe she will get something better.

I wonder would she have a case for unfair dismissal?
Then she could sue for loss of future earnings

Plantladylover · 23/07/2025 14:06

HelloGreen · 23/07/2025 12:50

1500 job applications since Christmas is insane. Am I wrong that that’s over 200 a month (250?) and 8ish a day seven days a week?!

She can’t be tailoring her application each time.

I’d suggest she does far fewer but puts a lot more time/effort into each one. One or two a week with lots of care over it/them.

Edited

This,

Applying for over 1500 jobs shows must will not be tailor made but pretty generic. Employers will spot this a mile away

pinkdelight · 23/07/2025 14:06

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:02

The md of that company sounds like a prick so maybe she is better off out there anyway.

Agree he's a prick but she's patently not better off depressed in bed for months on end. Always easier to get another job when you're already in one.

Liliwen · 23/07/2025 14:06

JenniferBooth · 23/07/2025 13:58

Oh come off it. The "buck your ideas up" attitude towards her on here demonstrates that. Dont be so bloody disingenuous. The assault has been completely glossed over on this thread.

She’s doing 50 job applications a week- I don’t think people think she’s not trying hard enough to get a job. I haven’t seen anyone say that being sexually assaulted doesn’t matter. OP didn’t mention it in her first post which is possible why not everyone has mentioned it in their replies as opposed to just ‘glossing over it’

pinkdelight · 23/07/2025 14:05

JenniferBooth · 23/07/2025 13:52

MN Make sure you pay your way on a date because equality
Also MN Ignore sexism and misogyny at work

Also MN: use your brains and exercise judgement because context is all.

CurbsideProphet · 23/07/2025 14:04

ThisIsInsane · 23/07/2025 13:56

Nope quite clearly says in the letter, the sanction is for an additional 7 days due to it being for the first missed appointment.

Has she requested a mandatory reconsideration of the sanction?

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:02

The md of that company sounds like a prick so maybe she is better off out there anyway.

JenniferBooth · 23/07/2025 14:01

Kibble19 · 23/07/2025 13:59

Back in the real world…would you call out the MD of the company you work for a matter of hours into your employment for something similar?

You’ll tell me you would, of course, but anyone with any foresight wouldn’t do it in the manner that the OPs daughter did because obviously she was going to lose her job soon after. And obviously there would be no reference for a new employer. Anyone with an ounce of sense wouldn’t do what she done.

No i wouldnt But equally managers should not be making rude comments about someones weight. OPS DD could have been an undercover journalist from Dispatches doing an expose on sexism at work for all he knew

Flumpflimpo · 23/07/2025 14:00

Viviennemary · 23/07/2025 13:58

Why on earth should the rest of us contribute taxes to pay for a young person who can't get out of bed and doesn't bother to turn up for appointments. The entitlement is off the scale.

Most civilised western nations have a base income for people that have become unemployed.

A swedish woman told me that in sweden, if you lose your job, you are guaranteed 80 percent of your previous income from the government while you look for a new job

AngelicKaty · 23/07/2025 14:00

JenniferBooth · 23/07/2025 13:18

So what about ppl who have to miss work to attend a UC appointment.

Being at work is a "good reason" under the DWP's rule for not attending and the claimant would only be sanctioned if they didn't contact the DWP to explain why they can't attend and rearrange (this would only be for claimants who don't work full-time). I don't believe the DWP is calling full-time workers in for an appt with a work coach as that would be pointless.

Steelworks · 23/07/2025 14:00

This may help

www.gold.ac.uk/careers/using-ai-for-your-job-search/

Kibble19 · 23/07/2025 13:59

JenniferBooth · 23/07/2025 13:52

MN Make sure you pay your way on a date because equality
Also MN Ignore sexism and misogyny at work

Back in the real world…would you call out the MD of the company you work for a matter of hours into your employment for something similar?

You’ll tell me you would, of course, but anyone with any foresight wouldn’t do it in the manner that the OPs daughter did because obviously she was going to lose her job soon after. And obviously there would be no reference for a new employer. Anyone with an ounce of sense wouldn’t do what she done.

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