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Paid for seats on ryan air and kids still sat separately

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Hookahchakkah · 23/07/2025 12:09

Has anyone had any success getting a refund and compensati on.? We paid the extra to ensure we were with the kids all together and they sat all four of us completely separately, not even across an aisle or one row away like five and twenty five rows away from each other

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ErrolTheDragon · 23/07/2025 13:40

Anyway YANBU, OP - if people pay for specific seats but don’t get them for whatever reason then the extra fee should be automatically reimbursed.

RigIt · 23/07/2025 13:38

I think it’s pretty shocking that they would do this. Especially when considering a few years back, before get charged for seat allocation, they would not allow young children to be seated without an adult they knew with them for safety reasons. They were incredibly strict about it. The thinking I believe was that a random adult might not help the child in the event of an emergency. Apparently now they can charge people, that safety issue has gone away?!? And even worse you can pay and still be seated away from your child. I wouldn’t be worried about them during a short flight but I would be concerned about what would happen in an emergency if I wasn’t next to them.

Kubricklayer · 23/07/2025 13:38

So who was in your original seats? Presumably adults with very young children? If just 4 seemingly healthy adults I'd be well pissed off.

Paying to select your seats is an absolute scam. Also whilst on the subject of ryanair it's ridiculous that if you don't select seats you can't check-in until 24 hours before your flight. Probably create a very narrow check-in window so they can oversell seats.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/07/2025 13:38

L0bstersLass · 23/07/2025 13:34

This.
When I booked a flight with them in Feb, I chose my seats as part of the buying process.
Did you overlook the fact that you have to select you seats @Hookahchakkah?

Have you overlooked what she says in her OP and even the title?Confused

LlynTegid · 23/07/2025 13:37

You should like me never fly with Ryanair again. Unless perhaps you are travelling to see someone who is terminally ill or when they have died, to go to their funeral, if that really is the only option (a flight and a five hour train journey would be an option for me to avoid them).

Don't blame the cabin crew who as much victims of Mr O'Leary as you were on this occasion.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 23/07/2025 13:37

how old are the kids? a 10 year old sitting alone for 2.5 hours doesn't seem too bad - my step son has been flying alone as an unaccompanied minor since 7

But i would be at the very least looking for a refund on the seats

HerNeighbourTotoro · 23/07/2025 13:36

L0bstersLass · 23/07/2025 13:34

This.
When I booked a flight with them in Feb, I chose my seats as part of the buying process.
Did you overlook the fact that you have to select you seats @Hookahchakkah?

She hasnt which is why she said in the OP they paid extra to sit together.

L0bstersLass · 23/07/2025 13:34

junkmaail · 23/07/2025 12:41

Didn’t you have to select your seats when you booked them? I did when I flew with Ryan Air last year.

This.
When I booked a flight with them in Feb, I chose my seats as part of the buying process.
Did you overlook the fact that you have to select you seats @Hookahchakkah?

MsAdoraBelleDearheartVonLipwig · 23/07/2025 13:26

Actually amazed at the amount of people on here who have clearly not flown recently and are adamant that this can’t happen. It can very much happen, airlines don’t give a shit. They will charge you to prebook seats and then they will reprioritise those seats at the last minute, be it a change of plane or they’ve just given them to someone else. It happens all the time. Obviously you can argue your point and hopefully get to sit together but it’s total pot luck.

We haven’t even bothered to book our seats this year; if we get to sit together it will be nice, if not, it’s only a few hours. My kids are older though.

Hookahchakkah · 23/07/2025 13:25

We paid for the seats next to each other and checked the boarding passes and went to the airport, checked in went through to security, had a sandwich and went to the gate.

At the gate they said these aren’t your seats anymore we have to move you. We said no we’ve paid to sit together and one of us is ten. They said sorry try on the plane, we said no help is now, can you at least switch the seats so the ten year old isn’t by himself they said no. We said who can we speak to they said just get on the plane. We said he can’t sit 23 rows away from us they said madam get on the plane. We were almost last on and tried to speak to the steward was but there was anbkuncmenet which said get to your seats now we are going to miss the air traffic window, i begged someone to swap (which they did reluctantly before I got told to sit and showed the original seats so the kids could at least sit together but they were a few rows from my husband. I went to the other end of the plane and I tried to get their attention and gave up.

as soon as I could I grabbed an air hostess and said my kids are by themselves she said you’ll have to wait for seatbelts

as soon as seatbelts went off I went down to check on them and the drinks trolley was coming up. The stewatdesss told me to go back and wait and I said “my kids have been say by themselves can I check on them”

the other stewardess said very loudly what’s going on and the first one said “she wants to check on her kids”

the other one said very loudly “well that’s convenient timing isn’t it” and I said loudly to her “you’ve sat our kids by themselves even though we paid, can i just check that they are ok please”
qns she rolled her eye and roll ed the trolley back.

I checked very quickly they were fine which was a relief and they were waiting impatiently.

I said “we’ve paid to sit together and you’ve sat us all separately” and she said “oh yeah we did know there was a family of four that had been separated.

I asked what had happened and she said she didn’t know.

there was one spare seat near so me and my husband and I sat five and seven rows back.

it was only a two hour flight and we were about 45 minutes in by this time. She came and asked us if we wanted to all be moved to sit together and most people around us were either asleep or with small kids but I don’t understand if they knew we were separated before we even got on the plane that they allowed this to happen.

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MumbleJumble123 · 23/07/2025 13:17

posted in wrong place 🤦🏻‍♀️

FiveCustardTarts · 23/07/2025 13:13

Fupoffyagrasshole · 23/07/2025 13:00

how could that happen - you chose your seat at the time of booking!

You must have messed it up

It can with a last minute change of plane.

BeltaLodaLife · 23/07/2025 13:12

What actually happened when your boarded? Were you late so they gave your seats away?

Fupoffyagrasshole · 23/07/2025 13:00

how could that happen - you chose your seat at the time of booking!

You must have messed it up

May913 · 23/07/2025 12:59

I'd have thought it was very unusual for all 4 of you to be sat apart from each other if you paid to be altogether, especially if there were children as well. At what point did you find out you weren't going to get the seats you booked?

Starlight1984 · 23/07/2025 12:59

Fourteenandahalf · 23/07/2025 12:41

I'm flying with Ryanair today and I've paid to sit together and printed my boarding passes, but on the boarding pass it says we could be moved if flight staff need to.

Well yes but highly, HIGHLY unlikely that they would need to move a family of 4 all completely away from each other.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 23/07/2025 12:57

Can you explain how this happened?

What explanation was provided as to why they needed to move to from the seats that they had booked?

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 23/07/2025 12:55

They must have explained why you were given different seats to those you'd booked. Did it seem like a reasonable explanation? Have they said you'll get a refund for the seat selections?

3luckystars · 23/07/2025 12:52

No way would I have accepted this at the time.

Fourteenandahalf · 23/07/2025 12:41

I'm flying with Ryanair today and I've paid to sit together and printed my boarding passes, but on the boarding pass it says we could be moved if flight staff need to.

junkmaail · 23/07/2025 12:41

Didn’t you have to select your seats when you booked them? I did when I flew with Ryan Air last year.

Ylylyll · 23/07/2025 12:40

Otherwise if you didn't get what you paid for you can claim a refund but you're not going to be compensated, particularly off Ryanair.

Kuretake · 23/07/2025 12:40

I don't know why people are saying they can't see how it could happen, it's quite common. Sometimes a change in aircraft, sometimes they re-allocate to fit other priorities such as people with younger children.

Ylylyll · 23/07/2025 12:40

Are your kids over 12? The family bundle only applies if you pay one adult seat and have kids under 12. Otherwise you have to pay per seat for everyone if you want to sit together

nonevernotever · 23/07/2025 12:39

I've known this happen when the plane was changed to one with a different configuration, and one of the four booked seats didn't exist on the new plane, and the alternative Ryanair provided would have meant a six year old placed in the emergency exit seat. I don't know the outcome of the refund request though