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Paid for seats on ryan air and kids still sat separately

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Hookahchakkah · 23/07/2025 12:09

Has anyone had any success getting a refund and compensati on.? We paid the extra to ensure we were with the kids all together and they sat all four of us completely separately, not even across an aisle or one row away like five and twenty five rows away from each other

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Oceann · 23/07/2025 14:46

I’ve never gotten money back from Ryanair despite various mess ups. I mean you are entitled to your money back and you can try but I wouldn’t invest too much time into it

Namechangerage · 23/07/2025 14:43

BeltaLodaLife · 23/07/2025 14:17

It does sound like you got to the gate last minute if you were one of the last on board and were actually being told to sit down or they’d miss their window. That’s a lesson. Be there in plenty of time. Even if you’ve paid, they fuck things about. Don’t be last.

You should go after refunds though, and complain about the behaviour of the cabin crew.

Yes indeed. If you were at the gate as soon as it opened, it may not have happened, and if it did you’d have had more time to dig your heels in.

Namechangerage · 23/07/2025 14:42

Take it all the way OP! They treated you appallingly. How thick are those staff if they didn’t realise there may be an anxious parent or two if they separated a family who paid for seats together?!

One bit of feedback - always get to the gate early! If you hadn’t been last to queue up then you might not have got split. It sucks but it’s true.

JuniperBug · 23/07/2025 14:33

If you paid for seats to be sat together then you should definitely get a refund. All the other fuss you’re making is a load of drama. A 10 year old is absolutely fine to be sat on a plane for a 2 hour flight, especially if they are with a sibling. It sounds like you were late to board if you were one of the last ones on. I
travelled alone as a child all the time from the age of 8. No big deal really. I also never pay for seats when I travel with dc, 6,10,14. Most of the time we’re sat together but we were recently separated on a flight to Kenya. It’s not the end of the world.

Dutchhouse14 · 23/07/2025 14:28

That's awful, I have had this with Aegean - so not even a budget airline - we paid for seats that I'd selected and then they reallocated us different seats when boarding passes were printed, we were separated into 2 groups. I didn't complain but was peed off, but if we'd been completely separated from DC I would have.
No idea why they change your seat allocation after you've selected seats and paid extra for the privilege of doing so!! but it happened to me too:(

BeltaLodaLife · 23/07/2025 14:17

It does sound like you got to the gate last minute if you were one of the last on board and were actually being told to sit down or they’d miss their window. That’s a lesson. Be there in plenty of time. Even if you’ve paid, they fuck things about. Don’t be last.

You should go after refunds though, and complain about the behaviour of the cabin crew.

mummymissessunshine · 23/07/2025 14:17

Sounds like Ryanair
the 10yo should have been seated with one of their parents.

I would not have been happy if my 10yo was sat alone with a stranger who may not have wanted to help them in an emergency.

make a complaint publicly on social media and request a refund and an explanation as to why your 10yo was seated alone without his parents despite you paying for 4 seats together.

LemondrizzleShark · 23/07/2025 14:17

EastGrinstead · 23/07/2025 14:09

I find this hard to believe.

Ryanair mandates that children aged 2 to 11 must be seated next to an accompanying adult.

Why would four seats that you had booked, paid for, selected, checked in on and been given boarding passes for, etc. be given away to random adults. It does not make sense.

Edited

They’ve likely changed aircraft last minute and just allocated everyone randomly.

NeedthatFridayfeeling · 23/07/2025 14:15

That’s really shit OP and i really hope you get your money back!

nam3c4ang3 · 23/07/2025 14:13

they are so weird - we didnt pay for seats to be together (outrageous imo) and they put us all together for free 😂Did you raise it with them?

istheresomethingishouldsay · 23/07/2025 14:13

I would be pursuing a refund quite publicly on their social media. That's really poor on their part.

ZenNudist · 23/07/2025 14:11

Presumably cist about £24 (assuming £5.99 rock bottom prices) but you and your DH were sat together? So can't complain about this. And the dc sat together? Why didn't you sit in adult child combination?

Chalk it up to ryanair shittiness. They don't care and you'll have no joy getting them to refund.

EastGrinstead · 23/07/2025 14:09

Hookahchakkah · 23/07/2025 13:47

Of the four seats that we had booked, paid for, selected, checked in on and been given boarding passes for, one was free and next to another one with a man about thirty who moved reluctantly so the kids could sit together. The other two had an old lady who didn’t speak English who looked very upset and confused and a man who completely ignored me and I was being told to sit down.

I find this hard to believe.

Ryanair mandates that children aged 2 to 11 must be seated next to an accompanying adult.

Why would four seats that you had booked, paid for, selected, checked in on and been given boarding passes for, etc. be given away to random adults. It does not make sense.

Brefugee · 23/07/2025 14:05

ok so did you get names? especially of the one who said they knew a family had been separated?

Write to the head of the company, anyone else you can find in the company and at least ask for your seat booking money back.

That's pretty shit, tbh.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 23/07/2025 14:02

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/07/2025 13:48

Only other thing I wonder is, what was your husband doing whilst you were up and down, running about the plan and begging flight crew?

🙄

Jeregrettetous · 23/07/2025 13:54

there are a lot of people on this thread who are clearly not regular fliers with this complete armpit of an airline.

Like others I only use them when there is no other option, or the costs of another option are so prohibitive that I’m left with Ryanair. The only time I’ve had a pleasant experience with them was when Michael O’Leary was on my flight.

@Hookahchakkah I have had success with their complaints procedure in the past (not for this, for something else) but be prepared to be in for the long haul and to be told that the T&Cs mean that they can make changes even if you’d paid. Also, depending on whether you were flying from one of their hubs, they may well blame the third party ground staff.

Good luck.

May913 · 23/07/2025 13:52

Kubricklayer · 23/07/2025 13:45

Also whilst on a ryanair rant we're going to Tenerife in a few weeks. I booked morning flights from Glasgow Prestwick, paid for carpark and overnight airport hotel all 6 months in advance. 6 weeks ago receive an email to say outgoing and return flights had moved to 9 hours later both days. The original flight date/times magically appear at Edinburgh airport the same day.

So you try and be organised and book things well in advance only for the airline to find a way of screwing you. The whole reason I booked morning flights was I was sick of missing the first day of holiday because of annoying afternoon flights.

We had similar with easyjet, morning flight out moved to afternoon so overnight stay that we'd paid for was no longer needed. Fortunately we were able to change the dates on the overnight stay but still very annoying.

That's pretty rubbish OP and airline staff never seem to give a shit no matter who you fly with tbh. Wouldn't it be nice if they said 'I'm so sorry that happened to you, I don't know what went wrong but I'll see what can be done as soon as possible.'

Definitely put in a claim to get your money back.

Kubricklayer · 23/07/2025 13:52

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/07/2025 13:48

Only other thing I wonder is, what was your husband doing whilst you were up and down, running about the plan and begging flight crew?

Why is that what you wonder? Are they supposed to tag team the staff or try to bully them together?

You only need one adult to advocate for the family in this instance? Either the mother and father are capable of this. So not sure why you're trying to shift focus on the issue and turn it into 'look at the terrible man doing nothing whilst OP struggles'.

JealousyIsADisease · 23/07/2025 13:50

You have a ten year old that you wanted to check on, but not the other child, so I’m assuming they are older. How old? A two hour flight they should be fine on, get them to treat it as an adventure. Nothing is going to happen to them, they’d be fine sat on devices/reading a book/colouring or whatever. I’m assuming they swapped you for people with young children who needed caring for. It’s shit, and I’d be pissed off too, but I wouldn’t be worried about a 10 year old on a flight tbh, although I would definitely want the extra cash refunding. It would be nice if it was out of the pockets of the cheapskates that didn’t pay extra but took your seat though!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/07/2025 13:48

Only other thing I wonder is, what was your husband doing whilst you were up and down, running about the plan and begging flight crew?

Hookahchakkah · 23/07/2025 13:47

Of the four seats that we had booked, paid for, selected, checked in on and been given boarding passes for, one was free and next to another one with a man about thirty who moved reluctantly so the kids could sit together. The other two had an old lady who didn’t speak English who looked very upset and confused and a man who completely ignored me and I was being told to sit down.

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/07/2025 13:46

ErrolTheDragon · 23/07/2025 13:40

Anyway YANBU, OP - if people pay for specific seats but don’t get them for whatever reason then the extra fee should be automatically reimbursed.

Should be, but I bet they’ll try their best not to!

Not trying to be negative but RyanAir and similar can be fuckers

Kubricklayer · 23/07/2025 13:45

Also whilst on a ryanair rant we're going to Tenerife in a few weeks. I booked morning flights from Glasgow Prestwick, paid for carpark and overnight airport hotel all 6 months in advance. 6 weeks ago receive an email to say outgoing and return flights had moved to 9 hours later both days. The original flight date/times magically appear at Edinburgh airport the same day.

So you try and be organised and book things well in advance only for the airline to find a way of screwing you. The whole reason I booked morning flights was I was sick of missing the first day of holiday because of annoying afternoon flights.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 23/07/2025 13:44

Hookahchakkah · 23/07/2025 13:25

We paid for the seats next to each other and checked the boarding passes and went to the airport, checked in went through to security, had a sandwich and went to the gate.

At the gate they said these aren’t your seats anymore we have to move you. We said no we’ve paid to sit together and one of us is ten. They said sorry try on the plane, we said no help is now, can you at least switch the seats so the ten year old isn’t by himself they said no. We said who can we speak to they said just get on the plane. We said he can’t sit 23 rows away from us they said madam get on the plane. We were almost last on and tried to speak to the steward was but there was anbkuncmenet which said get to your seats now we are going to miss the air traffic window, i begged someone to swap (which they did reluctantly before I got told to sit and showed the original seats so the kids could at least sit together but they were a few rows from my husband. I went to the other end of the plane and I tried to get their attention and gave up.

as soon as I could I grabbed an air hostess and said my kids are by themselves she said you’ll have to wait for seatbelts

as soon as seatbelts went off I went down to check on them and the drinks trolley was coming up. The stewatdesss told me to go back and wait and I said “my kids have been say by themselves can I check on them”

the other stewardess said very loudly what’s going on and the first one said “she wants to check on her kids”

the other one said very loudly “well that’s convenient timing isn’t it” and I said loudly to her “you’ve sat our kids by themselves even though we paid, can i just check that they are ok please”
qns she rolled her eye and roll ed the trolley back.

I checked very quickly they were fine which was a relief and they were waiting impatiently.

I said “we’ve paid to sit together and you’ve sat us all separately” and she said “oh yeah we did know there was a family of four that had been separated.

I asked what had happened and she said she didn’t know.

there was one spare seat near so me and my husband and I sat five and seven rows back.

it was only a two hour flight and we were about 45 minutes in by this time. She came and asked us if we wanted to all be moved to sit together and most people around us were either asleep or with small kids but I don’t understand if they knew we were separated before we even got on the plane that they allowed this to happen.

This also sounds like one of the many reasons I avoid RyanAir like the plague!

Its not just the fact there was a mess up, it’s the lack of any customer care after that.

That said, a 10 yo with something to do (even if a tablet or whatever) ought to be OK by themselves if it came to it - ie it was a customer service / financial fuck up on their party not an actually dangerous one.

TiramisuQueenoftheFairies · 23/07/2025 13:44

Yes, you should definitely be refunded for the seat allocation if you did not get what you paid for, however, if your boarding passes were for what you'd paid for then I don't see how you can prove to Ryanair that you did not occupy those seats.

I know that they say you "must" occupy the seat it says on you boarding pass, but if my ten year old was on her own at the back of the plane I would not hesitate to swap seats with her so she could sit near DH and her brother.

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