Being told I can’t drink out of certain mugs

Next thing from OP will be.... well I didn't ask to be born 😤

He didn't ask you to stay in his house.

Don't like it? Don't use him and leave

Apologies. That's who I meant

Is the only reason you visit to annoy him?

You are absolutely vile.My father died 15 years ago and I still miss him everyday.If I was your father I’d kick you out and probably never speak to you again.

🤣

He’s your dad. If there are no other more serious underlying issues why do you dislike him so?

I have been caring for my sainted mother and military father this week after my mum fell and hurt herself in the shower.

so far I’ve had to prevent my dad from carrying her up the stairs, using a pressure cooker and have endured lectures on immigration Ozzy Osbourne, my parenting skills, my bra measuring skills and my marriage. I’ve accepted it all because he’s my dad. You only get one

Go grab a mug (not your Dad's) and pour yourself a really big measure of cop on.

So you were deliberately trying to wind him up while staying in his house?
Stop acting like a mardy pre-teen.

No it's not premium, just click on Advanced search at the top of the thread and search by a specific username.

So you have a special mug that others don't drink out of and you'd respect your mum not to drink out of hers - but your dads is fair game because you don't like him and you don't think it's special enough.

He literally can't do anything right - you're staying at their house as a favour, he buys you ice creams you really like and you won't have them.

You sound incredibly immature and awful tbh. I agree with him that you sound like a complete bitch. And it all seems to randomly come down to your mum and him splitting up for a bit.

What was it about the man your mum was with for a while that you liked so much?

Ah yes, I don’t have premium so maybe that’s it.

Ha. I have the worst memory for names. I’ll sometimes recognise someone’s unusual posting style and think “I know you!” But I’ll never remember the name.

I remember the OP's name from other threads where her behaviour was very unreasonable but she failed to see that, despite almost everyone on the threads telling her so. Some threads stay in your memory when the OP's behaviour is unusual!

You can search for usernames too I think, try advanced search

I'm pretty sure you can do an advanced search based on the user's name. It may be a premium feature now though.

I’ve got a favourite fork that I will literally wrestle out of my kids hands 😆 but this isn’t really about the mug is it?

YABU to not just use another mug, it’s not that deep.

Off-topic, but how do you know what her other threads are? I see comments like this a lot and always wonder - do you just have a really good memory for names, or is there a way to look up previous posts? I’ve tried searching by names before and it hasn’t worked.

Sorry to derail, have just always wondered!

Clearly?!
You clearly haven't read the OP's other threads. She has form for finding fault with those around her, when it's obvious to everyone else that it's her own behaviour that needs addressing.

If you hate your dad that much go book yourself into a hotel during your renovations instead of freeloading at your parents house.

Weirdest thread ever!

I mean, it's not hard to imagine that he finds you difficult to get on with...

You are everything you are accusing him of being. Take a look at the ugly person in the mirror.

Without further context it's hard to understand why OP is so resentful of her father. Breaking down the gist of things doesn't help.

She keeps saying "we don't see eye to eye" but from the examples given, there's not a justified reason.

He has a favourite mug and doesn't want her to use it. I can't see that as a major problem.

He passed comment on the appearance of her car. Okay, that's not really necessary but other than being annoying, not really noteworthy.

He bought something he thought she'd like and she rejected it. I don't see why. That's just cutting off your nose to spite your face.

She told him they don't have to talk. That really seems to say more about her.

Whilst the parents were separated (not divorced, as far as I can see) her mother had a relationship with someone else. I don't see any indications that OP is upset by this.

It seems that OP perhaps feels that her father is dismissive and rude, and possibly doesn't treat her mother how she'd like? There seems to be resentment about them getting back together. But the key thing here is that this is what her mother wants.

It seems as though it would be better if OP found somewhere else to live whilst work is being done on her house.

You're ridiculous.

I wouldn’t do this at all if you have twins who are likely to have very different times.

So he’s doing you a favour then?

cause personally I earn enough money that I don’t need to move in with a parent I don’t like due to house renovations, I’d choose to live elsewhere?