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Friend 'sobbing in the kitchen' over Ozzy Osborne

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lronWoman · 22/07/2025 22:08

I'm not generally a mean spirited person but I just can't take this seriously!

My friend has never been a Black Sabbath fan and I've never heard her mention Ozzy once in the 20 years I've known her. However, her and her sister are apparently 'beside themselves with grief' over his death.

I just don't understand this type of performative grief over A list celebrities that people have never met. It's sad and I get that it kind of marks the end of an era, but the guy lived to a ripe old age in the lap of luxury and was one of the most celebrated rock stars the world has ever known. It's not like a present day star has suddenly been cut down in their prime and will no longer be releasing new albums. They'd already released all their famous stuff before we were born.

She wasn't sobbing in the kitchen when an old mutual workmate died unexpectedly in his late 30s a fortnight ago. Guy wasn't a close friend of ours but we were friendly. Used to go to the pub as a group and he helped us move house, refusing to accept a penny for it. Really nice bloke! We hadn't seen him in close to a decade but both felt sad about it for a few days. But no sobbing in the kitchen!

Latest comment is "he's up there at the bar with gramps". I'm finding it hard not to make an inappropriate joke tbh!

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DrowningInSyrup · 23/07/2025 07:45

Very dramatic

I'll look out for the "I'm devastated that Ozzie died, I felt closer to him than my own father" thread.

Silly woman.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 23/07/2025 07:40

Wait until she sees some of the AI images going round of Ozzy being reunited with Lemmy/Kurt Cobain, etc at the Pearly Gates 🫣

AntiquePenguin · 23/07/2025 07:40

Could it be 'gramps' your friend is actually grieving for, and Ozzy's death has brought her feelings to the surface?

PersephonePomegranate · 23/07/2025 07:34

Well1mBack · 22/07/2025 22:18

Oh god yes that was so cringe. I was about 13 or 14 when that happened. My parents were nonplussed about the whole thing. We are Scottish though, it definitely was more muted up here, I mean, there were people sobbing in the streets on the news in England??? I didn't see anyone sobbing in the streets up here. It was sad, really sad for her and her family and the children but it was just such an odd reactionary thing. But I understand perhaps if it was due to what a PP said; that it releases suppressed grief when it's a famous person. That's the only thing that makes sense.

I was 16, in England and completely embarrassed by the whoke performance. What we saw on TV was absolutely ridiculous, however people were hardly wailing in our suburban streets. It was all whipped up by the media, IMO. The film Evita had come out fairly recently and it reminded me of that. We should have had Oh What a Circus ringing out instead of that Candle in the Wind remake shite.

I can imagine being shocked at a celebrity's death, I remember being shocked by Michael Jackson's dying, but crying? And over a man who lived far longer than he should had done considering what he put his body through? Nah.

YodasHairyButt · 23/07/2025 07:33

I’ll be inconsolable when David Attenborough goes 😢

Magnir · 23/07/2025 07:30

Alucard55 · 23/07/2025 07:23

I felt the same when Leonard Cohen went.

So did I.

Moveoverdarlin · 23/07/2025 07:30

I think I would have burst out laughing at the ‘up at the bar with gramps’ comment. I think I would have said ‘Wait, what? Did your grandfather know Ozzy Osbourne then?’

Alucard55 · 23/07/2025 07:23

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I felt the same when Leonard Cohen went.

Seagullsandsausagerolls · 23/07/2025 07:18

I've had too many tragedies in the past I don't tend to cry over celebrities, but I do get it. It can trigger memories and a certain nostalgia. I've seen it compared to homesickness for a place and time we can't revisit.

Theo from The Cosby Show died the day before Ozzy and I must admit I felt a bit sad, not only that his death was tragic but how I watched the show with a friend who also died young, so it was her I was remembering and missing IYKWIM and our youth, feelings of growing up and all that it entailed and not necessarily the death of Jamal Warner.

MsFelicityLemon · 23/07/2025 07:11

No matter how unfathomablle it may be, she's having an emotional reaction to his death for some reason. if she's still at others tomorrow then start becoming concerned and find out what's up or why she's reacted like this by talking to her.

You reaction to post about her reaction on an open public board, so lots of people would mock her, is odd behaviour too. Might be worth figuring out what drove you to do that to someone you call a friend.

Gobacktotheworld · 23/07/2025 07:09

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Yellowbirdcage · 23/07/2025 07:04

Representing the South East here re the Diana sobbing. Nope. None was seen. I think people got on the train to London and held it all in until they could sob amongst kindred souls.

I have posted on here before that one of my colleagues called in sick when Michael Jackson died. True story.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 23/07/2025 07:00

NotCrazyAboutIt · 22/07/2025 23:01

I moved to England from overseas two days after she died, and thought ‘I have moved to a land of crazy people.’

I was abroad at the time and when the funeral took place so avoided the whole pantomime.

arcticpandas · 23/07/2025 06:55

NooNakedJacuzziness · 22/07/2025 22:26

One of my friends on Facebook is sending love and prayers to his family and friends, which I’m sure is helping immeasurably

🤣 Jesus wept. Isn't this all a symptom of main character that seems to be so widespread? I'm so happy to not have social media🙄

Shouldbeworkingnotreadingtalk · 23/07/2025 06:54

333FionaG · 22/07/2025 22:11

Sometimes the death of a celebrity opens the door to past losses and grief that have been buried emotionally. Don’t be too harsh.

I think you’ve got it spot on. . This is exactly what happens. X

Ihateboris · 23/07/2025 06:52

Performative grief. Does she know how fucking cruel he was to animals?

PrinceDead · 23/07/2025 06:51

robinibor · 23/07/2025 00:03

I was very upset when Prince died and also Terry Wogan. It is the end of an era and not your business how people react to a death of an icon

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Itwasallyellow2 · 23/07/2025 06:19

dottiedodah · 22/07/2025 23:46

George Michele passing got to.me .Big Time .I think it's the end of an era kind of thing

Yes, George Michael and, more recently, Steve Wright. Both represent my teenage years and were important to the music industry in different ways. End of an era.

SamiSnail · 23/07/2025 06:18

Magnir · 22/07/2025 22:12

This mainly started when Diana died.

Nope, goes back way, way further than that. Try the death of John Lennon. The mass outpouring of grief internationally. In America, the UK, Australia, etc etc. Every year at the anniversary of his gunning down there are pilgrimages to the Dakota building (where Chapman shot him), to Strawberry Fields in Central Park, even in Liverpool in the UK. The fuss over Diana's death wasn't even 200th percent anywhere near Lennon.

InsomniacA · 23/07/2025 05:57

Shedmistress · 23/07/2025 05:08

It's like when an old barn cat I semi adopted visited every garden in the village the day before he popped his clogs.

Funny you mention that. Ozzy quite enjoyed killing random cats that wandered into his garden and talked about how he did this during lockdown.

https://www.edmovieguide.com/news/ozzy-osbourne-kills-cats-birds-during-lockdown-good-fun-518288/

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 23/07/2025 05:17

InsomniacA · 23/07/2025 02:30

He was a cruel man who loved to hurt and kill animals, and this wasn't limited to the dead bat incident on stage. He has a record for animal cruelty, and some of it fairly recent:

He has spoken gleefully about how during lockdown, he enjoyed shooting cats and birds behind his house. www.edmovieguide.com/news/ozzy-osbourne-kills-cats-birds-during-lockdown-good-fun-518288/

And on one occasion, while high on drugs, he killed his 17 pet cats. https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/tragic-day-ozzy-osbourne-shot-17-cats/

There are many more sources for each of these things.

I can't fathom loving and staying with a man who did these things. I despise animal cruelty and believe that one must be quite sick in the head to do and enjoy these activities. I will certainly not be crying in my kitchen about this horrible cruel man.

Oh shit I didn’t know about any of these things.He’s disgusting.

Gobacktotheworld · 23/07/2025 05:15

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Shedmistress · 23/07/2025 05:08

Empress13 · 23/07/2025 04:57

i think it was all the more poignant because he’d just performed his final concert for charity in his home town almost like he kind of knew he was nearing the end.

It's like when an old barn cat I semi adopted visited every garden in the village the day before he popped his clogs.

Empress13 · 23/07/2025 04:57

i think it was all the more poignant because he’d just performed his final concert for charity in his home town almost like he kind of knew he was nearing the end.

BlankBlankBlank14 · 23/07/2025 04:52

Notmyrealname22 · 23/07/2025 04:40

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(if you know, you know)

Screaming 🙀 at that!

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