I've name changed for this one, but I have been on MN for years. We booked a weekend away back in january for end of this year, last week, my brother messages that he's getting remarried and yep, its on the exact same weekend as our weekend away. We aren't close, never have been. In fact, I am the black sheep of the family and have been treated very differently to everyone else (but thats a different thread). My mother has been on the phone insisting that I have to cancel my weekend away and she will reimburse me because it doesnt look good if Im not there. I will not be cancelling, its no one's fault the dates have clashed and it is what it is. Im being made out to be unreasonable, am I being unreasonable? would really like your opinions please.