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AIBU?

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81 replies

metellaestinatrio · 21/07/2025 18:57

Spent this afternoon at the local park with my DCs. A child we sometimes see at the same park prior to an activity my older kids do in term-time was there with both parents and his baby sibling. He’s probably about seven. He has previously asked to join in my children’s game of football and we have agreed although both times it’s been a short game as my kids need to head off to their tennis lesson.

Today he came straight over and hovered near us and his parents asked if he could play with my DC. So there I was playing with all four kids (mine plus the extra) while the other child’s parents stood nearby with their baby. AIBU to think parents should play with their own child rather than letting them push themselves onto other people like this? My kids were being super polite but didn’t even like this child that much!

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Iamtired123 · 21/07/2025 19:29

God forbid a child wants to play with other children at a children's park!

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 21/07/2025 19:18

You were at a park. Kids like to play with other kids.

MatildaTheCat · 21/07/2025 19:17

Well he’s clearly needing someone to play with. It doesn’t sound as if it was any more work for you?

unless he’s particularly obnoxious it wouldn’t harm anyone to be kind and let him join in.

nomas · 21/07/2025 19:17

YANBU. If your kids don’t want to play with him, I would have just walked off to a different part of the park.

CatRescueNeeded · 21/07/2025 19:14

Surely one of the points of going to the park is to make friends and play with other random children there. If the kids are seven why did you need to actively join in with them? Just leave them to it

HelenaWaiting · 21/07/2025 19:11

You could have said no.