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To ask what causes 'food noise'?

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AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 17:31

I don't know an awful lot about obesity or the new weight loss drugs, but some of the positives seem to be a reduction in 'food noise' and the merciful cessation of years of endless diet cycles.

I would like to understand more about food noise though - I understand, from what I have read, what it is, but I am puzzled about how it actually starts?

From what I can make out, food noise seems to be integral to not being able to lose weight for many people. Is it something that is permanently there, say from childhood onwards, or does it develop once a certain weight has been maintained for some time?

It is something that I have only really heard about since the chatter about GLP-1 drugs became more popular online, and it would be great if a better understanding of food noise could create more awareness and understanding for doctors and healthy weight people alike, who may have previously been ignorant of it.

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SylvanianFamiliesBalcony · 21/07/2025 18:53

lookathatbookcase · 21/07/2025 18:44

There's a growing body of evidence that GLP-1 agonists like Mounjaro, Wegovy etc, can also be used to tackle drug and alcohol addiction. So, that in mind, 'food noise' is another form of craving and reward-seeking behaviour. I think some of it is biological and some learned behaviour, often from childhood relationhips to food, but it's not easy to unpick the two. More about that here:

https://www.npr.org/sections/shots-health-news/2024/10/18/nx-s1-5156068/ozempic-semaglutide-alcohol-drug-treatment

For me, yes, MJ definitely helps me enjoy my food - I always loved food, but it changes it from 'this meal is delicious' to 'this meal is delicious and I will not stop eating it until I'm in pain'; also using food as an emotional crutch. I came off it for a few months earlier this year before returning for a second round, and found that in the interim period, my 'food noise' had mostly gone.

I find this interesting regarding compulsive behaviours. I used to pick the skin around my nails constantly, to the point of bleeding. It looked awful and I found it really difficult to stop. I started Mounjaro and realised a week in that I hadn't picked my cuticles for a week. My skin was healed and looked great. I hadn't even noticed, and I'd been doing it for years.

crackofdoom · 21/07/2025 18:51

henlake7 · 21/07/2025 18:32

I think food noise happens for various reasons. For me it was a symptom of PMDD. For a couple of weeks every month I was obsessed with food and eating.
I got fat as a teenager and struggled to lose weight all my life.
Then peri menopause started and I lost 100ibs fairly easily. Because it was hormonal it was literally like a switch being flipped and my whole personality changed.

It's the difference between having no willpower, constantly craving junk food and not even needing willpower because the thoughts just aren't there.

Me too. However, I'm on cyclical HRT and still get food cravings in my progesterone phase, great 🙄. Not as bad as some of the episodes in my 20s when I felt I could uncontrollably eat yet it wasn't even touching the sides.

TiredAH · 21/07/2025 18:51

Look at the ghrelin hormones created by the stomach. Some individuals have a natural higher levels of this hormone. Is commonly called the hunger hormone.
Some gastric surgeries eliminate this hormone, therefore you eat less, there’s no food cravings/desire, and on top of that, you get your stomach reshaped and your intestines re-routed to “host” less food.
GLP-1 also acts as a inhibitor of this.

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:48

SylvanianFamiliesBalcony · 21/07/2025 18:42

I don't think food noise is hunger or cravings. For me it wasn't a specific craving, it was just a constant, relentless awareness of food, when I last ate, what I would eat next, when I could find an excuse for a restaurant get together, popping to the shops and coming out with twice as much as I planned, at bedtime getting in bed all sleepy and feeling like I NEEDED four slices of toast and jam before I could sleep. It wasn't a specific food, and I wasn't hungry.

I just bloody LOVE food, so much, really relish it, enjoy it, enjoy trying things, socialising over it, everything. I feel like that's one thing different between people with food noise and not, or differing amounts. People who are foodies probably have a lot more than people who are nonplussed, eat for sustenance and aren't easily impressed with foods!

Yes, we all probably lie somewhere on that sliding scale of interest. I am probably somewhere in the middle. However, I can relate to those who have more passion for it than those who have none...

It is a pity we can't just switch where we sit on that scale of interest by choice. People at the far reaches of either side of the scale probably can't relate to each other at all.

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crackofdoom · 21/07/2025 18:47

Mrsbloggz · 21/07/2025 18:39

I used to have constant 'sex noise' but never food noise!

Hey, at least it's low calorie 😆 (but very time consuming, I've been there too!)

Mumjaro · 21/07/2025 18:46

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 17:57

my attitude to food completely changes. I am indifferent to the types of food that I normally find it very difficult to resist. And I'm not constantly thinking about my next meal.

This is what interested me, and I wonder if medical professionals were aware of that effect? Was it unexpected for many people?
It seems to unveil something really vital about the psychology of eating, our relationship to food.

I wonder also, if similarly, a lack of that noise might contribute to people in the underweight range (excluding illness/disorder etc).

That’s literally the point of WLI is it not? Food noise is a symptom of a lack of GLP1, I would imagine the professionals know about it.

Yes, had it from childhood personally. You’ve only recently heard about it because up until now everyone who experiences it thought they were a freak and if only they had a bit more willpower they would be thin.

crackofdoom · 21/07/2025 18:45

MidnightMeltdown · 21/07/2025 18:09

Food noise is caused by eating the wrong types of food. Like when you eat and lot of sugar, it has addictive properties and you start to crave more. I doubt anyone has food noise about broccoli.

I have experienced just that. When I had bad PMDD I would be mindlessly shoving the vegetables I was chopping for dinner into my mouth. Anything. When I was/am more hormonally regulated I just wouldn't think to do that.

lookathatbookcase · 21/07/2025 18:44

There's a growing body of evidence that GLP-1 agonists like Mounjaro, Wegovy etc, can also be used to tackle drug and alcohol addiction. So, that in mind, 'food noise' is another form of craving and reward-seeking behaviour. I think some of it is biological and some learned behaviour, often from childhood relationhips to food, but it's not easy to unpick the two. More about that here:

https://www.npr.org/sections/shots-health-news/2024/10/18/nx-s1-5156068/ozempic-semaglutide-alcohol-drug-treatment

For me, yes, MJ definitely helps me enjoy my food - I always loved food, but it changes it from 'this meal is delicious' to 'this meal is delicious and I will not stop eating it until I'm in pain'; also using food as an emotional crutch. I came off it for a few months earlier this year before returning for a second round, and found that in the interim period, my 'food noise' had mostly gone.

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:42

Ah yes sorry, that makes sense, the chemistry not the psychology.

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SylvanianFamiliesBalcony · 21/07/2025 18:42

I don't think food noise is hunger or cravings. For me it wasn't a specific craving, it was just a constant, relentless awareness of food, when I last ate, what I would eat next, when I could find an excuse for a restaurant get together, popping to the shops and coming out with twice as much as I planned, at bedtime getting in bed all sleepy and feeling like I NEEDED four slices of toast and jam before I could sleep. It wasn't a specific food, and I wasn't hungry.

I just bloody LOVE food, so much, really relish it, enjoy it, enjoy trying things, socialising over it, everything. I feel like that's one thing different between people with food noise and not, or differing amounts. People who are foodies probably have a lot more than people who are nonplussed, eat for sustenance and aren't easily impressed with foods!

crackofdoom · 21/07/2025 18:41

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 17:57

my attitude to food completely changes. I am indifferent to the types of food that I normally find it very difficult to resist. And I'm not constantly thinking about my next meal.

This is what interested me, and I wonder if medical professionals were aware of that effect? Was it unexpected for many people?
It seems to unveil something really vital about the psychology of eating, our relationship to food.

I wonder also, if similarly, a lack of that noise might contribute to people in the underweight range (excluding illness/disorder etc).

I wouldn't say it was so much the psychology of eating, as the biochemistry.

Mrsbloggz · 21/07/2025 18:39

I used to have constant 'sex noise' but never food noise!

WeepingInASunlitRoom · 21/07/2025 18:38

I remember being so hungry as a child, all the time. My mum was very opposed to the concept of snacking and I remember a lot of shaming comments from all family members along the lines of 'you can't possibly be hungry, this is just greed' - but I was hungry, I really was! I was a fussy eater and I likely didn't fill up well on my meals, I definitely wouldn't have been eating much protein or anything satiating. We were a typical 80s low-fat household, so the fact that I wasn't so keen on meat or fish meant I mostly ate the carb components of meals and in retrospect that set up a craving cycle.

In later years, me and my mum have talked about it and she has said she can't understand now why she didn't just give me snacks, and why she'd insist on me waiting til mealtimes even on special occasions when we'd be going out and eating later. I remember feeling faint in restaurants on holiday, and my bad temper in such situations is a family legend now!

It drove me to secret eating and set me up as a binger. I would obsess about food and eat whenever I got the chance and it created such disastrous habits. I was so ashamed. My sisters were naturally like my mum - they ate well at meals, they didn't turn food into a battle and they just weren't very hungry between meals. I couldn't understand what was wrong with me and thought I just had no self control.

I think food noise comes from restriction. I have taken care to listen to my children's needs when it comes to food - one of mine can't manage big meals and is naturally more of a grazer. I've always endeavoured not to make a thing out of it, and no one in my house ever asks incredulously 'how can you possibly be hungry?' My mum has really changed her attitude too. It was a product of the time and the advice given back then. It definitely created food noise for me - the combination of a bigger appetite, lots of fussy preferences around food and a low-fat dieting household. It gave me a drive to eat, and to overeat, that I couldn't fight against.

crackofdoom · 21/07/2025 18:38

Oakcupboard · 21/07/2025 17:50

Research seems to suggest that people with food noise are low in the glp1 hormone. So it seems to be response to that

Is that the one that's also called ghrelin? I agree. The other variable is how well equipped you are to resist the cravings. If you're in a bad way, stressed, poor or have a chaotic life you often don't have the energy to fight them.

IToldYouSoSee · 21/07/2025 18:38

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:35

For those on the drug, do you enjoy your food more now? I hope the lack of interest doesn't eliminate the good bits.

Not as much, but honestly, it’s a relief to not have it the centre of your existence

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:35

For those on the drug, do you enjoy your food more now? I hope the lack of interest doesn't eliminate the good bits.

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IToldYouSoSee · 21/07/2025 18:34

Food noise: waking up thinking about what you will eat that day, thinking about what you will eat next while you’re still eating something else, best part of Christmas being aaaall the food, all the time. Actually it’s worse than smoking because you have to eat to live, and I thought about food far far more than I thought about the next fag.

Ex smoker 16 yrs.

henlake7 · 21/07/2025 18:32

I think food noise happens for various reasons. For me it was a symptom of PMDD. For a couple of weeks every month I was obsessed with food and eating.
I got fat as a teenager and struggled to lose weight all my life.
Then peri menopause started and I lost 100ibs fairly easily. Because it was hormonal it was literally like a switch being flipped and my whole personality changed.

It's the difference between having no willpower, constantly craving junk food and not even needing willpower because the thoughts just aren't there.

Zempy · 21/07/2025 18:32

I had a dreadful abusive childhood. I have always experienced “food noise” including dreaming about food, since being very very young.

I have been on Mounjaro since January and have lost four stone. I don’t think about food at all now unless I am physically hungry, with rumbling tummy etc.

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:28

I presume when the noise is switched off by the drug you are able to find space in your head to approach eating in a calmer way?

A lot of the chatter online looks at the potential downsides to this, but i think it enables some essential space to recover, on that wouldn't get off the ground with the 'noise' at the forefront.

I read an argument where a doctor said he would prefer his patients to do the work of traditional diet and exercise first, with a reticence to prescribe the drugs until much later.
One patient replied 'I am sure that most people who want to lose weight have already tried that, buddy!'.

And they had a point!

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SaintAgatha · 21/07/2025 18:26

I think for me, food noise can be driven by boredom or emotional responses, but it consists of me constantly thinking what’s going to be the next meal. I’m never, ever hungry. What a PP said above also resonated for me - I think it’s dopamine seeking in my case, as it’s triggered by my moods, and since I’ve been on Mounjaro my mood fluctuations have been far less severe. And I actually threw out stale cake! Unheard of.

MidnightMeltdown · 21/07/2025 18:19

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:10

I am getting the idea that food noise is something that literally can't be switched off?

I have never had to diet (yet), but I do think about food a lot and love planning it. I suppose the difference is that it isn't intrusive.

I see the drugs as somehow removing that intrusion?

I don’t know whether food noise is even specific to food.

People gain weight because they are eating to excess. People who do anything to excess tend to become obsessed with it. For example, you get people who are ‘addicted’ to buying excessive amounts of clothes and they probably think about clothes all the time, and constantly browse for new items that they don’t need. Would this be ‘clothes noise’?

Cablescablescables · 21/07/2025 18:15

Strawbsplease · 21/07/2025 17:45

It’s what an addict would call a craving in the way a smoker craves a hit of nicotine.

Food noise is a nicer way of putting it.

I would say exactly this. As someone on GLP’s, I would obsess 24/7 about food and I had a LOT of food noise. It absolutely felt like an addiction or a crutch that I would reach for when things felt tough, I used food to soothe me at the bleakest time in my life. It isn’t ‘funny’ but I joke to people that I put on six stone rather than become an alcoholic or a drug addict. It felt like that was my coping mechanism and I could easily have turned to the other two, but I chose the more ‘socially acceptable’ form. The GLP’s essentially eradicated those cravings and desires in me. I felt like my mind was peaceful and quiet whereas before I was honestly like an addict wondering when I’d get my next hit of food (sugar). It’s been life changing for me ❤️

AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:15

Poodley · 21/07/2025 18:05

I've had the opposite/equivalent experience: recently started ADHD meds and they've vastly improved my eating habits. They reduce my appetite a bit, but mostly it's reducing the want/need to eat because I'm tired/emotional/bored etc etc.

I think you're right about food being a dopamine hit (for me, at least).

So they somehow manage to help you bypass those triggers (tiredness, etc)?
I wonder what the mechanism is.

As someone who used to smoke in my 20's, I recall it always felt like a reward. It served to sort of punctuate everything in life, from having enjoyed a good meal to having to take a long phone call that stressed me out. It was stitched into the very fabric of my every day life. When I quit it felt like a real loss, like grief.

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AllyHayHay · 21/07/2025 18:10

I am getting the idea that food noise is something that literally can't be switched off?

I have never had to diet (yet), but I do think about food a lot and love planning it. I suppose the difference is that it isn't intrusive.

I see the drugs as somehow removing that intrusion?

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