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To ask you what general anaesthetic is actually like?

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 13:02

I’m having functional endoscopic sinus surgery soon. As far as I can tell the recovery is going to be fine - a bit like a head cold (if anyone has experience of this operation though please let me know!). But I’ve never had so much as a blood test (I’m 26). I’m on Mounjaro so used to injecting myself but I still hate needles (I know, I know!)

Any experiences would be appreciated!

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Nursemumma92 · 21/07/2025 15:51

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:48

Another dumb one

how soon after coming round will I be given my phone back etc? I want to be able to let my dad know as soon as I’m able to - he’s not my emergency contact or the one picking me up as he can’t drive, and he’ll be at home, but I don’t want to trigger his atrial fibrillation through stress!

You usually get your phone back once you leave recovery and go back to the day case unit/ward and your property will be returned. How long that is can vary due to many factors such as how long it takes you to wake up and be comfortable, able to sip water etc. Also can be affected by spaces in the day case unit to accept you back. If you know your dad's number to call you can ask the recovery nurses if you can use their phone to call him- I help patients call relatives all the time.

WhatMe123 · 21/07/2025 15:51

Once you wake up your pretty with it too op

Greybeardy · 21/07/2025 15:50

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:31

As much as I wish I could, I just can’t. My brain won’t switch off from it and it’s just how I am about most things

but you aren't doing research - you're doing google searches which are throwing up unfiltered (slightly random) ideas that (completely understandably) you're not able to evaluate properly yourself. Quite a lot of what you've read on this thread so far is nonsense/irrelevant to you and unless you know quite a bit about anaesthetics/surgery it's really hard to tell what's useful to you and what's not (so this thread also doesn't really count as research). You may also have spotted that at least two of three anaesthetists who've posted on the thread so far have slightly different approaches to some things, both of which will be completely safe and routine and which will work well in our own hands and but just emphasises how much individual assessment and speaking to the people who'll actually be looking you after is important.

I would really just try and relax. Follow the fasting guidelines they've given you. Take your normal meds unless they've told you to omit anything. Pack a simple bag (maybe including some basic overnight things just in case). Write your questions down if you're worried about forgetting something. They will give you any other advice that's useful to you, based on your history and the exact operation they're planning for you.

WhatMe123 · 21/07/2025 15:50

They put a needle in, said count back from 10 and I think I got to about 8 then woke up later and was so convinced the surgery hadn't happened, it felt so quick I told the surgeon he was a liar 😂😂😂😂😂 you don't remember a thing and it's so quick

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:49

Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:48

100% I'll happily go borrow it from the children's ward for any patient

Children’s ward 😩😩😩 something about this is genuinely making me feel like a kid again, I think because it’s just entirely unknown

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:48

Another dumb one

how soon after coming round will I be given my phone back etc? I want to be able to let my dad know as soon as I’m able to - he’s not my emergency contact or the one picking me up as he can’t drive, and he’ll be at home, but I don’t want to trigger his atrial fibrillation through stress!

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Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:48

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:45

Can you ask for the numbing cream? I know it makes me seem like a HUGE baby, and even though I’m on Mounjaro, I really struggle with needles

100% I'll happily go borrow it from the children's ward for any patient

Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:47

AliciaLeeming · 21/07/2025 15:45

I am terrified of needles and requested a gas induction on the booking in appt and again as I was admitted. I have no contraindications for it but was refused. They did use numbing cream on me which helped and all I can say was it was quickly over.

For me it was like a black shutter coming down in front of my eyes.

I don't remember anything else until I woke up in the recovery room. I did feel a bit sick but the nurses were on top of that instantly with another drug via the cannula.

I was left with a very sore throat and oddly the side of my tongue was numb for a few days.

Gas inductions are risky and needle phobia isn't a indication. If that's the case cream can be put on on the ward, we have cold numbing spray we can top it up with before doing the drip too.

NewbieYou · 21/07/2025 15:47

Yes you can ask for numbing cream, but it really doesn’t hurt. I faint at needles and didn’t faint at either insertion for my general. I’ve once had them gas me with a mask so I’m out for the needle too.

NewbieYou · 21/07/2025 15:46

Also I’ve never felt nauseous, shaken or forgetful after. When I’ve woken up I’ve always been instantly wide awake and chatting away.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:45

AliciaLeeming · 21/07/2025 15:45

I am terrified of needles and requested a gas induction on the booking in appt and again as I was admitted. I have no contraindications for it but was refused. They did use numbing cream on me which helped and all I can say was it was quickly over.

For me it was like a black shutter coming down in front of my eyes.

I don't remember anything else until I woke up in the recovery room. I did feel a bit sick but the nurses were on top of that instantly with another drug via the cannula.

I was left with a very sore throat and oddly the side of my tongue was numb for a few days.

Can you ask for the numbing cream? I know it makes me seem like a HUGE baby, and even though I’m on Mounjaro, I really struggle with needles

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AliciaLeeming · 21/07/2025 15:45

I am terrified of needles and requested a gas induction on the booking in appt and again as I was admitted. I have no contraindications for it but was refused. They did use numbing cream on me which helped and all I can say was it was quickly over.

For me it was like a black shutter coming down in front of my eyes.

I don't remember anything else until I woke up in the recovery room. I did feel a bit sick but the nurses were on top of that instantly with another drug via the cannula.

I was left with a very sore throat and oddly the side of my tongue was numb for a few days.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:43

TorroFerney · 21/07/2025 15:42

You can step away, you are choosing to do this. You do have agency.

And I’ll just sit worrying instead. This is how I process and cope with things.

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:43

Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:42

Ask the surgeons before theyll explain everything when doing your consent form

You need to talk to your preop nurses on what to do with your mounjaro as the last 3 hospitals I've worked at have different rules

I’ve been told on my pre op call not to stop, and have paperwork stating that too.

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TorroFerney · 21/07/2025 15:42

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:31

As much as I wish I could, I just can’t. My brain won’t switch off from it and it’s just how I am about most things

You can step away, you are choosing to do this. You do have agency.

Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:42

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:36

Oh, more stupid questions

will I get given specific after care info, things like when to start sinus rinses, etc on the day?

Ask the surgeons before theyll explain everything when doing your consent form

You need to talk to your preop nurses on what to do with your mounjaro as the last 3 hospitals I've worked at have different rules

TorroFerney · 21/07/2025 15:42

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 14:38

I’ve seen a lot online that the medicine going in feels really hot and painful? Is that true?

Mate I really think you need to stop googling. What if I say yes it is and someone else says no it’s not, that’s not getting you any further forward is it?

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:36

Oh, more stupid questions

will I get given specific after care info, things like when to start sinus rinses, etc on the day?

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NewbieYou · 21/07/2025 15:34

I’ve had it 3 times. It’s lovely tbh like a brilliant nap.

The worst bit is getting a cannula or picc line - it doesn’t hurt it just makes me squeamish.

Then before surgery they tell you they’re putting you to sleep and to count to 10. You may notice your arm feeling cold like it’s being filled with ice water. Then you wake up after surgery. I’ve never got to 10 when counting I’m usually out by 3!

Honestly it’s just a gap in time. You’re going into surgery and then BLINK you’re out of surgery.

LaLaLandDreams · 21/07/2025 15:32

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:28

I’m just really stressed by it all. I think I just want it done now - I’m trying to think that in ten days’ time I’ll be home, on the sofa, being fussed. I just really don’t want anything to come up that causes an issue because if it’s cancelled that’ll be that - I won’t be able to work myself up like this again.

Honeslty you have nothing to worry about about.

I’ve never felt woozy or counted down, you’re awake one second and asleep the next.

It’s a brilliant sleep.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:31

SilenceInside · 21/07/2025 15:30

@RainSoakedNights Maybe it's an idea to step away from researching all of this and wondering about it all, and do something completely different as a distraction for a while?

As much as I wish I could, I just can’t. My brain won’t switch off from it and it’s just how I am about most things

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SilenceInside · 21/07/2025 15:30

@RainSoakedNights Maybe it's an idea to step away from researching all of this and wondering about it all, and do something completely different as a distraction for a while?

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:30

Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:28

National guidelines now say continue it

https://anaesthetists.org/Portals/0/Images/Page%20content/GLP-1%20RAs%20and%20GIPs%20infographic.jpg?ver=2025-03-11-152624-830

(If it was me personally I'd stop it at least a dose, but that's not the official rules

I was thinking of delaying my dose till the day of my op (I inject on Mondays) - but it then screws me over for my holiday in 6 weeks time. I love the stuff but I wish I’d not started it!

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Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:28

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:25

Should I be stopping my Mounjaro? I’m so, so scared by this.

National guidelines now say continue it

https://anaesthetists.org/Portals/0/Images/Page%20content/GLP-1%20RAs%20and%20GIPs%20infographic.jpg?ver=2025-03-11-152624-830

(If it was me personally I'd stop it at least a dose, but that's not the official rules

https://anaesthetists.org/Portals/0/Images/Page%20content/GLP-1%20RAs%20and%20GIPs%20infographic.jpg?ver=2025-03-11-152624-830

Greybeardy · 21/07/2025 15:28

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:25

Should I be stopping my Mounjaro? I’m so, so scared by this.

no. They have told you not to stop taking it. I linked the consensus guidelines on one of your other threads and those also say not to stop taking it. We are anaesthetising people frequently on mounjaro/alternatives and not routinely killing them - anaesthetists are sensible and good at weighing up the pros and cons of different anaesthetic techniques to keep patients safe.

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