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To ask you what general anaesthetic is actually like?

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 13:02

I’m having functional endoscopic sinus surgery soon. As far as I can tell the recovery is going to be fine - a bit like a head cold (if anyone has experience of this operation though please let me know!). But I’ve never had so much as a blood test (I’m 26). I’m on Mounjaro so used to injecting myself but I still hate needles (I know, I know!)

Any experiences would be appreciated!

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octopustheslapper · 21/07/2025 16:39

Advances are made all the time with anaesthesia. They might say something jokey like " ready for a gin and tonic" 😂 but honestly it is almost instant. They use fentanyl now in some cases and they also use drugs which make you forget all or most of it. Best sleeps ever. Had one recently with the NHS. So well managed.

GrumpyExpat · 21/07/2025 16:38

Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 14:48

That's not standard unless youre already an inpatient. Elective operations we do 5mins before going to sleep

I’m not going to argue with you, I’ve had IVs placed and fluids started before operations. I don’t know what elective means. I needed the surgeries, including one emergency appendicitis.

SilenceInside · 21/07/2025 16:38

Does it matter? If you do, if it's possible and I don't think it's likely, they will sort you out and you will not be aware of it, and they won't tell you afterwards.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 16:35

Another one.

Can I wee myself while I’m under? Their advice is to keep drinking up until the time I get to hospital, so I’ll be pretty hydrated

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YelramBob · 21/07/2025 16:30

OP I've had eight GAs in the last two years (three in the last month) so I'm a bit of a pro 😅 Last week in the theatre the anaesthesiologist actually chuckled and said 'We meet again!'

I'm the biggest wimp going and the cannula insertion is tricky as my veins are a bit fucked due to chemo (takes a couple of attempts usually) but I'm sure you'll be fine ☺️

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 16:28

FurForksSake · 21/07/2025 16:23

When I had day surgery no, they didn’t contact family. They probably would have done if I’d asked. I let family know when I got back to my room.

ive had supposed day surgery twice, first time I stayed in as my heart rate wouldn’t settle. They decided it was safer for me to stay in for monitoring.

last Time was gallbladder, it didn’t go to plan completely, I was last on list and there was a needle stick and so they had to deal with that.

the gallbladder I was in from 7am and went to theatre at 4pm. I have back and hip issues and was in bits from sitting in a chair for hours and they found me a bed. They are so kind.

think about how you are going to manage your anxiety, what is inside and outside of your control. What if questions are normal, but largely pointless. I’d start some meditation and visualisation exercises and find some grounding techniques.

This is completely unusual for you, but it is their everyday. Be guided by the staff as they are totally on top of it.

aftercare guidance was given to me in my discharge pack.

My GP won’t see me for anxiety on such short notice

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Tuningfork · 21/07/2025 16:25

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 13:17

I think this might be why I’ve been told to take my hair extensions out! To be honest I just want to be through the other side and have it all back, I don’t feel like me!

The brain activity monitor is usually only used for longer procedures. I've only had it twice and both surgeries were more than 4 hours.

The hair extension removal is for safety. Basically, anything that isn't attached to you naturally has to be removed, presumably so it doesn't fall off and end up inside you. Any jewellery, false nails, false eyelashes etc., whip them all off!

FurForksSake · 21/07/2025 16:23

When I had day surgery no, they didn’t contact family. They probably would have done if I’d asked. I let family know when I got back to my room.

ive had supposed day surgery twice, first time I stayed in as my heart rate wouldn’t settle. They decided it was safer for me to stay in for monitoring.

last Time was gallbladder, it didn’t go to plan completely, I was last on list and there was a needle stick and so they had to deal with that.

the gallbladder I was in from 7am and went to theatre at 4pm. I have back and hip issues and was in bits from sitting in a chair for hours and they found me a bed. They are so kind.

think about how you are going to manage your anxiety, what is inside and outside of your control. What if questions are normal, but largely pointless. I’d start some meditation and visualisation exercises and find some grounding techniques.

This is completely unusual for you, but it is their everyday. Be guided by the staff as they are totally on top of it.

aftercare guidance was given to me in my discharge pack.

Tuningfork · 21/07/2025 16:19

captureitrememberit · 21/07/2025 13:09

This happens to me every time too!

Me three!

I've had many GA's and this happens every single time. I often come round and panic, thinking that they've put me to sleep as planned, but that there was a problem, so they've woken me straight back up again without carrying out the surgery! I also get a distinct whooshing sound/sensation when I start to come round, like everyone around me is swimming in and out of my head.

My last GA was for an 8 hour operation. Due to the nature of the surgery, I had to spend 24 hours in OIR (overnight intensive recovery - basically 24 hours in the recovery suite for observation). Honestly, it was the most entertaining day I have ever spent. Some of the things people say/do/try to do when coming round from an anaesthetic are hilarious!

Short anaesthetics are usually a breeze, you'll be enjoying a cuppa and a biscuit before you know it. Hope it all goes well!

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 16:15

Justchilling07 · 21/07/2025 16:13

And it’s completely understandable op.Just know that you’ll be in good hands, it will be over before you know it.Easier said then done, l know, try not to worry about your dad, yes write the number down, keep it in your pocket, as soon as you come around ring him straight away.

I’m trying to focus on the fact that 2 weeks ago I had just got back from London and a concert, and that feels like barely any time at all, and in 2 weeks time it’ll be done and I’ll be through the worst bits of recovery. It’s just tough to try and get my head round I think. I know people go through much worse but this is also the worst thing I’ve ever had and fingers crossed, the worst I’ll ever have!

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Justchilling07 · 21/07/2025 16:13

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:56

I think this is it - the complete fear of the unknown, and the worry I’ll build myself up for it only for it to not happen

And it’s completely understandable op.Just know that you’ll be in good hands, it will be over before you know it.Easier said then done, l know, try not to worry about your dad, yes write the number down, keep it in your pocket, as soon as you come around ring him straight away.

Nursemumma92 · 21/07/2025 16:06

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 16:01

Okay, I’ll do that - or will they ring my mum as soon as I wake up so she can let everyone know? It’s stuff like this they’ve not been through - the way they made it sound was like she wouldn’t be told I was awake until I was ready to go home.

I’ll see if anyone can be with him but it’s unlikely. I’ll ask for the sick note when I’m being admitted.

They can ring your mum when awake but with a routine day case procedure they probably won't automatically do it- but if you ask them they will ring for you or give you the phone to ring if you are able.

StarCourt · 21/07/2025 16:02

i’ve had 5 GA’s in the last 12 years. The first i was really nervous about but the surgeon. anaesthetist and nurses were all lovely and helped by chatting. I’ve usually got a migraine when i go in and there’s always a second or 2 when they inject the anaesthetic where the head pain disappears suddenly then i’m out. Wake up a bit woozy and not with it for a while but luckily GA’s don’t make me sick.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 16:01

Nursemumma92 · 21/07/2025 15:59

Yes you can write it down- ask the nurse who goes through your admission paperwork to write it in your notes so the recovery nurses have it.

Do you have a friend or other family member that can call your dad every couple of hours to check he's OK whilst you are away from him? That might put your mind at rest a bit.

You will also get aftercare advice on the day from the nurses that discharge you. Also ask for a sick note when you are being admitted to give the surgeon time to write one before the surgeon starts operating- if it is a long list it can be tricky for the nurses to get a sick note from the surgeon if they are operating and continuing the list long after you are recovered and going home- this largely depends on where you are on the operating list.

Okay, I’ll do that - or will they ring my mum as soon as I wake up so she can let everyone know? It’s stuff like this they’ve not been through - the way they made it sound was like she wouldn’t be told I was awake until I was ready to go home.

I’ll see if anyone can be with him but it’s unlikely. I’ll ask for the sick note when I’m being admitted.

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Nursemumma92 · 21/07/2025 15:59

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:53

i don’t know it off by heart, can I write it down and ask them to give him a quick call to reassure him? Him being home by himself is another thing stressing me out, in case he goes into AF

Yes you can write it down- ask the nurse who goes through your admission paperwork to write it in your notes so the recovery nurses have it.

Do you have a friend or other family member that can call your dad every couple of hours to check he's OK whilst you are away from him? That might put your mind at rest a bit.

You will also get aftercare advice on the day from the nurses that discharge you. Also ask for a sick note when you are being admitted to give the surgeon time to write one before the surgeon starts operating- if it is a long list it can be tricky for the nurses to get a sick note from the surgeon if they are operating and continuing the list long after you are recovered and going home- this largely depends on where you are on the operating list.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 21/07/2025 15:58

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 13:20

I think because I’ve never experienced it before I can’t conceptualise the fact it’s instant - because I struggle so much with sleep. I know it’s not the same as that but I have nothing to compare it to

It’s completely instant. You won’t even feel yourself falling asleep. You don’t need to worry about it. Honestly, you’ll be laughing at how nervous you were after you’ve had your operation. There really is nothing to worry about. Just relax and enjoy the best sleep ever!

CloudywMeatballs · 21/07/2025 15:56

I've had two fairly recently. It's a doddle! Both times I remember trying to keep my eyes open so they would know I wasn't under yet! But of course they are well aware of when you are unconscious and when you're not. Both times my last memory was of trying to keep my eyes open and then the next thing I knew I was in the recovery room with the nurses telling me it was all over. One, when the procedure was a little longer (a couple of hours) it felt like I had been asleep and I had definitely been dreaming, which surprised me. With the shorter procedure it felt like no time had passed.
Once you're awake they usually give you a quick drink of something sweet - apple juice or ginger ale, then help you get dressed and then they'll put you in a wheelchair and put you in your car to be driven home and that's that!

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:56

Justchilling07 · 21/07/2025 15:55

I’ve had a few, l think it’s only natural, fear of the unknown.The procedure is over so fast.You can request for the cannula (to administer the anaesthetic)to go in your forearm, rather than hand, which l personally find is more comfortable.When l’ve went to have the procedures, only memories are, lay down on bed, see the anaesthetist take my arm and that’s it.I didn’t count or see a breathing mask, was completely out of it, straight away.When l wake up, no recollection, didn’t realise anything had been done.OP, it’s the thought of having it, once you get there, it will be over before you know it.

I think this is it - the complete fear of the unknown, and the worry I’ll build myself up for it only for it to not happen

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caramac04 · 21/07/2025 15:55

Greybeardy · 21/07/2025 15:54

the mounjaro makes no difference at all to the surgeon. It's relevant to the anaesthetist and they will make sure they look after you safely.

This. The anaesthetist knows what they are doing and you can absolutely trust them.

Justchilling07 · 21/07/2025 15:55

I’ve had a few, l think it’s only natural, fear of the unknown.The procedure is over so fast.You can request for the cannula (to administer the anaesthetic)to go in your forearm, rather than hand, which l personally find is more comfortable.When l’ve went to have the procedures, only memories are, lay down on bed, see the anaesthetist take my arm and that’s it.I didn’t count or see a breathing mask, was completely out of it, straight away.When l wake up, no recollection, didn’t realise anything had been done.OP, it’s the thought of having it, once you get there, it will be over before you know it.

Natsku · 21/07/2025 15:55

I've had a few, most have been like having the best sleep ever but with a couple I got an impending sense of doom as I was going under that made me genuinely feel like I was going to die and never wake up from the anaesthetic. Obviously I did not die but it was unpleasant and I still felt the doom feeling a bit after I woke up.

Greybeardy · 21/07/2025 15:54

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:53

It’s easy to say that but I’ve literally only met this consultant once for a ten minute appointment. He didn’t even know what Mounjaro was and was more focused on that

the mounjaro makes no difference at all to the surgeon. It's relevant to the anaesthetist and they will make sure they look after you safely.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:53

Greybeardy · 21/07/2025 15:50

but you aren't doing research - you're doing google searches which are throwing up unfiltered (slightly random) ideas that (completely understandably) you're not able to evaluate properly yourself. Quite a lot of what you've read on this thread so far is nonsense/irrelevant to you and unless you know quite a bit about anaesthetics/surgery it's really hard to tell what's useful to you and what's not (so this thread also doesn't really count as research). You may also have spotted that at least two of three anaesthetists who've posted on the thread so far have slightly different approaches to some things, both of which will be completely safe and routine and which will work well in our own hands and but just emphasises how much individual assessment and speaking to the people who'll actually be looking you after is important.

I would really just try and relax. Follow the fasting guidelines they've given you. Take your normal meds unless they've told you to omit anything. Pack a simple bag (maybe including some basic overnight things just in case). Write your questions down if you're worried about forgetting something. They will give you any other advice that's useful to you, based on your history and the exact operation they're planning for you.

It’s easy to say that but I’ve literally only met this consultant once for a ten minute appointment. He didn’t even know what Mounjaro was and was more focused on that

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:53

Nursemumma92 · 21/07/2025 15:51

You usually get your phone back once you leave recovery and go back to the day case unit/ward and your property will be returned. How long that is can vary due to many factors such as how long it takes you to wake up and be comfortable, able to sip water etc. Also can be affected by spaces in the day case unit to accept you back. If you know your dad's number to call you can ask the recovery nurses if you can use their phone to call him- I help patients call relatives all the time.

i don’t know it off by heart, can I write it down and ask them to give him a quick call to reassure him? Him being home by himself is another thing stressing me out, in case he goes into AF

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