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To ask you what general anaesthetic is actually like?

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 13:02

I’m having functional endoscopic sinus surgery soon. As far as I can tell the recovery is going to be fine - a bit like a head cold (if anyone has experience of this operation though please let me know!). But I’ve never had so much as a blood test (I’m 26). I’m on Mounjaro so used to injecting myself but I still hate needles (I know, I know!)

Any experiences would be appreciated!

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MarioLink · 21/07/2025 19:46

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 17:41

This is what I just can’t get my head around. Will they be chatting to me? Will it just be quiet?

For me they wheeled me into the room they anaesthetise you in and the anaesthetist said hello, made small talk whilst getting things ready (for less than a minute) then told me to count and I was unconscious within a second or two. It's just so quick.

Through a volunteer job I saw wild animals put under anaesthetic for examination and treatment and it really is one second they are trying to bite you ferociously then the next they are peacefully sleeping.

Lincslady53 · 21/07/2025 19:20

We used to get GA at the dentist when we were kids in the 50s and 60s and it was horrible. Rubber gas mask stuck over your face, horrible smell. I can still smell it now 60 years later. I had an op 3 years ago, my first with ga. What a difference. Could not believe how many people were involved, all very professional, all moving quickly but everyone knowing what they had to do. A bit of humorous banter as I went under, I commented that something he strapped to my leg was cold, he said if I had gone private it would have been warmed up. Next thing I knew I was waking up 9 hours later, and being cared for by a nurse who woke me up every 2 hours to drink and check my monitors. Have a look on youtube, there are loads of videos explaining what happens, do whatever they ask before hand, no eating or drinking as it cause serious complications. I won't say I enjoyed it, but was wasn't unpleasant at all.

BlibBlabBlob · 21/07/2025 19:20

MollyMollyMandy33 · 21/07/2025 14:41

I’m not advising you to eat ‘for the sake of it’ just advising not to fast longer than advised by your trust and to follow their guidelines. There are very good physiological reasons for not fasting for a long time; it’s actually been shown than long fasts increase risk. It’s not ‘just food’, it’s fuel that your body will need. Also, remember that your admission time isn’t the time of your surgery; you will be on a list of patients and you may have a wait of several hours in reality before you go to theatre. If you’ve fasted for much longer than advised, you will potentially have spent many hours without anything to eat, by which time you will be uncomfortable/hungry/thirsty and also not in an optimal physical state for your op. I’ve been a recovery/anesthetic nurse for many years. Good luck

Just out of interest... does this still apply if you're accustomed to fasting daily? I only have black coffee and water every day until late afternoon or early evening. Then have a snack, big evening meal, glass of wine if I fancy it, etc across the evening. So I fast anywhere from 16-20 hours a day, every day. My body is completely happy just switching to burning fat at some point during the fast instead of relying on whatever I last ate, I hardly never feel hungry.

If I were to have a general anaesthetic, would this put me at risk? I'd still have plenty of clear fluids up until the cut off time, obviously. So no risk of dehydration. But would I have to force myself to stay up really late the night before and force myself to eat something then?

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 19:03

I think another thing that’s making me feel down is I don’t feel like myself. I know it sounds stupid, but having my extensions in and my nails done makes me feel more put together and polished, and without them I feel really strange. That and being told no fake tan, I just don’t feel myself at all. Sorry to vent on here but it’s doing my mum’s head in

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 18:57

FurForksSake · 21/07/2025 18:54

You won’t be in recovery for long usually and you’ll just be a bit zonked. Just let go of control and follow the advice and instruction given. You know that the anticipation is always 1000 times worth than the actuality.

I wish I could let go, but I can’t.

realistically I’m sure this bit is worse than the op and recovery will be. I’m like, 90% sure the blister I have on my heel right now is probably worse. But because I can’t skip forward I’m just stuck being terrified

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FurForksSake · 21/07/2025 18:54

You won’t be in recovery for long usually and you’ll just be a bit zonked. Just let go of control and follow the advice and instruction given. You know that the anticipation is always 1000 times worth than the actuality.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 18:52

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 21/07/2025 18:32

I’ve had quite a few. They are much better these days. My first was about 40 years ago and I felt so ill afterwards. These days you’re awake and alert much more quickly. I find it weird when I come to in that I’m aware there’s been a time gap, but it’s just blank, whereas from sleep I feel like I’ve been present while asleep, GA is just nothing. Just tell them you’re nervous, it’s perfectly common, especially for your first one, and they’ll be keen to look after you. I got nervous for my second caesarean and there was a lovely nurse holding my hand and chatting away to me.

I honestly think having someone there to just hold my hand would make it all better! I know it sounds pathetic, but I’m just so worried I’m going to be a nuisance on the recovery ward etc so I’m just going to keep quiet!

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ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 21/07/2025 18:32

I’ve had quite a few. They are much better these days. My first was about 40 years ago and I felt so ill afterwards. These days you’re awake and alert much more quickly. I find it weird when I come to in that I’m aware there’s been a time gap, but it’s just blank, whereas from sleep I feel like I’ve been present while asleep, GA is just nothing. Just tell them you’re nervous, it’s perfectly common, especially for your first one, and they’ll be keen to look after you. I got nervous for my second caesarean and there was a lovely nurse holding my hand and chatting away to me.

Ahwig · 21/07/2025 18:32

My dad did the whole count down from 10 thing and was surprised when he got to 1. He asked the nurse what happens now that he did the whole 10-1 thing , were they going to try again ? Err no sir the surgery went well and you’re in recovery.

AliciaLeeming · 21/07/2025 18:32

Destiny123 · 21/07/2025 15:47

Gas inductions are risky and needle phobia isn't a indication. If that's the case cream can be put on on the ward, we have cold numbing spray we can top it up with before doing the drip too.

I was very close to getting up and walking out when the anaesthetist refused...

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 18:31

I've explained to my mum - I think part of the reason I can't comprehend it is I'm never "off". Even when I'm asleep I can be thinking about work etc., it just manifests itself into my dreams!

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Eeehbaheck · 21/07/2025 18:29

When i had ga i was very anxious.. so asked for a pre med- i didnt think it was working , but all of a sudden it did.I was then wheeled to surgery, and i felt calm and detatched. needle in- straight to deep sleep .
When i woke up I felt quite euphoric and had to be told to be quiet!
I then felt sleepy tired and chilled rest of the day.
The team are usually really good , and of course skilled .

AliciaLeeming · 21/07/2025 18:26

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 15:45

Can you ask for the numbing cream? I know it makes me seem like a HUGE baby, and even though I’m on Mounjaro, I really struggle with needles

Yes of course! I didn't care about appearing a big baby. I was!

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 21/07/2025 18:25

I am a proper panic merchant. I’ve had 3 GA’s, I didn’t sleep the night before my first one. I was so worried.
And then in I went, they said they’d count down from ten and as soon as I heard 8, I was out. You are absolutely out.
And when you come around it’s like it never happened. I also had the best sleep of my life the night after each GA.
Had one last year and wasn’t phased at all.
These people are absolute experts, there’s nothing to worry about, and I don’t even like having my teeth cleaned and polished at the dentist!
You will be absolutely fine. Promise!

User050509 · 21/07/2025 18:12

I only had it once during an emergency surgery so it was chaotic but I remember a nurse asking me what I was having for tea - I started to reply and… then I woke up in a different room feeling disoriented (although that may well be because it hadn’t been planned). no other side effects whatsoever. I’m an insomniac - it’s nothing like falling asleep. As others have said it’s an off switch, there’s no “drifting off”.

sugarandcyanide · 21/07/2025 18:00

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 13:45

Another thing - is it a particularly American concept to be given something to ease your nerves? I keep being told this happens by ChatGPT but I’ve no idea if that’s in England too!

They had to do this with me because I was so anxious my heart rate was sky high! I'm not sure if it's normal procedure or not but whatever they gave me felt amazing!

The actual anaesthetic was fine though. I woke up trying to get off the bed saying I needed the loo but they wouldn't let me up.

The worst bit for me was after. I had ulcers in my throat from the equipment that were super painful, had to stop the car on the way home to throw up and all I could do was sleep for about 2 days. My blood pressure was low after so I think it was that causing the sleepiness.

I don't know anyone else that this has happened to though so I think I just reacted badly to it.

LadySuzanne · 21/07/2025 17:53

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 17:41

This is what I just can’t get my head around. Will they be chatting to me? Will it just be quiet?

The nurses and anaesthetist will chat to you while they get you prepped.

I can still recall the conversation I had with the male nurse who administered my spinal block but within seconds of the sedation being administered I was out like a light.

SilenceInside · 21/07/2025 17:51

I suppose it's like when a film or tv show fades to black, and then cuts to another scene. That's what it's like.

Dodeedoo · 21/07/2025 17:48

I love it! They give you something just before that chills you right out.

SilenceInside · 21/07/2025 17:48

They'll be talking to you whilst you're conscious, which won't be for long once they administer the anaesthetic.

Nursemumma92 · 21/07/2025 17:47

They will chat to you as you go off. Anaesthetists are all different but either the anaesthetist and the ODP/anaesthetic nurse (their assistant) will chat to you either asking you to count down or picture yourself somewhere you'd love to go like lying on a beach etc.

Your body won't fight the drugs, you will just go off to sleep one minute and be awake the next- people say it's like a pause button that has been pressed.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 17:46

SilenceInside · 21/07/2025 17:45

@RainSoakedNights falling asleep is a natural process that is part of your daily cycle. Getting an anaesthetic is being given several different medications that switch off the conscious part of your brain, makes you unable to move your body but also makes your body relaxed so that you can be moved around as needed by the operating team. It's like the difference between being unconscious like when you have a head injury and are knocked out, or if you faint, and just normally falling asleep. Similar, but different.

I’ve never passed out either 😅 this is why I can’t get my head around it

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LadySuzanne · 21/07/2025 17:45

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 16:41

Well, of course it matters. It would be awfully embarrassing and I’d not have spare pants with me to go home in!

If you are really worried about weeing under GA, take a pair of spare knickers with you to wear home.

They will have seen it all before.

SilenceInside · 21/07/2025 17:45

@RainSoakedNights falling asleep is a natural process that is part of your daily cycle. Getting an anaesthetic is being given several different medications that switch off the conscious part of your brain, makes you unable to move your body but also makes your body relaxed so that you can be moved around as needed by the operating team. It's like the difference between being unconscious like when you have a head injury and are knocked out, or if you faint, and just normally falling asleep. Similar, but different.

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 17:41

MarioLink · 21/07/2025 17:40

I'm very resistant to local anaesthetic, my dentist can't believe it but general knocked me out just fine. One minute I was talking to the anaesthetist then they said count down from five and I didn't even get to four!

This is what I just can’t get my head around. Will they be chatting to me? Will it just be quiet?

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