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To ask you what general anaesthetic is actually like?

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RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 13:02

I’m having functional endoscopic sinus surgery soon. As far as I can tell the recovery is going to be fine - a bit like a head cold (if anyone has experience of this operation though please let me know!). But I’ve never had so much as a blood test (I’m 26). I’m on Mounjaro so used to injecting myself but I still hate needles (I know, I know!)

Any experiences would be appreciated!

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LadySuzanne · 22/07/2025 11:48

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 11:44

I don’t have a contact number for them - only ENT secretaries who are very busy and tend not to get back. If you can’t answer the question why be rude?

I'm not being rude, RainSoakedNights.

There should be a phone number on your operation paperwork and your surgery appointment letter.

Consultants' secretaries are not the right person to ask.

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 11:44

LadySuzanne · 22/07/2025 11:41

Fluids you can see through ie transparent with no pulp or bits or milk, like clear apple juice.

Some hospitals permit sports drinks.

But if you are in any doubt and you don't want to ask the hospital why not just stick to plain water?

It's only for a few hours of your life.

I don’t have a contact number for them - only ENT secretaries who are very busy and tend not to get back. If you can’t answer the question why be rude?

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LadySuzanne · 22/07/2025 11:41

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 11:25

It says clear fluids, but doesn’t define them which is why I’m asking!

Fluids you can see through ie transparent with no pulp or bits or milk, like clear apple juice.

Some hospitals permit sports drinks.

But if you are in any doubt and you don't want to ask the hospital why not just stick to plain water?

It's only for a few hours of your life.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 22/07/2025 11:27

sofiamofia · 21/07/2025 13:06

You won't see the needle going in. It goes into your hand when you're lying flat on the operating table.

It does hurt a little going in and then they tell you to count and you think "this probably won't work on me" (or at least I do, every time!) and then you're asleep.

It is the best sleep of your life. I love a general anaesthetic.

And me, wish I could have one every night 😆

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 11:25

LadySuzanne · 22/07/2025 11:19

If it's not on the sheet of pre-op preparation instructions then I suggest you ask the hospital.

It says clear fluids, but doesn’t define them which is why I’m asking!

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LadySuzanne · 22/07/2025 11:19

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 10:45

That’s not the answer to the question I asked. I can also extend the question to squash etc - does it count as a clear fluid?

If it's not on the sheet of pre-op preparation instructions then I suggest you ask the hospital.

thelakeisle · 22/07/2025 11:10

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 11:04

I don’t think it’s main character syndrome to have lost a lot of weight and so I want to look nice?

It is absolutely main character syndrome to think anyone gives a toss how you look except you when you are having a procedure done. And yep, you do think that, which is why you care.

Anyway, you do you.

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 11:08

octopustheslapper · 22/07/2025 11:06

Wow @RainSoakedNights 87 posts on this by yourself😳

I’m not sure what your point is? I’ve spoken with several people about my experiences and worries?

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octopustheslapper · 22/07/2025 11:06

Wow @RainSoakedNights 87 posts on this by yourself😳

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 11:04

thelakeisle · 22/07/2025 11:03

You care because you care about what other people think. That's how caring about your appearance works, and it's why even the most uncaring of us combs our hair and wears clean clothes before we go out.

I wouldn't say vain so much as having main character syndrome.

The reality is you don't believe me and think others will notice. They won't remember you, and you will make no impression on them, good or bad, provided you are polite and all goes smoothly.

But you're clearly going to keep pursuing this, so sure, as you wish.

I don’t think it’s main character syndrome to have lost a lot of weight and so I want to look nice?

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thelakeisle · 22/07/2025 11:03

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 10:56

I know they won’t care, but I do care about my appearance and I feel totally unlike myself. Some may say it’s vain, but after losing a huge amount of weight I had come to take pride in all of that sort of thing and now I feel totally disconnected from how I feel on the inside and how I look.

You care because you care about what other people think. That's how caring about your appearance works, and it's why even the most uncaring of us combs our hair and wears clean clothes before we go out.

I wouldn't say vain so much as having main character syndrome.

The reality is you don't believe me and think others will notice. They won't remember you, and you will make no impression on them, good or bad, provided you are polite and all goes smoothly.

But you're clearly going to keep pursuing this, so sure, as you wish.

octopustheslapper · 22/07/2025 11:01

I was prescribed electrolytes one time but it was ahead of a very long surgery.

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 10:56

thelakeisle · 22/07/2025 10:55

I cannot stress enough how little anyone will care what you look like. Nobody will notice or care, at all, if you are gorgeous, hideous, fat, thin Or anything in between. They simply won't care, they have done procedures on thousands of people, you are just a body to them. Sorry but it's true.

As for the anaesthetic, you will conk out super fast and wake up with no feeling of any passage of time. You will be a bit woozy and might talk a bit of rubbish for a few minutes. I've been knocked out about 8 times for a number of procedures, and it's only a bit anxiety producing the first time.

Oh, and you'll feel totally normal by the next day.

I know they won’t care, but I do care about my appearance and I feel totally unlike myself. Some may say it’s vain, but after losing a huge amount of weight I had come to take pride in all of that sort of thing and now I feel totally disconnected from how I feel on the inside and how I look.

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thelakeisle · 22/07/2025 10:55

RainSoakedNights · 21/07/2025 20:34

Like I said, they told me.

it was the only thing I thought to ask because I had a nail and hair appointment booked in before the surgery date

I cannot stress enough how little anyone will care what you look like. Nobody will notice or care, at all, if you are gorgeous, hideous, fat, thin Or anything in between. They simply won't care, they have done procedures on thousands of people, you are just a body to them. Sorry but it's true.

As for the anaesthetic, you will conk out super fast and wake up with no feeling of any passage of time. You will be a bit woozy and might talk a bit of rubbish for a few minutes. I've been knocked out about 8 times for a number of procedures, and it's only a bit anxiety producing the first time.

Oh, and you'll feel totally normal by the next day.

ladyofshertonabbas · 22/07/2025 10:51

Only ever had a short GA, was a very stressed, sleep deprived parent at the time, and terrified. It was wonderfullll. Last memory was of the anaesthetist chuckling, then work up feeling lovely and sleepy. Unfortunately the nurse seemed to want a tea break so was yanked out of the sleepy state abruptly. I hope you enjoy the big sleep and all goes well.

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 10:45

LadySuzanne · 22/07/2025 10:42

Unless you are being prescribed electrolytes for a medical reason - it is just one day.

Can't you just have plain water on the morning before your surgery?

That’s not the answer to the question I asked. I can also extend the question to squash etc - does it count as a clear fluid?

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LadySuzanne · 22/07/2025 10:42

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 10:24

Another question (sorry!) - do electrolytes count as clear fluids the morning before surgery?

Unless you are being prescribed electrolytes for a medical reason - it is just one day.

Can't you just have plain water on the morning before your surgery?

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 10:24

Another question (sorry!) - do electrolytes count as clear fluids the morning before surgery?

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VickyEadieofThigh · 22/07/2025 08:10

SockQueen · 21/07/2025 13:10

Make sure you tell the anaesthetist you are on Mounjaro. They will choose the right airway options to keep you safe.

How easily you fall asleep naturally has no bearing on how easy it is to anaesthetise you. Smile

This is true! I'm a chronic insomniac but both times I've had a GA I was out before they said a word about counting down etc!

RainSoakedNights · 22/07/2025 08:07

NewbieYou · 22/07/2025 03:13

You’ll be fine Op. You need to stop getting yourself all het up about it tbh - it’s a 30 minute procedure. You’ll chat to the team, needle in, bang you’re done.

You say you’re scared about waking back up - it’s often no different than waking up early from a normal sleep. You just become awake. Nothing scary.

It doesn’t matter what you wear - your team will tell you if you need to get changed and what to take off.

You don’t need any further information tbh. You’ve been told what to do. Anything else they’ll tell you on the day.

It’s day surgery not a dangerous experimental op! And everyone’s first time having surgery is their first time! It’s normal to be nervous, it’s not normal to be absolutely terrified and stewing over questions about bras.

Easier said than done. I’ve woken up so anxious again and I don’t know why, I just can’t shake it

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NewbieYou · 22/07/2025 03:13

You’ll be fine Op. You need to stop getting yourself all het up about it tbh - it’s a 30 minute procedure. You’ll chat to the team, needle in, bang you’re done.

You say you’re scared about waking back up - it’s often no different than waking up early from a normal sleep. You just become awake. Nothing scary.

It doesn’t matter what you wear - your team will tell you if you need to get changed and what to take off.

You don’t need any further information tbh. You’ve been told what to do. Anything else they’ll tell you on the day.

It’s day surgery not a dangerous experimental op! And everyone’s first time having surgery is their first time! It’s normal to be nervous, it’s not normal to be absolutely terrified and stewing over questions about bras.

BumblingBanana · 21/07/2025 23:00

I got majorly told off for still having my contact lenses in. I didn't own any glasses and I am -10. Wasn't planning on having an op and had been in hospital for 10 days following sudden admission. Nurse said keep them in. She may have said just tell them. They nearly didn't operate, he was so cross.

He was right though, I woke up going 'my eyeesss, my eyyyeees' as they had knocked one of them into the corner of my eye and it was scratching like mad.

I also thought I was in a space ship when I woke up as it was the recovery room. There was either a very large TV or it was a monitor showing some medical data. Then there was someone standing at a podium controlling it all. It was definitely a spaceship in my head 😂 Lots of beeping going on.

They are very nice though and are usually all fussing round you as you come round.

Obviouslyanxiousmum · 21/07/2025 22:51

I was terrified, had a full on panic attack on the table before being put under. They put something in my cannula and i suddenly felt fantastic, like i’d drank a good few g&t’s😂i then remember the mask being put on and just not being the slightest bit scared anymore! Then i guess i must have fell asleep. Unlike most posters on here though i dont really remember waking up in recovery! It was very hazy for me (but not scary), think i must have been dosed up on pain meds.

Wacadu · 21/07/2025 22:45

I've had 8 or 9 GAs and they've all been fine. What I found funny was getting the anaesthetic and going to sleep with my glasses on. Then when I woke up, my glasses were back on.

I know they would have removed them for surgery but it just made me laugh.

MsNevermore · 21/07/2025 22:28

ChicOliveCritic · 21/07/2025 21:08

You have absolutely nothing to worry about! They are amazing at what they do. I had day surgery last year and was so worried about being under GA I looked up how it is done on Dr Google. It is a real science. They are so good at making you feel at ease before you go under. It's the best sleep ever. Hope all goes well with your procedure. 🙂

I saw this video on Instagram by an anaesthesiology nurse after my most recent surgery and I was stunned by how in-depth their assessments are, and a lot of it is stuff that you wouldn’t even think they are looking for!
www.instagram.com/reel/DIU6UkXM_f6/?igsh=c3MxMGg5cWc1Zmxs