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Summer holidays should be longer

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noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 09:24

Our kids have the shortest summer holidays in Europe, Italy have 13 weeks, even Ireland has 9.

They're under pressure so much at school they need more time to just be kids. Classrooms are so hot in the last few weeks of term that it's impossible to learn effectively anyway.

I think we should add at least an extra two weeks to the summer holidays, so break up near the start of July. This would bring us more into line with private schools too.

And with longer holidays it might help recruit and retain teachers, and reduce competition for summer annual leave slots for working parents. It could even reduce the cost of holidays as 'peak season' would be longer.

Summer holidays should be longer
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Lmnop22 · 22/07/2025 16:37

Natsku · 22/07/2025 14:46

Why is 6 weeks striking the right balance? What do you base that on? Are other countries not striking the right balance then?

Because in this country those are the main factors to strike a balance between in my opinion and it works well.

In hotter countries the temperature has to be considered, in countries where traditionally there’s a stay at home parent or a whole family raise the children then less emphasis is placed on struggling parents or low income families if the burden is shared between more family members or holiday club cost isnt such a big concern because there are cheaper options.

Each country does its best to suit the needs of its children and, although I’m not basing 6 weeks being the best balance on scientific evidence or anything, just seems about right to me to balance everyone’s needs to time off, childcare, vulnerability in low income families etc etc and suits what is the “norm” in our society of single parent/two working parent households who largely manage their own childcare.

K2054 · 22/07/2025 16:31

MrsHamlet · 22/07/2025 16:01

@K2054 we get paid IN the holidays but not FOR all of them

I disagree, it's part of our salary. There is the potential to be asked to attend a course, but we are still paid regardless. Also we most definitely get more holiday than those outside of education. As a teacher, after planning, marking and preparing materials, and teaching extra curricular activities, I still have way more time to spend with my children than I ever did working outside of education.

Teaching is hard work and yes you do sometimes feel like you want to go and lie down in a dark room for a week at the end of term, but is it worse than people experience outside of education? No, of course it isn't.

fffiona · 22/07/2025 16:18

MrsHamlet · 22/07/2025 16:01

@K2054 we get paid IN the holidays but not FOR all of them

Can I clarify something:
When it says the starting pay for a newly qualified teacher is around £31,000, does that mean they get £31,000 (gross) or that they get £31,000 minus however much they would be paid for the weeks they are not paid for.

Postre · 22/07/2025 16:10

K2054 · 22/07/2025 15:56

@birdling what do you mean we don't get more holiday than other people and that most of our holidays are unpaid? Believe me, as a teacher if I didn't get paid during the holidays, I wouldn't do it. Having worked outside education and now as a dedicated teacher, I still have way more holiday than I did before. I also agree that children should have less holiday over the summer. Research shows too much information is lost over the summer.

IMO children and teachers (I include myself in this), would benefit more from a shorter summer. We wouldn't suddenly be doing extra work, because those days would be added to other holidays during the year to give the students and teachers more balance.

It means you've already done all of the work for your salary by working your 190 pupils facing days and 5 INSET, before having the summer off. What they pay you in August has already been earned now!

Poppins21 · 22/07/2025 16:08

Natsku · 22/07/2025 14:48

We call it the ski holiday in Finland, because that's what people do during it. So much so, that they have to stagger it over 3 weeks so more people get a chance to visit the ski resorts (not us though, my poor kids are stuck with cross country skiing at home Grin)

We love the Finnish ski resorts like Levi. But totally all about the skiing in Feb holidays.

MrsHamlet · 22/07/2025 16:01

@K2054 we get paid IN the holidays but not FOR all of them

K2054 · 22/07/2025 15:56

@birdling what do you mean we don't get more holiday than other people and that most of our holidays are unpaid? Believe me, as a teacher if I didn't get paid during the holidays, I wouldn't do it. Having worked outside education and now as a dedicated teacher, I still have way more holiday than I did before. I also agree that children should have less holiday over the summer. Research shows too much information is lost over the summer.

IMO children and teachers (I include myself in this), would benefit more from a shorter summer. We wouldn't suddenly be doing extra work, because those days would be added to other holidays during the year to give the students and teachers more balance.

Clareypoos · 22/07/2025 15:55

I actually think the summer holidays should be shorter. I would like to see the summer holidays reduced to 4 weeks, but an extra week added to the February and October half terms.

MellowPinkDeer · 22/07/2025 15:07

noblegiraffe · 22/07/2025 10:48

I suspect the school with the 40 minute longer school day has a correspondingly longer lunchtime.

Incorrect. My kids school have two longer days and this means that that get an extra 222 hours of learning over their school career. Lunch remains the same. They finish at 4.

GreenGully · 22/07/2025 15:06

@Madsciencecovid2020
'We also get extremely tired looking after your kids - as surrogate parents' This type of attitude is why teachers lose a lot of respect.

Lauralou19 · 22/07/2025 14:58

Katiesaidthat · 22/07/2025 14:10

I grew up in Spain and absolutely loved the break from June to September. I like that my daughter gets to experience that too. A true break from school. She is off from 20 June to 7 September.

Everything is country specific though. You can understand when the temperatures regularly hit high 30’s/40’s through a very long hot Summer, that it would be difficult to open the school. Its currently 21 degrees in our Southern town in the UK and its peak Summer. It would be totally pointless closing the school for that long, 70 million people going on a ‘go slow’ for 2 months for perfectly normal temperatures. I completely understand why they do it in other countries though.

Natsku · 22/07/2025 14:48

Poppins21 · 22/07/2025 14:08

The February half term came from private schools for skiing holidays. In Scandinavian it is actually called sports week and most people go skiing.

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We call it the ski holiday in Finland, because that's what people do during it. So much so, that they have to stagger it over 3 weeks so more people get a chance to visit the ski resorts (not us though, my poor kids are stuck with cross country skiing at home Grin)

Natsku · 22/07/2025 14:46

Lmnop22 · 22/07/2025 13:31

Now you’re just being deliberately obtuse.

Of course children need a break from constant schooling. Of course it needs to be taken into account when assessing the length of those breaks that some children will really struggle in low income families.

The correct striking of the balance is 6 weeks.

6 weeks is a long time! Really don’t know why you would want more (except of course that you’re a teacher and want to work less!)

Why is 6 weeks striking the right balance? What do you base that on? Are other countries not striking the right balance then?

Lmnop22 · 22/07/2025 14:36

noblegiraffe · 22/07/2025 13:37

I love the idea that '6 weeks is a reasonable amount of time for vulnerable children to be left with their unsuitable families but 8 weeks is just too much'

Like, is that assertion backed up by any evidence? How do all the other countries with the longer holidays manage? Do Irish children just need a longer break than English children?

Or does it just happen that '6 weeks is the reasonable balance' because that's what we currently have and have always had?

It’s not that 6 weeks is a reasonable time for children to be left with their unsuitable families, but it’s impossible to have school all year just to protect those children. It’s also unreasonable not to allow other children breaks because some others are vulnerable.

The trick is to have empathy with those vulnerable children and try to keep their time away from school minimal and also have empathy with students and teachers who need a well deserved break.

When you balance those things, 6 weeks seems fair to me - not because I think vulnerable children are fine for 6 weeks but not 7 and not because I think children aren’t deserving of holidays not because 6 weeks is what it is (when I was a child I had 9 weeks summer holiday so it isn’t even the norm for me) but because the decision makers have to do their best with all the factors given appropriate weight to come to compromise.

You clearly place your own desire to have two months off your job (no other equally high pressured jobs get anything like that!) over empathising with the fact that longer breaks are detrimental to some children.

Katiesaidthat · 22/07/2025 14:10

I grew up in Spain and absolutely loved the break from June to September. I like that my daughter gets to experience that too. A true break from school. She is off from 20 June to 7 September.

Poppins21 · 22/07/2025 14:08

chocorabbit · 22/07/2025 11:58

OP, you only need to read the endless threads on here to see that many grandparents refuse to provide childcare because they prioritise their social life and going on holidays and England is neither France nor Spain or Italy in terms of family relationships. It's lovely to read how other countries and LAs organise childcare for working parents.

I really can't see the point of having half terms. It takes children time to settle in school and get a routine each school year and then after only 6 weeks let's interrupt it. Especially in February the weather is bad and you can't do any outdoor activities. And of course schools don't treat half terms as holidays! Children are given endless homework and are expected to study for GCSEs, A-levels, mocks etc. And teachers end up using them for marking so they are not actually holidays for them either.

The February half term came from private schools for skiing holidays. In Scandinavian it is actually called sports week and most people go skiing.

MrsHamlet · 22/07/2025 14:01

But there are real dangers for kids at risk of neglect in term time too. Because even when they're in school and we're flagging it with other services, no one intervenes until there is a crisis.

DuesToTheDirt · 22/07/2025 14:00

noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 09:29

Does anyone know how much annual leave people get in other countries? How do the Irish cover it, for example?

It's obviously a problem in Italy, where the childbirth rate has declined drastically.

"We get monthly cheques but we need practical support, too, like free summer camps for the children," she says, pointing to the three-month school holiday from June that can be a nightmare for parents who work.

"The government wants a bigger population but at the same time, they're not helping," Eleanora says.

"How can we have more babies in this situation?"

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y76483200o

Valentina, a woman with dark hair and glasses, holds a baby in a pink jumper

'The village will die' - Italy looks for answers to decline in number of babies

The government wants to encourage women to have babies but Italians say they need greater help.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y76483200o

AppropriateAdult · 22/07/2025 13:54

From an Irish perspective (9 weeks summer holidays in primary school and 13 weeks in secondary), I think that because the primary school day is a bit shorter and most schools don’t offer wraparound care, there’s less of a reliance on schools for childcare in a general sense. Families with two working parents need to have non-school-related childcare set up, whether that be with grandparents, a childminder or a crèche, and those arrangements often just continue through the summer.

As a parent - and having been a child here - I love our long summer holidays. But I do accept there are real dangers for kids who may be at risk of neglect.

noblegiraffe · 22/07/2025 13:37

Lmnop22 · 22/07/2025 13:31

Now you’re just being deliberately obtuse.

Of course children need a break from constant schooling. Of course it needs to be taken into account when assessing the length of those breaks that some children will really struggle in low income families.

The correct striking of the balance is 6 weeks.

6 weeks is a long time! Really don’t know why you would want more (except of course that you’re a teacher and want to work less!)

I love the idea that '6 weeks is a reasonable amount of time for vulnerable children to be left with their unsuitable families but 8 weeks is just too much'

Like, is that assertion backed up by any evidence? How do all the other countries with the longer holidays manage? Do Irish children just need a longer break than English children?

Or does it just happen that '6 weeks is the reasonable balance' because that's what we currently have and have always had?

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Lmnop22 · 22/07/2025 13:31

noblegiraffe · 22/07/2025 08:57

Oh, so you don't care about social inequity? Vulnerable kids are left to rot over the 6 weeks and you are happy with that?

etc etc etc.

Now you’re just being deliberately obtuse.

Of course children need a break from constant schooling. Of course it needs to be taken into account when assessing the length of those breaks that some children will really struggle in low income families.

The correct striking of the balance is 6 weeks.

6 weeks is a long time! Really don’t know why you would want more (except of course that you’re a teacher and want to work less!)

Sophiehoney · 22/07/2025 13:10

noblegiraffe · 22/07/2025 13:09

Here you go!

Thank you, Miss 😀

Needmorelego · 22/07/2025 13:09

@noblegiraffe sorry I missed your countdown question....lost my phone signal for a bit so didn't see it.

noblegiraffe · 22/07/2025 13:09

Sophiehoney · 22/07/2025 13:06

I'd like a sticker please 😁

Here you go!

Summer holidays should be longer
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Needmorelego · 22/07/2025 13:07

MrsHamlet · 22/07/2025 12:58

I don't agree. They have 190 days with experts. Our job is to increase their expertise.
The "fun".... that's for their parents to deal with.

Yes but the over stuffed English curriculum is causing massive anxiety issues for those taking GCSEs and reading for pleasure levels are down for teenagers.
Not your fault. You teach what you've got to teach.
I have HUGE respect for teachers ♥️