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Summer holidays should be longer

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noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 09:24

Our kids have the shortest summer holidays in Europe, Italy have 13 weeks, even Ireland has 9.

They're under pressure so much at school they need more time to just be kids. Classrooms are so hot in the last few weeks of term that it's impossible to learn effectively anyway.

I think we should add at least an extra two weeks to the summer holidays, so break up near the start of July. This would bring us more into line with private schools too.

And with longer holidays it might help recruit and retain teachers, and reduce competition for summer annual leave slots for working parents. It could even reduce the cost of holidays as 'peak season' would be longer.

Summer holidays should be longer
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nam3c4ang3 · 21/07/2025 11:38

We get almost two months for summer amongst all the other holidays - December, October etc etc - it’s far TOO much, my kids are so bored and it costs us a absolute fortune for clubs, we don’t get much work holiday and we both travel for work - summer is especially busy - what do you propose we do op?

irregularegular · 21/07/2025 11:36

verycloakanddaggers · 21/07/2025 10:02

Oh no no no!

Feb and Oct are both fab, and long terms very unhealthy for kids. The wait from Christmas to Easter would be sooo long.

I agree! Much better to have a break at half term rather than a very long summer holiday. LIttle and often is much more helpful!

Postre · 21/07/2025 11:35

diterictur · 21/07/2025 11:20

I don't think returning to the past where women lacked economic agency and were SAHMs is desirable personally..

I think the evidence on summer learning loss is quite significant. It has to be balanced against other things and on balance 6 weeks seems fair but I certainly don't think the evidence that families want/need longer holidays is there.

Obviously your position as someone who gets all the holidays off makes you highly unbiased here

'Getting all the holidays off' isn't the point. Teachers have no more paid holiday entitlement than other workers. They just aren't contracted or paid to work at those times. It's fundamentally a part time job, but not 3 days a week etc, 195 days a year.

If you want to shorten pupils' holidays, you'd be requesting an increase in school contact time, which would cost far more in school staff salaries. So if childcare costs are the concern, you'd be better off not asking a qualified teacher to be the one to take it on!

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 11:34

TiswasPhantomFlanFlinger · 21/07/2025 11:28

@noblegiraffe
Private school parents get slightly cheaper holiday deals as they break up a couple of weeks earlier than state, but schools in Scotland and Northern Ireland break up at the end of June so demand will have already increased for holiday accommodation, even if it’s not peaked for flights from England and Wales.

They break up earlier cos school day is longer! My DD finishes school at 5pm hence longer holidays.
There would be uproar if state schools finished at 5pm.

irregularegular · 21/07/2025 11:34

6 weeks is enough - i'm in Germany, the country is so big that each federal state starts and ends the summer holiday at a different time, they stagger it to lessen the effects on industry etc. (the factories that close down for summer maintenance, afaik, time it to coincide with the start or end of holiday in their state, to help the parents out)

They stagger holidays in the Netherlands too, which is much smaller than the UK. It's probably a good idea.

I don't think holidays should be longer. As others have said, they have detrimental effects on children from poorer backgrounds.

Jellyrollquiltmom · 21/07/2025 11:33

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Jellyrollquiltmom · 21/07/2025 11:33

II’m in Italy and the 3 month summer holidays are a way of life. It’s where the multigenerational families work best.
Kids go to grandparents, cousins, nearby family second homes close enough for one of the parents to commute and the other to stay with the children and cousins.

Factories are often closed for two weeks around August 15th (Ferragosto) and in our case we tagged on a third week before or after. Unpaid leave was also an option.
We used a local Catholic Oratorio (well safeguarded youth clubs) for the first month where all religions were accepted and participants were expected to then be youth leaders at 16+. That got them work experience points towards their final exams. The youth leaders were given a week in a scouting activity centre as a reward.
Study holidays abroad are popular for learning languages. Mine did music camp in the Alps and if the parents are under a certain income the INPS (social security) offers scholarships and similar activities.

For me, the most important aspect is that 3 months gives the children time to build an alternative lifestyle. There is school life and summer life. They dive into a healthier outdoorsy routine with family connections, a break from school stress. Ok, worst case scenario is that they fester in front of screens but it’s just not expected. And school insists on a reading list or activity book.

When I was a kid in the UK I used to cry with boredom by the 5th week, even with a SAHM. I’d lost my routine and would just mope around the house. It got better when I could bike to see friends or go into town but school was my main source of stimulation.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 21/07/2025 11:32

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This statement always gets an outing on these threads.

However in the real world of working parents, school is a form of childcare. Without sending DC to the free fo all state school DH & I wouldn't have been able to go to work and earn the money to keep a roof over DC'S head, food on the table and clothes on their backs.

MrsSunshine2b · 21/07/2025 11:30

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 10:14

What fab about being stuck at home because the weather is crap and many places like amusement parks are closed (because they can't run rides in crappy weather)?
I remember from ages 9 upwards being given homework or projects to do over the half terms to "stop us getting bored". I remember thinking if they don't want us to be bored we may as well be in school.

There are a lot of countries with much worse weather who spend a lot more time outdoors. I do agree there should be more on in October and February, although amusement parks aren't the way to go. A lot of parents (me included) aren't really sure what to do outside with kids, especially if it's rainy and park equipment is slippery and unsafe. I'd like some more forest school provision to be available, and/or perhaps some educational sessions on how parents can spend time with children outdoors in bad weather. I like to go for a walk, but my 5 yo spends the whole time saying she's tired, bored, and wants to be carried.

LittleBitofBread · 21/07/2025 11:29

Mitara · 21/07/2025 09:59

God thats a long time ago. I think she was with my dad at that stage and she gave up work for one year.

Then she went back to work, and i think she put us with a summer childminder for a while

These are not possibilities/options for everyone.

Imbusytodaysorry · 21/07/2025 11:29

@noblegiraffe i love the summer holidays .
All kids need the break .
We start end of June start of July and go back mid August anyway.
school holidays are fine just as they are.
Seen a lot of schools messing around with the 2 week October break we get here and I love that break too.

TiswasPhantomFlanFlinger · 21/07/2025 11:28

@noblegiraffe
Private school parents get slightly cheaper holiday deals as they break up a couple of weeks earlier than state, but schools in Scotland and Northern Ireland break up at the end of June so demand will have already increased for holiday accommodation, even if it’s not peaked for flights from England and Wales.

BlackCatGreyWhiskers · 21/07/2025 11:28

Melassa · 21/07/2025 10:01

In northern Italy for childcare there are council run play schemes, which run the entire summer and which are only accessible if both parents working (up here most do!), or similar but more costly private ones, or else church run Oratori, which are run out of a space next to a church and manned by church helpers and unregulated and inexpert teens. But it is cheap (around €20/25 a week plus extra if going on a trip) and runs all day. However, it only runs to mid July. Thereafter relatives are roped in where possible, if not there are childcare swaps or you pay a babysitter.

in Italy it’s 13 weeks because:

  • we have no half terms
  • Easter holidays are only 4 days long
  • Christmas is a bit longer as we have epiphany here but we break up very late in December
  • it’s too bloody hot to sit in a classroom from June onwards and there is a national aversion to air conditioning

I would much rather holiday was split throughout the year, 13 weeks is interminable. But then we’d still have issue of the heat.

Ironically in the UK the funded play schemes are for those not working…! Because in the UK those unemployed seem least equipped to look after their children.

Poppins21 · 21/07/2025 11:27

Natsku · 21/07/2025 09:49

In Finland where school summer holidays are 10 weeks, annual leave is 5 weeks but one of those weeks has to be taken in winter usually so its 4 weeks in the summer so even if both parents don't overlap their leave you can't cover all of it. Most children will just be home alone at least part of the holidays (apart from those 7 and under who can go to nursery for the holidays) unless they have local grandparents who can provide childcare and people are generally OK with that. Though in some cities they can go to supervised playgrounds every day for free and get a free lunch but elsewhere there's nothing except a week or so of camp run by churches and sports clubs but at very reasonable prices.

I agree the summer holidays in the UK are way too short, and not good for the children or the teachers.

Does Finland not have “fritids” like in Sweden? The schools provide before and after school clubs during term time and in holiday time it’s clubs all day. The only time it’s closed in July and bank holidays like Christmas Day - so everyone gets 4 weeks together and it’s capoed at £120 (ish) a month but for low income families it’s free. Being a “fritids” teacher is a different job to being a regular teacher and is treated differently. The children get a hot school lunch just lunch at school- though more salad than in the winter. This system may fix many of the issues PP have raised.

Flocke · 21/07/2025 11:26

noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 11:15

You'd need to convince me that what kids really need is more school, rather than parents need better childcare options and employers who offer more flexibility.

Or indeed lower costs so that parents don't need to both work full time just to live.

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What flexibility should ALL employers offer? (Not talking about just office jobs here)

Switcher · 21/07/2025 11:25

We'd love it because one of us is a SAHP. Other families, not so much!

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 11:25

autumn1610 · 21/07/2025 11:24

@noblegiraffe what I haven’t seen you address is people telling you the total time off is roughly the same give or take. So your say 8 weeks…are you then suggesting that the 2 weeks are taken from another term? Say drop 2 half terms? Or are you saying add on 2 weeks and keep the same? Certain countries shut down industry over the summer and everyone has the same weeks off etc which clearly will help with childcare, there’s so many variants.

Because as a teacher they want more holidays!

SallyD00lally · 21/07/2025 11:25

OP, a lot of your replies are 'Well perhaps the government should do this' and 'Well perhaps the government should do that' etc.

Mental health issues, poverty, rising youth crime rates, childcare etc are all 'perhaps'.

The truth is while all of those things are still a problem, all the 'perhaps' in the world isn't going to help.

So no, the school Summer holidays shouldn't be lengthened until such a time when you can stop saying 'perhaps'.

autumn1610 · 21/07/2025 11:24

@noblegiraffe what I haven’t seen you address is people telling you the total time off is roughly the same give or take. So your say 8 weeks…are you then suggesting that the 2 weeks are taken from another term? Say drop 2 half terms? Or are you saying add on 2 weeks and keep the same? Certain countries shut down industry over the summer and everyone has the same weeks off etc which clearly will help with childcare, there’s so many variants.

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 11:24

amusedbush · 21/07/2025 11:23

I get 33 days annual leave, plus 12 bank holidays.

I work in an FE college (non-teaching role).

Because you work in a college 🙄 most people get 20-25 days + 8 bank holidays. With young children it's a nightmare even with 2 parents in the household, with only 1 it must be impossible

amusedbush · 21/07/2025 11:23

CrownCoats · 21/07/2025 09:42

Are You saying that most people get 34 days annual leave? I don’t know anyone who gets that much.

I get 33 days annual leave, plus 12 bank holidays.

I work in an FE college (non-teaching role).

Confusdworriedmum · 21/07/2025 11:23

I'm a bit torn on this. When my DDs were young I would have loved 8 weeks with them (I also think they should have an extra week at Christmas). Now having a DS with severe autism I am wishing the holiday was shorter. He thrives on routine and loves school. He's already had a meltdown today due to routine change.
Genuinely thought I do think summer holidays should be longer. The kids always seem so knackered by half term.

Junioh · 21/07/2025 11:23

I think the school holiday system is about right in the UK. They get regular breaks and the summer is a decent length to have a proper break but not too long. If anything I'd say maybe add a week to May half term and take it away from Easter or summer to compensate, but beyond that I think it's ok. Ideally you want a good chunk of holiday time between May and September when the weather is at its best.

DS's secondary school has just moved to having 3 weeks at Christmas (to compensate for teachers having to deliver an enrichment programme on Wednesdays throughout the school year). To be honest I'm not looking forward to it, it seems just about the worst time of year to have such a long break and we won't be able to take anymore time off work. I understand that the autumn term is a long term, but I think 2 weeks is enough time to be well rested. If they really had to add an extra weeks holiday to the autumn term they could at least have put it in October when the weather is better and there are more holiday options.

Ladamesansmerci · 21/07/2025 11:21

I'm all for it if we get an extra couple of weeks annual leave a year!

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