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Summer holidays should be longer

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noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 09:24

Our kids have the shortest summer holidays in Europe, Italy have 13 weeks, even Ireland has 9.

They're under pressure so much at school they need more time to just be kids. Classrooms are so hot in the last few weeks of term that it's impossible to learn effectively anyway.

I think we should add at least an extra two weeks to the summer holidays, so break up near the start of July. This would bring us more into line with private schools too.

And with longer holidays it might help recruit and retain teachers, and reduce competition for summer annual leave slots for working parents. It could even reduce the cost of holidays as 'peak season' would be longer.

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Natsku · 21/07/2025 12:29

Poppins21 · 21/07/2025 11:27

Does Finland not have “fritids” like in Sweden? The schools provide before and after school clubs during term time and in holiday time it’s clubs all day. The only time it’s closed in July and bank holidays like Christmas Day - so everyone gets 4 weeks together and it’s capoed at £120 (ish) a month but for low income families it’s free. Being a “fritids” teacher is a different job to being a regular teacher and is treated differently. The children get a hot school lunch just lunch at school- though more salad than in the winter. This system may fix many of the issues PP have raised.

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No we don't have fritids. There's the supervised playgrounds in some cities which are really good because they're free, they're outside and active, and they provide lunch (there's also some parks that provide lunch to any children that turn up with a plate) but in towns and rural areas there's nothing for children of 1st grade age and older (except for those with significant SEN, they're eligible for holiday care throughout childhood). The expectation is that they look after themselves and generally that works alright.

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 12:28

diterictur · 21/07/2025 12:26

Which was really obvious from the start.

Only a teacher would start a thread which is basically - wouldn't it be better for children everywhere if I got longer holidays?

But yet OP doesn't respond to suggestions about having a longer working day to enable that extra holiday 🙄

diterictur · 21/07/2025 12:26

Legomania · 21/07/2025 12:20

Op is a teacher

Which was really obvious from the start.

Only a teacher would start a thread which is basically - wouldn't it be better for children everywhere if I got longer holidays?

Mitara · 21/07/2025 12:24

I did love the long summer holidays in ireland.

Why do the UK have so much shorter summer holidays than everywhere else.

Was a reason ever given for it?

DonnaBanana · 21/07/2025 12:24

In primary maybe but in secondary no. In secondary they should be getting used to an adult rhythm of life. School should be 8 hours Monday-Fri and perhaps six weeks off a year in total with the extra time being used to get them ready for adult life. At least they don’t have to go to school on Saturdays like in some countries..

indoorplantqueen · 21/07/2025 12:22

I’m in NI and dc broke up Thursday 26th June and goes back 29th August. We love it and it flies in. I work TTO though. They also get one week in Oct, 2 at Xmas, one in feb and 2 at Easter. We don’t get anything in May, though sometimes a teacher training day after a BH.
my dc is older now but when younger and I wasn’t working TTO I took 2 weeks unpaid parental leave in summer, then did childcare swaps with friends or family flew over to help.
In NI lots of my friends work part time and they have grandparents to help.

DinaofCloud9 · 21/07/2025 12:21

Zezet · 21/07/2025 11:46

The Western European country where I currently live has nine weeks summer holidays and big participation of mothers in the work force (three months maternity leave and then habitually daycare, too).

The local council organises child care. It's open every day, from 9-17 with early shift from 7.30 late shift until 19. Places are in theory limited but in practice not oversubscribed. It costs 7,5 euros per child per day from four years on, and for my younger child I think it's 10 euros a day. I think you can also partly withdraw the cost from taxes (moved here quite recently so hasn't come up yet for me). There's reduced prices for some but I don't know as I pay "full" price.

As half the town goes, they don't complain because they see their friends. It's basically teenagers supervising kids with adults supervising the teenagers. They play outside a lot but also have crafting and so on. You bring your own packed lunch and two snacks.

It's really easy to sort childcare if your society is geared towards women working!

What country is this?

Legomania · 21/07/2025 12:20

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 21/07/2025 12:12

Do you work op?

Op is a teacher

SallyD00lally · 21/07/2025 12:17

MumWifeOther · 21/07/2025 12:15

Yes I completely agree with you. For the benefit of the children.

I think 8 weeks off would be much better - the whole of July & August. For the parents who will struggle with childcare, I think the government should provide free childcare clubs / summer camps that can be used for the 2 weeks they would be in school. Only those with 2 parents working full time / single working parents should be able to access these and the emphasis should be on free play / fun.

If the kids are going to have to spend another 2 weeks in clubs and Summer camps, they may as well be in school.

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 12:17

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 12:13

Ah so completely tear up the current education system? Yeh that's going to happen

Oh that's my dream.....so much we could change 😕

RosesAndHellebores · 21/07/2025 12:17

MumWifeOther · 21/07/2025 12:15

Yes I completely agree with you. For the benefit of the children.

I think 8 weeks off would be much better - the whole of July & August. For the parents who will struggle with childcare, I think the government should provide free childcare clubs / summer camps that can be used for the 2 weeks they would be in school. Only those with 2 parents working full time / single working parents should be able to access these and the emphasis should be on free play / fun.

A bit like Camp Beaumont, which both of children hated.

Schoolsout7 · 21/07/2025 12:17

mrsm43s · 21/07/2025 11:03

I think if we're doing what's best for the children, their mental health and their learning, then shorter terms and more frequent 2 or 3 week holidays would be better than an 8 week summer holiday and the rest of the year being long terms with minimal breaks, surely?

Plus, I don't really understand how it would help to recruit teachers by adding an extra two weeks of unpaid holiday to the year? They already bitterly complain about their salary, reducing it by a further 2 weeks pay is unlikely to help.

Yes, this. My DD (AuDHD) really struggles with school. I think if she knew she had a break after 4/5 weeks, she could cope better. To her, a couple of weeks is not too different to six weeks and actually, probably struggles more with the longer holiday due to lack of routine and gets bored easily.

MumWifeOther · 21/07/2025 12:15

Yes I completely agree with you. For the benefit of the children.

I think 8 weeks off would be much better - the whole of July & August. For the parents who will struggle with childcare, I think the government should provide free childcare clubs / summer camps that can be used for the 2 weeks they would be in school. Only those with 2 parents working full time / single working parents should be able to access these and the emphasis should be on free play / fun.

MellowPinkDeer · 21/07/2025 12:14

florenceandthemac · 21/07/2025 12:06

Sorry, I have just seen that you are a teacher, so that explains it. You have never tried to juggle school holiday childcare.
It would be lovely to say "school is not childcare" but unfortunately, in 2025, not many families can afford to only have one parent in employment. Childcare during school holidays is difficult to plan and expensive.
The population would surely deplete if the only couples reproducing were those who could afford to have one parent stay at home for the first 12 years of the child's life, or teachers

I wonder if the OP would be so keen if teachers pay was cut. They always claim that they are only paid for the same amount of leave as everyone else, and not paid over the extended breaks. so if they have longer holidays then surely they will need to have their pay cut accordingly? Really, if they are only paid for term time plus the standard entitlement of everyone else, they are highly paid compared to other public sector jobs anyway!

RosesAndHellebores · 21/07/2025 12:14

@noblegiraffe I don't disagree and loved the summer holidays. Our DC were in the independent sector and broke up early July, going back usually after the August Bank Holiday. They also had two weeks in October which was brilliant in the longest and hardest term. On that basis I agree with you but they also had:

An au-pair
A week with granny at the seaside, crabbing and leading a shallows and amazon's life
Access to one-off the best tennis/sports clubs in the UK with a pool, tennis and cricket courses, etc
A house full of books
Theatre workshops
Trips to the South Ken museums and others in London
Painting/theatre classes
Music and orchestral camps
A month at our home in France - sailing, swimming and immersing in French

The above were also available at Christmas and Easter. Overall their holidays were enriching and learning never stopped.

The school days were also longer - in at 8.30, out at 3.45 with sports or music practices at least three times a week, evening matches and matches nearly every Saturday for the sporty one; orchestras, choirs, productions for the musical/theatrical one.

I'm not persuaded that more time gaming and hanging about on the top floor of the local car park cut quite the same opportunities.

DD is a teacher, secondary, and moving to the independent sector next year. Partly for the longer holidays and partly due to the levels of neglect around education for her pupils.

Longer holidays are fine but the activities to full them need to be there and accessible.

Statutory UK A/L is 20 days plus 8 Bank Holidays. It is a real struggle for parents.

Worriedmum67 · 21/07/2025 12:13

noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 09:29

Does anyone know how much annual leave people get in other countries? How do the Irish cover it, for example?

in other countries grandparents help with childcare during summer holidays.

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 12:13

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 12:09

Learn things for the sake of learning it - not to just memorise for an exam 🤔

Ah so completely tear up the current education system? Yeh that's going to happen

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 21/07/2025 12:12

Do you work op?

diterictur · 21/07/2025 12:10

Postre · 21/07/2025 11:53

I think the fact is that having to 'cover the school holidays' has become the general way of understanding parenting your child is the problem. It shouldn't be about shorter pupil holidays for that convenience of working adults - it should be about government and employers supporting parents to spend time bringing up their children themselves.

It's not for schools to fill that gap. There are too many posts on here saying that kids regress, need the routine, many go hungry, aren't safe etc. None of that would be the case if parents were willing and able to look after them properly and home life was seen to be important, and education supplemented this.

I don't think women (let's be honest, you said parents but it would be women) leaving the workplace and having less economic agency is a good thing so, no, I don't support the idea that we should encourage it.

I'm sorry the term "cover the holidays" offends you. But children need childcare and it needs arranging. I can assure you that mine are very much parented and loved.

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 12:09

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 11:54

How would that work ie you would sit GCSEs in winter and then do what for 7 months?

Learn things for the sake of learning it - not to just memorise for an exam 🤔

Purplepostit · 21/07/2025 12:08

Natsku · 21/07/2025 09:49

In Finland where school summer holidays are 10 weeks, annual leave is 5 weeks but one of those weeks has to be taken in winter usually so its 4 weeks in the summer so even if both parents don't overlap their leave you can't cover all of it. Most children will just be home alone at least part of the holidays (apart from those 7 and under who can go to nursery for the holidays) unless they have local grandparents who can provide childcare and people are generally OK with that. Though in some cities they can go to supervised playgrounds every day for free and get a free lunch but elsewhere there's nothing except a week or so of camp run by churches and sports clubs but at very reasonable prices.

I agree the summer holidays in the UK are way too short, and not good for the children or the teachers.

@Natsku that’s interesting. So most people accept that 8 year olds and up will be at home alone whilst parents work but that you think it’s preferable to having shorter holidays, why is that exactly?

TheSunnyRedHedgehog · 21/07/2025 12:07

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 09:58

I think the October and February half terms are kind of pointless as the weather is often rubbish and there's not much to do other than hang around at home.
I would scrap them - add a week to Christmas and a week to summer.
To be controversial maybe even get rid of the May one so the summer hols is 8 weeks.
So 3 weeks at Christmas (with at least a week before the 25th off - none of this breaking up on the 23rd nonsense), 2 at Easter, 8 for the summer.
Or.... Keep the October one, 3 at Christmas, 1 and a half at Easter (because Easter covers a long weekend), 1 in May and 7 and a half for the summer.

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My ideal:

scrap October and May half term, they can be long weekends indeed (a Monday off or a Friday off) for example one close to the 5th November and May has already got two bank holidays so that’s ok?

Christmas from 19-20 December to 7-8 January

February one a long weekend with a Monday and Friday off

Easter nearly 2 weeks (Wednesday before Great Friday should be last day of school and open Monday after Easter, so 1 week and 1 day after Easter, not 2 days after Easter )

End of school year till 20 June max
Even if that means be back on 20 August.

But have 8 weeks off for summer.

florenceandthemac · 21/07/2025 12:06

Sorry, I have just seen that you are a teacher, so that explains it. You have never tried to juggle school holiday childcare.
It would be lovely to say "school is not childcare" but unfortunately, in 2025, not many families can afford to only have one parent in employment. Childcare during school holidays is difficult to plan and expensive.
The population would surely deplete if the only couples reproducing were those who could afford to have one parent stay at home for the first 12 years of the child's life, or teachers

StripyHorse · 21/07/2025 12:05

What we do need, is subsidised childcare throughout the school holidays.

It was less of an issue when I was a child as mums (it is usually mums) were more likely to stay at home, or have very part time jobs. You could own a house and run a car on one salary. The school holidays have remained the same, but the expectations around work have changed.
Grandparents are less able to help than previously due to not being able to retire / more families moving away from parents / people having children later in life - you have a perfect storm making it difficult for families.

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 12:05

Delphiniumandlupins · 21/07/2025 11:39

We used to go picking strawberries and raspberries in the summer holidays and tattie picking in October. Was bloody hard work though.

Bring back Hop Picking.
Work and a holiday combined.