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Do you think Jack would of survived if Rose got on the life boat (the second time)

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Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 13:25

Watched Titanic last night and it got me wondering if Rose got on the life boat, do you think Jack odds of survival was better without Rose?
do you think she held him back a little as he is a resourceful guy, I think he would of found a way to get on a boat.
this was after she rescued him from being handcuffed to the pipe of course.

Also If they both did survive, do you think they would of stayed together?

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yallahbye · 21/07/2025 18:48

Cattery · 21/07/2025 18:14

Consider yourself stoned 😱

😫fair enough 😆

Cattery · 21/07/2025 18:14

Consider yourself stoned 😱

yallahbye · 21/07/2025 18:09

Cattery · 21/07/2025 16:52

She was miscast. Just my opinion

I don’t think she was miscast at all but just not such a great love match with Leo. They pull it off though because the whole film is great. I would say that it’s more like Leo who was miscast? ..but I know that millions of fans would stone me to death for saying this.

Cattery · 21/07/2025 16:52

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 16:45

Kate Winslet was 21 when it was filmed - not really very different to being 17.

She was miscast. Just my opinion

FanMeNowPatrick · 21/07/2025 16:50

Have you seen a deleted scene where she is seen holding the necklace over the water and they try to talk her out of dropping it? Feast your eyes

James Cameron also said the script said Jack dies, so Jack always dies no matter what size the door was etc.

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Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 16:45

Cattery · 21/07/2025 16:40

I quite like the film but I’ve never been able to get over the dreadful casting of Kate Winslet as a 17 year old. Utterly ridiculous. No chemistry between her and Leo (who I love in everything). A total mismatch which spoils it all

Kate Winslet was 21 when it was filmed - not really very different to being 17.

Cattery · 21/07/2025 16:40

I quite like the film but I’ve never been able to get over the dreadful casting of Kate Winslet as a 17 year old. Utterly ridiculous. No chemistry between her and Leo (who I love in everything). A total mismatch which spoils it all

Spindleweed · 21/07/2025 16:08

Dontlletmedownbruce · 20/07/2025 20:16

There was a thread here a whole back about how young Rose's mother was. It didn't occur to her to remarry into a wealthy family although she was only in her 40s. It was a funny thread about random titanic trivia from what I recall.

But brutally, she wasn’t much of a ‘catch’ on the contemporary marital scene. No money, as presumably her husband/Rose’s father left little or no money to settle on his widow and daughter, and, as divorce was both still very difficult and considered socially impossible, she’d probably have been looking for an older widower who, if he were rich, could have married a younger woman, especially if he wanted more children. Marrying Rose off was a more sensible financial option, until Rose screws it all up.

Look at Edith Wharton’s The Hoise of Mirth, set only a few years earlier. Lily Bart, who has grown up in riches but is orphaned and impoverished at 20, is on the shelf and increasingly desperate to marry at 29.

ginasevern · 21/07/2025 15:30

YankSplaining · 20/07/2025 23:37

He was orphaned when he was fifteen, and we never hear about any siblings or other relatives.

Ah, OK. I obviously wasn't paying attention when he said that bit!

Internaut · 21/07/2025 00:13

Nannerlmoz · 20/07/2025 23:14

I watched last night too and I was quite surprised by how the sinking looked a
bit rubbish compared to how I recall it when I first saw the film. I get it’s 20+ years old now but it just looked like it what it was, a studio, and a special effect. That aside, still enjoyed the film.

Edited

Agree. I still think A Night to Remember is a better film, despite being black and white and having cost a fraction of what was spent on Titanic.

powershowerforanhour · 20/07/2025 23:52

Rose had a full length wool coat and a life jacket on for insulation and was still barely able to whistle for help. Jack was in shirt sleeves, no life jacket. Granted women have a greater SA:volume ratio than men (and Kate Winslet is shorter than Leo) and lose heat faster despite their body fat content....but the clothing would have outweighed that. He would have passed out and died of hypothermia, even on the door.

Imuptoolate · 20/07/2025 23:47

I always thought she dropped the necklace into the water because she didn’t want anyone to find it, as it was her secret between her and Jack that she didn’t want revealed.

Presumably they weren’t going back down to the Titanic to look for it again and if she had died with it still in her possession then someone would have found it when sorting through her belongings.

bridgetsbum · 20/07/2025 23:39

Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 23:35

@bridgetsbum she threw it in the ocean so the guy from the Britney Spears video could go down and get it for her.

Ha I forgot about that song. Memory unlocked.

Just been down a rabbit hole of theories about the necklace. Lots of people saying it was for closure and to let go of the past and embrace a new life which doesn’t seem right given that she dies that very night.

YankSplaining · 20/07/2025 23:37

ginasevern · 20/07/2025 15:53

I've often wondered why Rose didn't visit Chippewa Falls and inform Jack's family of his death. He wouldn't have been registered as a passenger on the Titanic so they would never have known what happened to him. But she did seem pretty selfish tbh.

He was orphaned when he was fifteen, and we never hear about any siblings or other relatives.

Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 23:35

@bridgetsbum she threw it in the ocean so the guy from the Britney Spears video could go down and get it for her.

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YankSplaining · 20/07/2025 23:35

Jack’s priority was Rose’s survival and well-being, so I don’t think he would have focused on saving himself unless he knew she was entirely out of danger. As for whether they would have stayed together - no idea, but if they’d broken up, I think they would have stayed friends.

RiverGod · 20/07/2025 23:24

I’ve said it before and I’ll say again, why didn’t he break some of the doors off, lash them together to make a raft and put life jackets under for buoyancy? Then float out to the life boats.

I reckon they’d have lasted though, Rose had an adventurer’s spirit!

bridgetsbum · 20/07/2025 23:19

Devonshiregal · 20/07/2025 17:54

No I totally agree with you. She would’ve been bored and fed up within two days. What would they have done together? She’d have been an outcast in society too really wouldn’t she…not like her mum and dad would’ve had ol’ Jack round for dinner or a trip to the theatre is it?

Although from what I remember she had a pretty unimpressively average house as an old lady didn’t she? So was she supposed to have married an average non wealthy man - you know to show she learned from Jack and didn’t go back to the fancy life?

and yes, I always felt sorry for her husband. and the daughter was such a twit with no loyalty to her late father, encouraging her mother’s reminiscing crap.

Hadn’t thought about her mother! And the poor researcher who listened to her waffling on for hours only for her to get rid of that tacky necklace in the sea! She could’ve done a bunch of good with that or at least let him have it - must’ve cost him a lot of sacrifice to get that research trip together, even if he was a bit slimes.

omg I’ve overthought this too

I don’t think the class issue would have been such a problem. Although Rose was higher class, she wasn’t in the same league as Cal and she was bored and unhappy in that circle of people. That’s why she fell for Jack, he showed her another way of life.

I know everyone moans about the ending - her meeting him in heaven and what about her dh and father of her kids - but I always took that to mean that Jack was the one she would have been with if he hadn’t died. She went on and lived her life for him as she said she would and when they reunite in the afterlife it’s with happiness because she fulfilled her promise to him.

I still don’t fully understand why she threw the necklace in the ocean at the end. Maybe she thought it would cause more trouble and greed? Never did grasp that one.

Nannerlmoz · 20/07/2025 23:14

I watched last night too and I was quite surprised by how the sinking looked a
bit rubbish compared to how I recall it when I first saw the film. I get it’s 20+ years old now but it just looked like it what it was, a studio, and a special effect. That aside, still enjoyed the film.

Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 23:11

@BrickBiscuiti know I could kick myself now, oh well too late now I suppose

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Lorddenning1 · 20/07/2025 23:10

@Dontlletmedownbruce do you happen to have the link for that, I would be very interested is that thread.

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BrickBiscuit · 20/07/2025 22:59

@Lorddenning1- sorry to be pedantic, but I don't think Lord Denning 'would have' made the mistake that appears in your OP title.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 20/07/2025 21:35

I always thought Rose was a bit slutty if I'm honest. Shagging someone she hardly knew in the back seat of someone's car. Reckless too, its not like she was on the pill!

Toddlerteaplease · 20/07/2025 21:06

@MeringueOutangand when she became an actress, surely someone would have recognised her.

latetothefisting · 20/07/2025 21:06

Minesril · 20/07/2025 18:06

Even if he had survived, he would’ve been killed in WW1.

why?
you do know the majority of men who fought weren't killed?
and that's the actual allies involved throughout the war, not americans who didn't get involved until the end.