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To ask if you have ever solved parking on zig-zag lines issues at your school?

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JacquesHarlow · 20/07/2025 10:39

I am genuinely trying to understand why there is so much disregard from drivers for our school markings (zig zag lines asking to "keep clear"). The disregard for the lines happens during drop-off and pick up on the school run, when the council have placed a sign above the lines explicitly stating that they should be kept clear at these times.

In the last month I have seen

  • Someone swoop in over the markings while indicating left. Then sitting there with the engine running for 3 mins, still indicating left (why?!) while they hoped the space in front of the zig zags would be vacated. When it wasn't, they then offloaded their offspring on the zig zags
  • A dad drop off his son in a sports car. Then sit bang slap in the middle of the zig zags while rolling a cigarette. When challenged by another mother, he said coldly .. "I'm rolling my cigarette"..completely oblivious of the outrage of those who had asked him to clear the markings so people could safely cross.
  • A mother who regularly parks directly opposite the markings, mounted up on the kerb. It then funnels everyone's cars to drive into the zig zags in order to get round them. When challenged, usual haughtiness and arrogance. Couldn't see how this was causing any danger.

Last month we had a parking attendant out from the council .You can imagine what happened... all these people just melted away for a day, and then reappeared the next day.

So I have two real questions:

  1. AIBU to even care about this? Are zig-zags a thing of the past? Surely people do care about the ability to cross safely without having to peer around cars that want VIP parking?
  2. Have you had this problem before and how did your school solve it in the end?

Fully expect to be called U, but if so, can anyone explain then why I am unreasonable please?

Thanks in advance.

OP posts:
MandyMotherOfBrian · 20/07/2025 15:30

At the primary my DDs went to, the only thing that stopped it briefly was when local PCSOs would be onsite. But it’s one of the rare places where I’m not sure what parents are supposed to do. It’s a small Victorian school building (that has had a modern building added on the site to the rear of the original building). It’s in the middle of what would have been farmland all around, right down to the sea, when it was built. Located right next to the small Church it’s affiliated to. Would have been the school and Church for the tiny hamlets originally around it. Wedged between a single track road and another small road that is more modern but still narrow enough to not be able to park both sides. That road was probably built in the 1950s judging by the age of the ten houses built along it, and each house has a drive way so between those there is space for approximately ten cars to park on the road. The roads lead out to countryside in either direction, no paths, no parking opportunities further away. But because of all of the building in the local area this school now has to accommodate 500+ children. It’s walkable from one small housing area, or across fields from some other locations (not an option in winter). Genuinely don’t know what parents are supposed to do. The only reason I managed it was because for all of DDs time there I was either a SAHP or running my own business from home, and so could get there early enough to ensure I could get one of the few parking places. Quite a rare situation I imagine (I say that but there’s another village school not far in a similar location) but parents were still expected to navigate the situation.

BurntBroccoli · 20/07/2025 15:07

Arran2024 · 20/07/2025 11:46

Our local schools are on a road with some houses - there are roads at either end. The council has made it so you can't drive into the school road during certain hours in the morning and afternoon (unless you live there and have an exclusion) or you will be fined. They have cameras at each end. There are several of these in our borough - where they can physically do it they have done it.

Sounds a good option. Did the LA or highways sort the cameras?

BurntBroccoli · 20/07/2025 15:04

Doseofreality · 20/07/2025 13:46

Our Head Teacher is out there every morning and afternoon, in a high viz jacket, telling them to move.
Anyone who doesn’t comply gets their registration put on the weekly newsletter.

This is the way to do it! I would also add a photo!

Hodgemollar · 20/07/2025 15:03

intrepidpanda · 20/07/2025 13:20

Does that not just clog up the next street down? And what about residents?

Obviously like any road restrictions you can still drive down if you live there. I live a couple of streets away and it doesn’t clog any further streets because there is permit parking and you can’t park on the surrounding residential streets.

BurntBroccoli · 20/07/2025 15:02

Take a photo of the registration and report to 101 and also the school headmaster.

watchuswreckthemic · 20/07/2025 14:56

The standard of driving and parking including on the zig zags by both my kids schools (on the same site) is generally pretty dire.
There’s a road on a bus route and also the school drive for kids to navigate. The teaching staff at the juniors don’t come out to try and manage it and I don’t blame them really.
There’s a huge amount of children that seem to have no road safety awareness so it’s even more important for drivers to be vigilant and keep the zig zags free.
I’m highly un popular with many of the zig zags users as I drop off the min the gates open, and have no qualms about standing in front of their bonnet ‘trying’ to cross the road as they zoom in and want to zoom off again.

Doseofreality · 20/07/2025 13:46

Our Head Teacher is out there every morning and afternoon, in a high viz jacket, telling them to move.
Anyone who doesn’t comply gets their registration put on the weekly newsletter.

JaneGrint · 20/07/2025 13:42

intrepidpanda · 20/07/2025 13:19

Schools need to have a drive through system where they drive round the school car park and kids hop out and everyone moves on. Do parents get out the car and take their kids in? Or are they just stopping for 30sec for kids to jump out?

My DCs school actually has a car park where that sort of system would be theoretically possible, but they’ve had to lock the car park at drop off / pick up times because there were too many parents driving dangerously in the school car park.

Thisismyalterego · 20/07/2025 13:31

intrepidpanda · 20/07/2025 13:19

Schools need to have a drive through system where they drive round the school car park and kids hop out and everyone moves on. Do parents get out the car and take their kids in? Or are they just stopping for 30sec for kids to jump out?

Our school is a Victorian building with two car parks. One has 12 spaces and definitely no space to allow people to drive round so that children can 'hop out'. The other is a small area of land reclaimed from the school field, which again, has space for about 15 cars. The only way a drive through system would work here would be if we paid many thousands of £ to cover part of the field with tarmac to create a roadway. Or to allow parents' cars to churn up part of the field by driving across it. And of course, either of those would reduce the size of the field even further. We are definitely not the only school like this in our area, and a lot of schools locally have even smaller, or no car park at all.

intrepidpanda · 20/07/2025 13:20

Hodgemollar · 20/07/2025 12:38

Our school has stopped traffic driving on the street during the morning and afternoon. I love it.
If parents can’t be trusted to abide by the rules and park safely than banning them from driving near the school seems like the best option.

Does that not just clog up the next street down? And what about residents?

intrepidpanda · 20/07/2025 13:19

Schools need to have a drive through system where they drive round the school car park and kids hop out and everyone moves on. Do parents get out the car and take their kids in? Or are they just stopping for 30sec for kids to jump out?

Hodgemollar · 20/07/2025 12:38

TakeMe2Insanity · 20/07/2025 10:42

No idea but our council is turning most streets with schools in to school streets and that brings about a different level of pain to all concerned.

Our school has stopped traffic driving on the street during the morning and afternoon. I love it.
If parents can’t be trusted to abide by the rules and park safely than banning them from driving near the school seems like the best option.

Shelby1981 · 20/07/2025 12:19

AlliBallyBoo · 20/07/2025 10:44

Our council put up pedestrian guardrails along the length of the zig zags to make stopping and dropping off pointless.

Has meant that pedestrians now cannot cross apart from at the gap right in front of the school gates.

But overall an improvement.

Ours just pull up next to the rails and the child gets out the other side of the car into the middle of the road, with no concern for safety!

Endofyear · 20/07/2025 12:19

All schools round here put out cones morning and afternoon to stop people parking on the zigzags and double yellows. They have a staff member out front of school also to keep an eye on it. Our lollipop man used to challenge them politely but he got so much abuse and threats that he stopped, he's an elderly man! I honestly find it baffling that people will park dangerously outside their children's school 😳

jensondolally · 20/07/2025 12:17

You need to campaign for a school street. If parents aren’t able to drive and park safely then they shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near the school. The SS goes some way to stopping them.

Venalopolos · 20/07/2025 12:01

The school near me puts 3ft statuette/signs of cartoon police men holding signs about parking safety at 6ft intervals along the zig zags during the school day, so you can’t actually park on the zig zags.

ETA: like this signs2schools.co.uk/product/school-safety/kiddie-road-signs/police-officer-kiddie-cut-out-pavement-sign/

Onelifeonly · 20/07/2025 11:47

We've had the school streets system for some years now. Solved it for us as time limit is well before the children's arrival. Took a while to get staff passes though.

Arran2024 · 20/07/2025 11:46

Our local schools are on a road with some houses - there are roads at either end. The council has made it so you can't drive into the school road during certain hours in the morning and afternoon (unless you live there and have an exclusion) or you will be fined. They have cameras at each end. There are several of these in our borough - where they can physically do it they have done it.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 20/07/2025 11:44

Bizarrely our school has set up a drop off point (signs and everything) actually on the zig zags...

NuffSaidSam · 20/07/2025 11:42

I worked at a school where they put photos and number plates of offenders in the school newsletter. Name and shame approach. They also had the traffic enforcement officers out as often as possible. The headteacher would stand and remind people they couldn't park there. They'd put cones there. At one point they had year six standing there handing out leaflets about road safety.

It did cut it down, but unfortunately some people are cunts and nothing will get through to them.

Katemax82 · 20/07/2025 11:42

SabbatWheel · 20/07/2025 11:09

DD’s school had a thing where various Year 6 pupils volunteered on a rolling programme went out in hi viz with one of the school office staff a few minutes before the bell went to ask parents to move and they didn’t even move for the kids!
Police purges, reminders in school and local newsletters, SLT out on the lines, none of this has ever worked consistently. Lots of parents are just entitled arseholes.

I used to live opposite a school and twice came home (from my own school) to find someone parked on my drive (different people both times)! They got a tirade of abuse and shifted quickly.

I cant believe people have audacity to park on other people's drives!

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 20/07/2025 11:42

Nope, zig zags, double yellows, across drop curb crossing points, never solved.

I did school runs at the same primary for a decade, so saw different parents come and go and when one parent leaves that school, the new reception parent takes their place.

I used to take photos and constantly send to the council to no avail. They agreed to send a warden one time, and sent them at HALF TERM!!!

Honestly, I gave up. I cannot fathom parents who dont care a jot about the safety of the kids. As opposed to just wanting their kids dropped off close to the gate.

Matronic6 · 20/07/2025 11:41

Our school groundskeeper has to put cones up during drop off and pick up times and literally patrols the area. But they have just migrated and now block off a residential road and a care home entrance.

Katemax82 · 20/07/2025 11:41

Its probably the same at every school. Mine is in a small village with parking in the square, a big carport 5 mins walk away and street parking on the hill directly outside the school. However due to the street parking you can only drive one car at a time down the hill (cars coming the other way have to reverse) but parents still block the hill by stopping directly outside the school office completely blocking the road for a few minutes while they run their kids in. Other parents probably get pissed off waiting behind them but say nothing. However I've witnessed men in vans having a go at these mums when they have been blocked by them which has been entertaining

travelinsurancequestion · 20/07/2025 11:39

I live opposite a school in a London borough. We have cameras which stops this.

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