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To think gps push meds too easily for mh

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Catatedog · 19/07/2025 13:03

while I appreciate Ads are really helpful for some ppl i feel gps push these before lifestyle advice and they know psychological therapy access is poor

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BraOffPjsOn · 19/07/2025 22:17

YANBU - in my early 20s I went to the GP explaining I felt tired all the time and had for a long time! GP said he thought I was depressed and prescribed AD. I took them and couldn’t get out of bed all week - so I stopped. After years of blood tests not showing anything, a dr listened to me saying about the pressure around my eyes and sent me to ENT - polyps! Different person after surgery.

i think AD can support people with MH illness however doctors need to be more accountable for leaving people on them forever! They do not follow up or care or support people to come off them. Withdrawals can be horrendous and when it’s a struggle, they increase meds or add new ones in - starting the whole reduction and withdrawal process again and it can feel impossible.

I hope one day we look back and it’s unbelievable that this ever happened.

Catatedog · 19/07/2025 22:14

ThePure · 19/07/2025 22:06

Any of them could have prescribed it then could they not? And/ or written to the GP stating ‘please prescribe amitriptyline’. Depending on the reason for being under a crisis team GP might be reluctant to prescribe a drug known to be lethal in overdose. Either way amitriptyline is hardly a holistic lifestyle option suggestion. It’s just another drug.

Yes they could and still may do depending how things gobble u. Self harm risk is not a concern but the suggested neds are in light of other symptomds. It was honestly more about the innmediate offer of meds withoutcany obvious aaassessment m or reading other letters.

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Nchangeo · 19/07/2025 22:14

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:55

The first thing all the patients said to me when I was sectioned was you need to try to get a psychologist. Patients valued them highly and considered them gold dust.

oh, for sure. I trained in the US, where everyone, psychotherapists, counsellors and psychologists all do the same basic training, and then take specialist classes for what they want to do. When I moved back to the UK, I really struggled to find an equivalent role to what I had in the US, so did a training here. It was eye opening. I was in the school of nursing - wtf? Nursing and psychology are very different disciplines, and one does not necessarily set you up for the other.

Dont get me wrong, I have supervised a lot of people who have switched from nursing into therapy and been great. But also seen a lot who are appalling, who really see it as nursing with worksheets and really put people off therapy.

The training structure in this country is too much influenced by different bodies who lobby for their own members, and not enough overseen by an impartial body. So I do think there are more really crappy practitioners out there.

I would like to see the HPC license all mental health professionals with common expectations for training and knowledge.

As for psychiatrists - they are not trained therapists. Some get additional training. But many do not. And I find in the NHS they feel like they walk on water - I was used to a much more team spirit collaborative approach before I moved back to the UK.

That’s really interesting. Thank you for sharing. Hopefully this improves here.

ThePure · 19/07/2025 22:06

Catatedog · 19/07/2025 21:49

I do appreciate it was orriginally an AD. However, I am primarily concerned about physical pain disturbing sleep and then worsening mh my surgeon, gastro and crisis team all felt approproiate way to mannage symptms but HP immediately jumped to another AD which is known to worsen symptoms i have just felt script was written before they spoke to me.

Any of them could have prescribed it then could they not? And/ or written to the GP stating ‘please prescribe amitriptyline’. Depending on the reason for being under a crisis team GP might be reluctant to prescribe a drug known to be lethal in overdose. Either way amitriptyline is hardly a holistic lifestyle option suggestion. It’s just another drug.

Catatedog · 19/07/2025 22:04

DustyTangerine · 19/07/2025 21:57

Evidence rather grey on what? I’m certain they saved my life. I don’t need any more evidence than that to say confidently that they save lives.

glad they helped. On an individual level its impossible to know if it was the tablets active ingredients or taking a tablet to help. In studies around 45% of people improve with sugar pills. The evidence is also stronger in more severe depression.

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DustyTangerine · 19/07/2025 21:57

BlueJuniper94 · 19/07/2025 18:59

Is the evidence not rather grey on this?

Evidence rather grey on what? I’m certain they saved my life. I don’t need any more evidence than that to say confidently that they save lives.

Catatedog · 19/07/2025 21:57

Has anyone read Fragile Minds by Bella Jackson? Frankly terrifying on mh reccording and meds. Patients were reported to have pritty normal reactions to staff behaviiur. This was reported as symptomatic of the.condition and suggest increasing tranquilisers to the point iof falls.

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UrbanOasis · 19/07/2025 21:57

I love my ADs. Just wish I'd taken them sooner. I know that's not the same for everyone, but they have been life changing for me. So glad my GP prescribed them.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:55

The first thing all the patients said to me when I was sectioned was you need to try to get a psychologist. Patients valued them highly and considered them gold dust.

oh, for sure. I trained in the US, where everyone, psychotherapists, counsellors and psychologists all do the same basic training, and then take specialist classes for what they want to do. When I moved back to the UK, I really struggled to find an equivalent role to what I had in the US, so did a training here. It was eye opening. I was in the school of nursing - wtf? Nursing and psychology are very different disciplines, and one does not necessarily set you up for the other.

Dont get me wrong, I have supervised a lot of people who have switched from nursing into therapy and been great. But also seen a lot who are appalling, who really see it as nursing with worksheets and really put people off therapy.

The training structure in this country is too much influenced by different bodies who lobby for their own members, and not enough overseen by an impartial body. So I do think there are more really crappy practitioners out there.

I would like to see the HPC license all mental health professionals with common expectations for training and knowledge.

As for psychiatrists - they are not trained therapists. Some get additional training. But many do not. And I find in the NHS they feel like they walk on water - I was used to a much more team spirit collaborative approach before I moved back to the UK.

Nchangeo · 19/07/2025 21:51

Serencwtch · 19/07/2025 21:47

What lifestyle advice is going to replace the medication for my schizoaffective disorder?

Are all people with schizophrenia & schizoaffective having meds replaced with this advice & therapy.

The biggest cause of cancer are lifestyle choices & factors - can we delay cancer treatment & offer lifestyle advice first - if they fail to comply they don't get the chemo?

Sleep, stress management, trigger recognition and management, exercise like yoga, mindfulness like meditation, mood management, talking therapy, cbt, it’s a lot of work. But the brain is plastic and having been one of the rare individuals who went to the edge. It’s possible to train the brain to recognise the ledge and go back.

Catatedog · 19/07/2025 21:49

ThePure · 19/07/2025 21:42

Yes I thought that was odd

GPs prescribe too many antidepressants and yet I am cross because my GP did not prescribe me an antidepressant!

I do appreciate it was orriginally an AD. However, I am primarily concerned about physical pain disturbing sleep and then worsening mh my surgeon, gastro and crisis team all felt approproiate way to mannage symptms but HP immediately jumped to another AD which is known to worsen symptoms i have just felt script was written before they spoke to me.

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Serencwtch · 19/07/2025 21:47

What lifestyle advice is going to replace the medication for my schizoaffective disorder?

Are all people with schizophrenia & schizoaffective having meds replaced with this advice & therapy.

The biggest cause of cancer are lifestyle choices & factors - can we delay cancer treatment & offer lifestyle advice first - if they fail to comply they don't get the chemo?

Nchangeo · 19/07/2025 21:47

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:41

However the NHS don’t want to put in the leg work, and they don’t want to risk it.

I think it is less a situation of not wanting to do the leg work and more about structure. The NHS has a focus on doctors and nurses - there are relatively few psychologists and in many areas psychotherapists and counsellors are not valued or prioritized.

So if most MH staff are medical model trained, they are going to go towards medications.

As for risk - yep, the whole NHS runs scared. But look at what happens when something bad happens.

This is true. I had two psychiatrists. One literally knew nothing but medication. Frankly they were awful they didn’t listen at all. I felt they considered me a case to be ‘managed’ rather than I could recover.

The other psychiatrist was great. She was really thoughtful and holistic really.

I had to fight for a psychologist and luckily got one. He was really important in my recovery. It’s funny you say they are underrated by professionals. The first thing all the patients said to me when I was sectioned was you need to try to get a psychologist. Patients valued them highly and considered them gold dust.

ThePure · 19/07/2025 21:42

bluecurtains14 · 19/07/2025 15:51

You do know that amitryptiline is an antidepressant? One which is very heavy on side effects and dangerous in OD.

Yes I thought that was odd

GPs prescribe too many antidepressants and yet I am cross because my GP did not prescribe me an antidepressant!

Catatedog · 19/07/2025 21:42

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:32

and lots of 'therapists' don't seem to be any good

So, any profession will have good and not so good practitioners. But this is why 1. psychotherapist and counselor should be protected titles. 2. Accreditation should be done by the HPC. 3. Consumers should be better educated to interview potential therapists.

In this country we also have a glut of people who only have a narrow focus or one theoretical orientation. Instead of people who have a good solid base in common with people who practice but who may use a different orientation or approach. IAPT services did not help. There are a lot of people claiming to be psychotherapists who only have training in CBT, and not very good CBT at that. It got highjacked by some professions such as nursing or OTs, who do not necessarily come in with a psychological focus.

agree on protecting the title. Also not sure MH nurses are best placed to use therapy. One toldme that I had not been having therapy because it did not have homework. While it did not formally have homework i def made changes and have maintained these by talking about patterns that did not seem helpful.

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Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:41

However the NHS don’t want to put in the leg work, and they don’t want to risk it.

I think it is less a situation of not wanting to do the leg work and more about structure. The NHS has a focus on doctors and nurses - there are relatively few psychologists and in many areas psychotherapists and counsellors are not valued or prioritized.

So if most MH staff are medical model trained, they are going to go towards medications.

As for risk - yep, the whole NHS runs scared. But look at what happens when something bad happens.

Fridaynightfish · 19/07/2025 21:40

Mine didn’t. When I’ve spoken about my health anxiety over the years, my GP has told me she doesn’t think I need meds - the decision to start them took place after lots of discussions.

She is very balanced - I now take them. But it wasn’t a quick decision and wasn’t seen as a quick fix.

Nchangeo · 19/07/2025 21:37

I agree it’s the lazy option sometimes.

I do believe in psychiatric medicine. But I think it should be seen as acute firefighting rather than necessarily long term (obviously there are many exceptions).

I had first episode psychosis. Thankfully I had a friend who guided me through it. After I was medium recovered they said you need to get off these meds. Sent me the papers to back it up. He was right. Newer research shows people with the right support who stop antipsychotics after a short period with FEP; do have better long term outcomes.

However the NHS don’t want to put in the leg work, and they don’t want to risk it.
Stopping the antipsychotics increase the short term relapse rate. And every relapse makes the situation more likely to develop into longer term conditions like schizophrenia. But statistically as a whole cohort; the cohort who do stop are better off in long term stability and relapse.

Its tough. I am super grateful I had that extra support and whilst the early intervention in psychosis service is world class it still has a way to go imo.

ThePure · 19/07/2025 21:33

In most areas you can self refer to NHS Talking Therapies so you don’t need a GP for that. What else have they really got to offer apart from meds?

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:32

and lots of 'therapists' don't seem to be any good

So, any profession will have good and not so good practitioners. But this is why 1. psychotherapist and counselor should be protected titles. 2. Accreditation should be done by the HPC. 3. Consumers should be better educated to interview potential therapists.

In this country we also have a glut of people who only have a narrow focus or one theoretical orientation. Instead of people who have a good solid base in common with people who practice but who may use a different orientation or approach. IAPT services did not help. There are a lot of people claiming to be psychotherapists who only have training in CBT, and not very good CBT at that. It got highjacked by some professions such as nursing or OTs, who do not necessarily come in with a psychological focus.

ThePure · 19/07/2025 21:29

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 19/07/2025 21:14

I recommend reading ‘Lost Connections: why you’re depressed and how to find hope’ by Johann Hari. He covers the research into antidepressants and talks to lots of experts in the field.

In the meantime here is an umbrella review from 2022:

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41380-022-01661-0

Edited

That paper has been heavily criticised for bias
Joanna Moncrieff has made a career out of being against antidepressants. I would take anything she says with a huge pinch of salt.

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41380-023-02093-0

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/07/2025 21:28

why the rapid increaase

Services for MH are in freefall crisis. Waiting times have increased so much that even people in crisis may have to wait. IME when GPs knew that people may be seen quite quickly they were more ready to suggest waiting. But in the absence of other services, offering meds at least feels like doing something which may help.

Catatedog · 19/07/2025 21:25

WasItLoveOrSomethingElse · 19/07/2025 20:59

Oh and I agree with you. Trying to figure out what kind of help you need when you are already not well is difficult (if not impossible) and lots of 'therapists' don't seem to be any good. Thus why I'm considering the expensive clinical psychotherapists.

I also think there is even confusion among the mental health professionals as there does seem to be overlap between alot of conditions. I am still confused as to whether complex trauma means I have a disorganised attachment style ( i think it does) and also is complex trauma the same as having BPD as lots of the symptoms seem similar and overlapped.

Agree and its not like a scan or blood test shows which you have and the best treatments.

One of the most helpful things from therapy was thinking about activities in terms of if they soothe or cause stress. I had never really thought of this balance so would push and push until meltdown.

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Catatedog · 19/07/2025 21:20

I also feel both the Anxious Generation and Dose effect are good books on how to combat societal pressures which dont support wellness.

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InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 19/07/2025 21:16

Sorry that was in response to @WasItLoveOrSomethingElse

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