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People on phones all the time in supermarkets asking questions to person on other end of call

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uihd · 18/07/2025 17:48

If shopping for a friend or relative. Or your OH who doesn't do the shopping, please be more descriptive with your shopping lists!

As in Aldi today, I kept on being near to 3 different people who kept ringing whoever asking what do you mean by chicken? What size milk do you want?

Chicken - whole, portions or cooked for salads/sandwiches? Milk - size, type and fresh or UHT?

Everyone has their own way of writing shopping lists but only them can decipher it. Perhaps their OH if they actually know the workings of their partner's list writing.

Due to them standing right in front of the shelves, it made it difficult for other shoppers to just grab something they know what to do buy.

OP posts:
Ponderingwindow · 18/07/2025 17:52

It doesn’t matter how descriptive I make the list, my husband will still call. Don’t blame the list writers for incompetent shoppers.

a household that buys the same exact milk for 20 years should not need to have the size or type of milk written on the list. Nor should the list need to include a contingency if the preferred size is out of stock. An adult who has lived and participated in the household should be able to figure out a solution.

verycloakanddaggers · 18/07/2025 17:51

I think you just need to learn to live with this as that genie is not going back in the bottle!