DH is part of a team sport - has been for years no issues usually with it.
he has brought home a small ‘goldfish’ in a tiny tank. This small fish has been passed around different team members. Apparently if it dies on your watch you have to pay a fine.
the fish clearly isn’t being cared for properly, the water is cloudy it has no filter or air stone.
Ive looked up the type of fish and it’s not even a goldfish - it’s a small orange tropical fish that requires a heater.
I'm absolutely furious! I hate any cruelty to animals and think this type of lads game from a 40 yr old man is ridiculous.
first off mumsnetters AIBU? And if you think no what should I do?
worst part is that DH agrees that it’s cruel but for some reason ‘doesn’t want to cause a fuss’