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Green man or person?

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Tiddybiddy247 · 17/07/2025 20:52

I'm probably going to get crucified for this but I'm asking out of genuine curiosity and here for answers as it were.

Was in town this morning getting ready to cross the road with my toddler and I always say to him "let's wait for the green man" and then we shout "there he is let's go!" And cross the road. This morning another mum arrived next to us and heard me and gave me a kind a dirty look. She turns to her daughter and goes "we need to wait for the green person don't we? " But like with emphasis on the person. I didn't know what to think 🤔 on the one hand she has a point, it could very well be a woman in trousers, but it just doesn't look very feminine... also I've always called it the green man. I suppose I'm terribly old fashioned to be going around assuming genders?

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Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 20:58

hereismydog · 17/07/2025 20:54

Virtue signalling, performative bollocks.

Perfect 👌

Crunchienuts · 17/07/2025 20:57

Tut. We wait for the green non-binary individual.

Ukholidaysaregreat · 17/07/2025 20:55

O I was hoping for the original green man. Herne the Hunter. 🌿🌳 Nevermind. As you were.

Boshlily · 17/07/2025 20:55

I heard someone do this once with their daughter and I now am desperate to know if it is the same person. Are you in the SW at all? I would consider myself a feminist but I am happy to allow the green man their traffic safety patriarchy tbh.

Kibble19 · 17/07/2025 20:55

My eyes are rolling straight out my skull at this “green person” nonsense.

TheNeverEndingOver · 17/07/2025 20:55

Yawn in her face, what a bore

Themomentsheknewshefkedup · 17/07/2025 20:54

hereismydog · 17/07/2025 20:54

Virtue signalling, performative bollocks.

This

hereismydog · 17/07/2025 20:54

Virtue signalling, performative bollocks.