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Redsatin109 · 17/07/2025 19:35

Just heard from other parents that apparently they’ll be reducing the amount of water y2 and upwards can have next year. So limiting the amount of times they can access their water bottle. This is because they’re only allowed to go to the toilets at breaks/lunch and it’s to limit toileting accidents in the classroom.

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Brickiscool · 19/07/2025 15:34

Lessons are pretty short in infant school. Maths for my year one class is generally about 45 mins. And no they don't need a drink in that time. They can drink to their hearts content at break just before and lunch just after. But during that 45 mins they need to be concentrating and not pissing about with a bottle. Because none of them bring in normal bottles they've all got stupid spraying ability or charms hanging off or fancy unscrewing lids so they can be knocked over and spilt. It almost as if parents want to make the bottles as annoying and distracting as humanly possible. And they don't label them with their names so kids with identical bottles fall out and argue. And kids with fancy bottles cry when they lose them.

CurlewKate · 19/07/2025 15:28

I hesitate to post this-but does anyone feel a little uncomfortable focussing on our privileged developed world children’s constant access to water (which is absolutely not a “science thing”) when 450m children worldwide do not have access to to clean drinking water?
And, yes I know some children have a medical need…..

cadburyegg · 19/07/2025 15:25

Our school limits it to a certain degree. The children have to put their water bottles on a trolley and if a child is thirsty during a lesson they have to put their hand up and ask if they can get a drink. The only exception to this is when it’s very hot. Tbh I don’t blame them. Constant access to water bottles would probably mean kids fiddling with them, knocking them over, spilling them and with some bottles containing squash, that means sticky desks and floors. Just general low level disruption.

CurlewKate · 19/07/2025 15:14

Still no science…

Elbowpatch · 19/07/2025 13:26

Snakebite61 · 19/07/2025 10:36

Kids (and adults) need plenty of water to be healthy. This is verging on abuse.

Don’t be ridiculous!

They can drink plenty of water before school, during school breaks during the day and after school.

Elbowpatch · 19/07/2025 13:23

When I invigilated exams, I used to warn students not to guzzle too much water because what goes in has to come out.

I remember one student who wasted a full 30 minutes of a three hour exam going to the loo.

Rpop · 19/07/2025 13:22

It’s fine to have rules about having a non-spill bottle, no air ups etc. anything to make a teacher’s life easier. Our teachers manage perfectly well in our primary school with water bottles in the classroom. Most people don’t drink enough. It is not a helpful rule in instil in children - metered access to water. Works for some, will not work for others.

Rpop · 19/07/2025 13:15

As an adult I drink a lot more than some other people. When I didn’t yesterday, I became dizzy and felt terrible. We all have different tolerances. Especially in very humid weather. Children should not have access to water restricted. We didn’t know as much about this when we were younger. Now we know how important it is to drink.

KilkennyCats · 19/07/2025 12:51

LouiseK93 · 19/07/2025 11:48

Kids should have access to a drink whenever they want! Being thirsty isnt on a schedule

But drinking to a schedule prevents you feeling randomly thirsty 🤨

MrsSkylerWhite · 19/07/2025 12:44

Cosyblankets · 17/07/2025 19:40

Primary school so guessing say start at nine break at 1030 lunch at say 12 until 1 then another break at 2 then home at 3.
How long will they be without their water? Hour and half at the longest?
What's the issue?

This
(sensible headteachers will set different rules for heat waves).

saraclara · 19/07/2025 12:42

I'd be amazed if the same kids are drinking as frequently at home as some of the parents of her think they should at school.

If my child was asking for a proper drink every hour or less, I'd be concerned and worry about diabetes.

MimiGC · 19/07/2025 12:40

Constantly sipping from water bottles has become a habit now, for adults and children, but it isn’t necessary. I’m old enough to have gone through all my schooling before water bottles were a thing. Literally nobody had one. I don’t even remember drinking from the water fountain at break time. I had a small drink with my lunch and that was it. I don’t remember being thirsty, even in hot weather. I still don’t drink a lot, as I never formed the habit. It doesn’t appear to have done me any harm.

Cosyblankets · 19/07/2025 12:25

LouiseK93 · 19/07/2025 11:37

This is complete bs no way would i allow a school to enforce this on my child!

To enforce what?
An hour and a half without water?
What do you think will happen?

DappledThings · 19/07/2025 12:06

LouiseK93 · 19/07/2025 11:48

Kids should have access to a drink whenever they want! Being thirsty isnt on a schedule

But as plenty of teachers have attested they are playing with bottles, fiddling and taking tiny sips for the sake of it.

Bottles in schools altogether is unnecessary and a pointless distraction. They only go short times between breaks anyway. It's ridiculous to think they need absolutely constant access to water

LouiseK93 · 19/07/2025 11:48

Kids should have access to a drink whenever they want! Being thirsty isnt on a schedule

cyvguhb · 19/07/2025 11:42

LouiseK93 · 19/07/2025 11:37

This is complete bs no way would i allow a school to enforce this on my child!

Why? Presumably as your child has a life threatening condition that requires constant drinking the school would be happy to accommodate them. What makes you think theyd ignore medical advice?

LouiseK93 · 19/07/2025 11:37

This is complete bs no way would i allow a school to enforce this on my child!

NeverOneBiscuit · 19/07/2025 10:58

Vynalbob

The first article you posted states that it’s not recommended for children to be sipping water during the day. Instead they should be taking a larger drink at intervals.

This fits in perfectly with having a good swig from the water bottle on arrival, breaks, lunch & home time.

The article also states that too many children don’t drink enough before school. Which is surprising if so many of them need to be permanently attached to water bottles during lessons 🤔

Strictly1 · 19/07/2025 10:46

‘Just heard from other parents’ makes me question the accuracy.

Petlover9 · 19/07/2025 10:46

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 19:39

When I was at school drinking during lessons was unheard of, have bodies changed so much that they now can't survive ?

Agree with you. We were not allowed to drink in class, only at break times. You were allowed "to be excused" if you really needed the loo.

Snakebite61 · 19/07/2025 10:36

KilkennyCats · 17/07/2025 19:36

Hmm

Kids (and adults) need plenty of water to be healthy. This is verging on abuse.

AlleycatMarie · 19/07/2025 10:30

Redsatin109 · 17/07/2025 19:35

Just heard from other parents that apparently they’ll be reducing the amount of water y2 and upwards can have next year. So limiting the amount of times they can access their water bottle. This is because they’re only allowed to go to the toilets at breaks/lunch and it’s to limit toileting accidents in the classroom.

Specialist doctors will tell you that constant sipping on water isn’t good for kidneys. Having a larger drink of water at break and lunch is better.

KilkennyCats · 19/07/2025 10:25

CurlewKate · 19/07/2025 08:17

This website recommends 3/4 glasses of water in a day. So before school, break, lunch and after school should cover that nicely.

As it did, for countless generations.

Rocknrollstar · 19/07/2025 08:31

How did we all go to school and survive without constantly drinking from bottles of water ?

CurlewKate · 19/07/2025 08:17

Vynalbob · 18/07/2025 22:13

This website recommends 3/4 glasses of water in a day. So before school, break, lunch and after school should cover that nicely.