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Redsatin109 · 17/07/2025 19:35

Just heard from other parents that apparently they’ll be reducing the amount of water y2 and upwards can have next year. So limiting the amount of times they can access their water bottle. This is because they’re only allowed to go to the toilets at breaks/lunch and it’s to limit toileting accidents in the classroom.

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5128gap · 17/07/2025 21:05

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:38

Why did you spend the 80s thirsty?

Because we only drank tea in the morning and orange squash after school. Maybe an ovaltine before bed. The school toilets were full of the scary girls smoking and they'd steal your 50p dinner money to buy half a cider at lunch, so a lot of us didn't drink so we didn't need to go.

missy111 · 17/07/2025 21:04

They’re not limiting water, they’re limiting the amount of times they can get up and drink. So they can have a good amount of fluid they just can’t sit there sipping all day

DiscoBob · 17/07/2025 21:03

Through out my whole school career we weren't permitted drinks in the classroom. And we were allowed to go toilet whenever we needed. If we 'asked'. Maybe that was a more sensible way.

LillyPJ · 17/07/2025 21:03

Sounds ok to me. Noone needs constant access to water and it can become a distraction in the classroom. As long as they have access to water in break times and a bit more, they'll be fine.

Treesarenotforeating · 17/07/2025 21:03

If ours have their bottles on their desks they are constantly fiddling with them or slurping from them. So they are kept on the side shelf
absolute pain in the arse

Eastendboysandwestendgirls · 17/07/2025 21:01

As pps have said, children drinking water as and when is endlessly disruptive. You start a lesson, you are interrupted by kids fucking about with their bottle, you ask a question and hands go up with their response being, "Can I fill my bottle?" "Can I go to the toilet?" Constant trudging to the sink, children coming and going to the loo. Start, stop, start stop. We tried limiting water and had multiple complaints from parents - not children. It is not surprising that the repeat toilet visitors are often those with lower attainment, yet to try to increase their achievement by actually learning is seemingly at odds with their human rights.

Sirzy · 17/07/2025 20:57

BernardButlersBra · 17/07/2025 20:38

I naively thought schools were about educating?! Not enforcing more and more bizarre and ridiculous rules. A school near us is like this and it's safe to say our children won't be going there

It’s hard to educate when lessons are interrupted by children ‘needing’ a drink or the toilet 5 minutes after coming in from a break though!

constant interruptions don’t lead to the best education.

doodleschnoodle · 17/07/2025 20:55

I think the world has gone a bit water bottle mad in general, not just kids.

ExpressCheckout · 17/07/2025 20:54

Pricelessadvice · 17/07/2025 19:37

Years ago we were only allowed a drink at break and lunch. We all survived.
I’m not sure why kids have to permanently be attached to a water bottle nowadays.

^ This. We were fine, we passed our exams, and we didn't die of dehydration. I feel truly sorry for teachers today having to put up with this nonsense.

Fond memories - the big, aluminium water jug we shared at lunchtime, and the little plastic cups we used. Oh, and there was a water fountain I think! 1970s.

RaraRachael · 17/07/2025 20:53

Pricelessadvice · 17/07/2025 19:37

Years ago we were only allowed a drink at break and lunch. We all survived.
I’m not sure why kids have to permanently be attached to a water bottle nowadays.

Me too.

As a teacher I hated trying to teach something while kids were slurping water or juice from gigantic bottles.

Mansionscoldandgrey · 17/07/2025 20:51

Do these children sleep through the night, or are their parents waking them every 30 minutes to pour water down their throats to avoid dehydration?

NeverOneBiscuit · 17/07/2025 20:50

Water bottles in classrooms are a huge disruption. Constant requests to refill them, go outside to drink from them if it’s a lab/computer room (secondary school). Once one’s out there’s a sea of hands to join them as it’s basically a social.

They spill on the desks, pupils squirt them at each other. Even when not drinking from them they chew the top, roll them around, or if it’s a single use bottle they scrunch empty ones as loudly as possible.

Some pupils will down huge amounts of water (or whatever else is in the bottle) then are horrified when, despite you warning them it’s at the teachers discretion to let them out, they can’t immediately go to the loo.

Often, once in the loo, it’s an age before they return as they’re on their mobile phone.

The trend to act as though they’re in a desert is ridiculous. In secondary school you have breaks, lunch & to & from lessons to drink.

I know this thread is about primary school but this is where it starts. Obviously pupils with health conditions that require it should have constant access to water: I worked with 2 in 6 years. As for using the toilet no young child should be sitting desperate to go, they should be allowed.

Ultimately it’s something they need to learn to regulate, just as we try to help them to regulate their language, behaviour, emotions etc.

footballfan1963 · 17/07/2025 20:47

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 19:39

When I was at school drinking during lessons was unheard of, have bodies changed so much that they now can't survive ?

I went to primary school in the 80s and still remember how thirsty I got!

After outdoor PE on a hot day, we would all queue up for the water fountain. When it was your turn, all the other kids in line would count loudly up to 10 after which your turn was over 😂

BlueSeagull · 17/07/2025 20:41

Pricelessadvice · 17/07/2025 19:37

Years ago we were only allowed a drink at break and lunch. We all survived.
I’m not sure why kids have to permanently be attached to a water bottle nowadays.

This! was thinking same, also remember you could only use toilets at break

Henopause · 17/07/2025 20:39

Bennettfan · 17/07/2025 20:28

You’re wrong here I’m afraid. The strict academy rules actually mean that some teaching and learning can get done, and whilst students might bristle against it all surveys show that on the whole students feel safer and happier in schools like that.

Really?
I’m surprised. My dealings with academies in the SEN sphere is overwhelmingly bad, with huge problems with school refusal and mental illness, which matches up with the overall picture of the current situation for school children’s wellbeing.

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:38

ManyATrueWord · 17/07/2025 20:36

The obsession with water comes from at least three things
Fear of fat - you are wlss likely to overwatch if you are not thirsty. See "Are you actually hungry or are you just thirsty?"
Brains work better when hydrated fully. There's probably some research out there proving it.
Those of us who spent the 80s thirsty remember how uncomfortable life was.

Why did you spend the 80s thirsty?

BernardButlersBra · 17/07/2025 20:38

I naively thought schools were about educating?! Not enforcing more and more bizarre and ridiculous rules. A school near us is like this and it's safe to say our children won't be going there

FunMustard · 17/07/2025 20:36

I really think it is ridiculous to get wound up about this. Most of the year kids can manage without having access to water every second of every day.

And of course there'll be exemptions for medical issues Hmm

ManyATrueWord · 17/07/2025 20:36

The obsession with water comes from at least three things
Fear of fat - you are wlss likely to overwatch if you are not thirsty. See "Are you actually hungry or are you just thirsty?"
Brains work better when hydrated fully. There's probably some research out there proving it.
Those of us who spent the 80s thirsty remember how uncomfortable life was.

Moveoverdarlin · 17/07/2025 20:34

I think it’s fine. Break times and lunch times is fine. Maybe more access in hot weather.

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:34

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 17/07/2025 20:31

I am happy to be that "one".

I pity the future employers of your children is that the kind of attitude you're bringing them up with, I bet the school staff love you

Screamingabdabz · 17/07/2025 20:33

Jeez I hated tap water and even on the hottest days I don’t think I ever drank anything at school back in the day. I was thirsty by the time I got home but I’m still alive to tell the tale.

It’s incredible what pandering there is now to every little whim of children and yet mental health and well-being are rock bottom and getting worse.

I agree with school and I think you’re massively overreacting op.

Blank1234 · 17/07/2025 20:33

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 17/07/2025 20:31

I am happy to be that "one".

I don’t know why, it’s not something to be proud of or encouraged 🤷‍♀️

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:33

stichguru · 17/07/2025 20:22

Stupid. The kids who are peeing to get out of lessons will still pretend to want to pee, and the kids that try to control their drinking so they don't need to pee will get dehydrated!

How long do you think primary school lessons are? Dehydration? 😂they aren't trekking across the Sahara

Ribenaberry12 · 17/07/2025 20:32

Sounds sensible to me. Helps them learn to manage their water intake, their bladders and to focus on tasks.

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